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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by beebe007: 3:41pm On Oct 12, 2020
my xperience about friends f*ckd up not 10 bt I Knew it is this that mks me do the best I can for my self and my family...
it's my intention to run a post in my office which I informed my friend s, not up to a week that I disclose my mind I just see my phone ring on one afternoon pick is one of my junior inviting me to a gardrin, telling me it's another contestant who who running for secretary that invite us although m for vice-chairman. on the very day I get another call from that Same guy changing the location and I said no pro.
to my greatest surprised I met all contestant from one group (meanwhile I never belong to any group) with three friends of my, bt among the three there is one that we are more close than the rest.
after introduction I realize that another lady is also aiming my post and getting affraid of loosing into my hand cus of my little porpularity. emediately they all stands up and started Begin me to leave the post for the lady with much pressure on me,
emediately I left the place all I realize from my friends is I should let her go while I step down. I left the venue.

its later later that I started treatning the junior that called me for the meeting for biting he now confess that is my friend that ask him to call me in collaboration with other group to silent my campeign..

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by SeanBeezy(m): 4:04pm On Oct 12, 2020
sonnie10:

You won’t understand. This was somebody I kept in my house and was feeding. It wasn’t really business but help. I wanted him to raise enough money to stay on his own.
He made more than 100% profit within that short period because I was taking care of his personal daily expenses. I even encouraged him to put back everything so that his returns would compound.
Bros, even the guy himself knew that I tried him.
You don't need to explain further bro.
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by SeanBeezy(m): 4:22pm On Oct 12, 2020
Eaglefine:
I am very much careful with friends now cos someone I opened my door whole heatedly, betrayed me.

Am much comfortable with male friends than women. I mean responsible male-friends.
Bcoz is my fellow woman kept me where I am now.
You mind sharing so others can learn?

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by ifyy07(m): 4:29pm On Oct 12, 2020
[quote author=marwanafrica post=94868198]

Please guys correct me if i m wrong.

Those that see themselves lucky when woman flocks around them, to me they are unwise and shortsighted fellow of life, there is more to life than womanizing,
1) Aim Big success.
2) Impact lives.
3) Marry
And wait for devine calling to meet the lord your God. [/quote
In that comments did you see where I said I'm lucky women flocks around me try and comprehend before you come here and start unnecessary preaching.... hypocrite

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 6:05pm On Oct 12, 2020
angelfallz:


you obviously jumped the part where he said, he was calling him so that they can continue smoking weed and helping him tie it, not to ask for money.

Seriously?? undecided

He has modified his comment undecided
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Nobody: 6:07pm On Oct 12, 2020
HakimZiyech:
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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by hinere(m): 7:00pm On Oct 12, 2020
Hmm
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by otobasin2323(m): 7:02pm On Oct 12, 2020
durasome:
. that saying "there is love in sharing"never reach your side?
to the extend of sharing my serious date with me, bro reason am na
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Bobkayz: 9:00pm On Oct 12, 2020
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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by GeneralKoko(m): 12:51am On Oct 13, 2020
MNDY:


I fit into this exact description. I look soo good that many people want to get close and be friends with. But they start feeling inferior when I let them in briefly.

To help their inferiority complex around me, they talk me down, throw shades, condemn virtually anything I do (even while copying it), and never say something nice to me. The bad negative energy is their way of getting me pissed and feel less of myself.

I give those types small time to reveal themselves and then terminate our closeness by avoiding and quarreling with them. And then the apology comes but I don't reconcile with them.

I know a very few who are exceptions though. I love them very much and hang around them very well. They are not bothered by these things. Very free and pure-hearted from thorough observation


I had a bestie that did this to me ... Mine is wayyyy worse than yours because the friendship lasted for three years . I genuinely liked that girl more than myself but she kept on putting me down , pissing me off at every visit , yabbing me to make others laugh and all . I started withdrawing gradually , it took me time tho . There are times she'd send me out of her house . But it all started coming to an end when I entered Uni . I started keeping the distance and acting weird . By that time she had already given me low self esteem and drained my energy . Omo na long story oh .
I remember this time when she said one of her friends is now a big girl and would not want to associate with me . Fast forward to my matric day , the girl was all over me and that my bestie was shocked as hell . Thank God say I don recover Sha .


I even saw the shegoat today

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Aaaaarghmed(m): 3:25am On Oct 13, 2020
I lost my trust in friends when someone who we suffered togeda in sch,ate togeda,slept on the same bed even though we stayed in different houses off campus.we had known for 13 years and he had an opportunity to give me a job after i graduated but instead he stopped picking my calls.Even my mum,dad and siblings are surprised till today for what he did because he was practically a family friend.

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Aaaaarghmed(m): 3:30am On Oct 13, 2020
Let me just say he became a youth leader in my community and slots for jobs are usually given to him to bring pple for the vacant positions.Na so the fool promise me sotey I tire for life,I mistakenly stumbled on a book he wrote all the pple he helped,they were more than 18pple.He never wanted me to be better than him that's why he failed to help me.I deleted his numbers and cut all communications with him till today.Thank God am doing better for myself now.Thank you lord.

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by lenghtinny(m): 8:21am On Oct 14, 2020
Kweensavvy:


Ahahah lolz proper case study of a narcissist. It's fine you blocked him. Narcissist go definitely monitor you. Na their life be that. Funny enough it will be a continuous circle for them. You no be the first person. You no go even be the last person.
It's only a matter of time before they meet their match and nemesis

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by Coded321: 6:01pm On Oct 16, 2020
I also experienced a situation of complete betrayal by my so called surest friend. We met in NYSC orientation camp, we quickly gel together and realised we had so much in common. Fast forward a bit, we were posted to different town for ppa, but he called me and was lamenting that the town he went to was very local and no light etc..so I helped him to work his ppa to mine and we were both excited about rocking that one year together.
He was igbo while me as a yoruba guy helped him out alot cos the town is a really deep yoruba tribe.
I even taught him my trade cos I'm a dj and I helped him secure a hotel where he hustles everynight.
So a day happened where I had issues with my phone and I needed to call my fiancee with his phone, I didn't even bother to delete the number because we were real gees and countless times he has spoken to her on my phone and all. Unfortunately I never knew this guy saved my gfs number and was always downloading all my sexcapades to this girl ,infact even with the voicenotes we share.
I just discovered that I was having regular issues with my babe without knowing what's really causing it, so unfortunately for the guy I wanted to use his phone one day to send some files on WhatsApp, a spirit just told me to check my baby's contact on his phone and that's how I saw everything.
This was a guy I could have done anything for, his excuse was that he realized I didnt love the girl enough and that the girl has igbo origin also. Some niggaz tried to talk to me to forgive him and I did but kept him at a distance. He came and broke a relationship of 5 years and he couldn't even get to date the girl afterwards.
He is a follower of NL, so incase u see this Alex, Bleep you till eternity.
Sorry guys, it's my first post here cool

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by heskeyw(m): 8:07am On Oct 17, 2020
Coded321:
I also experienced a situation of complete betrayal by my so called surest friend. We met in NYSC orientation camp, we quickly gel together and realised we had so much in common. Fast forward a bit, we were posted to different town for ppa, but he called me and was lamenting that the town he went to was very local and no light etc..so I helped him to work his ppa to mine and we were both excited about rocking that one year together.
He was igbo while me as a yoruba guy helped him out alot cos the town is a really deep yoruba tribe.
I even taught him my trade cos I'm a dj and I helped him secure a hotel where he hustles everynight.
So a day happened where I had issues with my phone and I needed to call my fiancee with his phone, I didn't even bother to delete the number because we were real gees and countless times he has spoken to her on my phone and all. Unfortunately I never knew this guy saved my gfs number and was always downloading all my sexcapades to this girl ,infact even with the voicenotes we share.
I just discovered that I was having regular issues with my babe without knowing what's really causing it, so unfortunately for the guy I wanted to use his phone one day to send some files on WhatsApp, a spirit just told me to check my baby's contact on his phone and that's how I saw everything.
This was a guy I could have done anything for, his excuse was that he realized I didnt love the girl enough and that the girl has igbo origin also. Some niggaz tried to talk to me to forgive him and I did but kept him at a distance. He came and broke a relationship of 5 years and he couldn't even get to date the girl afterwards.
He is a follower of NL, so incase u see this Alex, Bleep you till eternity.
Sorry guys, it's my first post here cool
Omoh , this betrayal is on another level. Why person go betray him manest man like that. Na jealousy be that ooo. During my NYSC days, my tight friends na Yorubas and I am Igbo. And we are still friends till today.

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Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by DSHADOWWALKER: 7:41pm On Jul 14, 2021
Ikillbrokehoes:
Since the day my best friend slept with my girlfriend, that was the last time I had a friend, unless business partners, I don't trust anyone at all, some people think I take my self too high, because I have money blah blah blah that's why am always feeling myself

but the truth is that I can nv keep a friend, even those that wants to make friends with me, I shove them aside


it may seem painful,but i am gonna tell you the reality,your bestfriend doesnt owe you the obligation of not sleeping with a lady cause she is your girlfriend,he is an adult,he can actually choose to sleep with any consenting adults,your girlfriend may owe you that obligation though on the hasis of your defined romantic relationship
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by vanvick247(m): 7:57pm On Aug 17, 2022
Kccheechy:
Mine was in exam hall. Final year 2nd semester exams. We were writing MTH425. After reading for so long, my head just went blank. I couldn't assimilate anything anymore. My friend who I had taken as a brother studied with me. I got into the exam hall as saw the questions. You know how exam questions can be na, 1 question will have so many children under it. Out of four we are to answer, I knew just 1 and even that 1 I couldn't answer it completely. if I failed that course, it would earn me an extra year in school. I was confused and spent. Most of the questions came from our handouts but to solve one question can take a full page of A4 paper on both sides. My brain just couldn't take it anymore. My friend was sitting behind me and was already on his third question. You know how we communicate in the hall na. I asked him to help me with one question so I can answer two in total. He assured me that he would help me with the answers to one question. My hopes were high. Only for my guy to stand up to go and submit and left the hall. Went out and started laughing. If he was laughing at me I can't remember. I was shocked!!! If he didn't want to help me, he should have told me then I know what to do. He left me hanging. Till today I can't understand why he did that. The thought of spending another year in school because of 1 course really broke my heart. when I saw there was nothing else I could do, I went to submit my almost blank answer booklet. Long story short, I got a D grade in that course. That was far better than repeating another year. My ex-friend got a D grade to upon everything.

So your friend was just busy writing rubbish (Out of Point) grin grin
Re: What Broke Your Trust With Friends? Share Your Experience by LalastiklaIa(m): 7:37am On Sep 23, 2022
Slawormir:
Damnnn niggarrr ....

Isoright...friends go always loose guard us...but that nor mean say we nor go keep friends because say one or two friends don first loose guard us before...

Me way one of my guy loose guard in 2016....the guy wake up the morning of the day he want travel to Abuja go meet he boss for huzzle kingdom....he wake up to realize say he laptop nor green on...immediately na im he beg me for my hp laptop( the only laptop when I dey use as at that time unto say man pikin broke)...but i no reason am..i just give am....unto say my kind heart
This guy reach Abuja...good six months he nor collect anything...na so hungry dey beat am...he go dey call me I go dey give am hope..even send am small small money make he take dey support he feeding unto say their boss dey feed them only once in a day..
God run am for am...na im the guy pick...but the boss percentage too much......I come advice am make he return to Benin come dey huzzle on he own afterall he don learn some work, tools and format...
The guy enter Benin...before you know it my guy dey collect am steadily...
Surprisingly or rather i shock when this guy start to dey loose guard me....if I call am he nor dey pick and return call...and funny enough the reason I dey call am na make we dey together as we dey do before dey smoke weed and most importantly make he help me tie weed....because as at that time I nor sabi tie weed...and na him introduce me to weed smoking....by constantly tieing it for me....
but the idiot was thinking because he now has a little money that is why am calling him and wanting to be around him
The one that reallly got to me or rather got me annoyed was the day I called him three times and he didn't pick ...from that day I stopped calling him...for one year I didn't call him...when he realize his mistake he called me one day but I picked and we talked but deep down inside me our friendship can never remain the same
And thank God..I can tie weed now....am a professional in weed tieing as am typing now
Lol the way baba slawomir transitioned from pidgeon to English made this post epic lol grin grin grin

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