I'm into a two years relationship with this girl,wen we started at first i remember vividly i force her to collect money or anything from me,she only wanted my love and care according to her buh it seems the whole thing has changed

I work in a company ad bfor the pandemic things wer apparently going well,now things ain't really going as it used to go,i was shocked today wen she told me that people that are not even sleeping with her ar giving her money not to talk of me that hav sex wit her she jus bcus i reduced the way i give her money jus bcus things ain't really going well...i bought one new jean and a top for myself recently she included it,she said i only think of myself ad I don't bother to buy her things...i bought myself a new redmi bcus my previous infinix got spoilt,she included that one too...she said i bought a new phone ad i knw she needs money to rent another hostel... I'm really regretting I dated a broke girl in the first place,i really don't knw wat to do again please i need advice

1. You tempted her to use you and she's at its apogee and you are complaining now?


2. Her entitlement attitude should translate to you that you need to find your nearest exit. Those sorts aren't worth it, believe me.


3. Don't be sad, be happy you realized in time. Leave her be.


Join singlehood and see the blessings of numerous real classy lasses needy of you.


I speak from experience.

You never start. I was once in ur shoe back then when I was serving. She started thesame way ur bae started. Always telling me she does not need my money only for her to tell me oneday that her friends' bf her getting them new things and spending on them but I am very stingy. She even said that she wants to rent another House that I should give her 30k despite the fact her dad already paid her rent. I tried telling her I was saving for my business but she no wan hear; she just stopped picking my calls.
One day she told another guy to pick my call that she is not around, she even went ahead to show me how guys take her out for outing etc. I knew I was dating nothing but a lady who is self centered. I change the whole thing for her and I ended the whole thing for my mind. Went ahead and kept side chicks and also focused on my goal.
To day we are not together but I achieved my goals. if I had been giving her the small money I was saving by now I for no get anything.
Lesson, don't die because of any gal.If she keeps having entitlement feelings, don't break up just keep her one side and forget about her while you chase your goals

Intoboy:
I'm really regretting I dated a broke girl in the first place,i really don't knw wat to do again please i need advice

Since u used 'dated' I'm going to assume dat u have broken up with her..so wetin u want make do ...

D problem is dat u still kind of love her abi..just try to move on and focus on urself girls lyk dat ain't worth it.

PS: never mind d 'I don't want ur money' attitude all na fake..most girls just do so dat d guy will not think dey are dating dem 4 money(though dat is d case sometimes some girls are genuine about it) and to earn little respect all na cruize...

Stop complaining, you are broke she's broke, so una fit each other, why disturbing nairalanders when you where the one that spoilt her with gift and money in the first place,

Tell her you’re not her father. The only thing you can do is assist her. And if it’s not enough then let her get a job you can assist her with that if she really wants to work.

Why is she feeling entitled to money that’s not hers??
If you’re tired of the relationship you know what to do.