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Re: Help My Neighbor, Her Husband Beats Her Mercilessly And Threatens To Kill Her. by nwauwa(m): 10:56am On Mar 09, 2011 |
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Re: Help My Neighbor, Her Husband Beats Her Mercilessly And Threatens To Kill Her. by moremi2008(m): 11:06am On Mar 09, 2011 |
Man TJ: It is the belief and advice of men like you that have made many a woman die in their matrimonial homes at the hands of their husbands. I don't know how to get it into your skull that it does NOT matter what the woman does - a man should not physically abuse his wife, period. If the wife is rude or cheats, there are civilized ways to deal with the issue. Just send her packing to her father's house! You can't control what she does but you can DEFINITELY control what YOU do in response to it. A man that beats on his wife deserves to be given a thorough beating and then gang-raped in a jail cell. Ooooh, I dare one stupid man to lay his hands on my little sister. He go see wehn!!! The thought of it just makes my blood boil!!! I will deal with him so badly, my sister and her children will be pleading with me for his life! 1 Like |
Re: Help My Neighbor, Her Husband Beats Her Mercilessly And Threatens To Kill Her. by ifyalways(f): 11:19am On Mar 09, 2011 |
moremi2008:lol People with brain cells are busy asking questions like: why did the man suddenly change why not inform elders How long have they been married. . . bla bla Meanwhile the woman dey chop beating dey go semid4lyfe:which ones be dotted lines and who dotted the lines ni ? I signed a longolongo line with Dayokanu. |
Re: Help My Neighbor, Her Husband Beats Her Mercilessly And Threatens To Kill Her. by Nobody: 11:32am On Mar 09, 2011 |
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Re: Help My Neighbor, Her Husband Beats Her Mercilessly And Threatens To Kill Her. by ifyalways(f): 11:32am On Mar 09, 2011 |
chaircover:@OP,This also is another way to help.I did not even Know that Deborah is hospitalized already The only draw backs this approach might get are: If the relatives are poor and are getting "financial helps" from the man. If Deborah is an only child with only distant relatives,most times those distant relatives don't wanna involve themselves. If she married against the parents or relatives wish. pappykay1: Goodyness:. . .Worth trying.Thanks guys. |
Re: Help My Neighbor, Her Husband Beats Her Mercilessly And Threatens To Kill Her. by Nobody: 11:38am On Mar 09, 2011 |
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Re: Help My Neighbor, Her Husband Beats Her Mercilessly And Threatens To Kill Her. by ifyalways(f): 11:48am On Mar 09, 2011 |
chaircover:No,Chaircover . . .I think I said much more. 3.The woman should get a job,re-discover and re-arrange her self/life as an individual. 4.If she thinks that marriage to the same man is for whatever reasons best known to her,still worth working on(This is where either Police,Family,church,NGO comes in to guide her,talk with the man etc) she can give it a try again . . .This decision is hers alone to make. I was not there when they started their marriage and i definitely(God Forbid) would not be the one to tell anyone to get a DIVORCE,If you talk abt separation,Yes I preach that 24/7 . . .when the kitchen is too hot,even a baby knows the best thing to do is to step out first,get some fresh air,cool your head then decide if whatever u left on fire in that kitchen is worth going back to check on. |
Re: Help My Neighbor, Her Husband Beats Her Mercilessly And Threatens To Kill Her. by Nobody: 11:57am On Mar 09, 2011 |
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Re: Help My Neighbor, Her Husband Beats Her Mercilessly And Threatens To Kill Her. by rasputinn(m): 12:24pm On Mar 09, 2011 |
In addition to what some posters have written(specially @Ifyalways)if it is true what the OP reported,then the husband needs to ba called to order,he needs some counselling and anger management sessions.Where is the love he had for the wife,if he had 5 children by her,then surely they must once have been an item.Please peeps offer advice. @OP Pls go out of your way to befriend the man,slowly work your way into him to loosen his guard,then tell him the home truth,you just might be the angel God has sent to save that poor woman from being killed.Please think about this and act |
Re: Help My Neighbor, Her Husband Beats Her Mercilessly And Threatens To Kill Her. by bracelet: 12:38pm On Mar 09, 2011 |
Call ministery of women affairs and poverty alliviation on 017617508 That is if this is happening in Lagos state. All the best |
Re: Help My Neighbor, Her Husband Beats Her Mercilessly And Threatens To Kill Her. by repNaija: 2:50pm On Mar 09, 2011 |
It's quite easy for us to pass judgment and say "she should leave him" amongst others. However, numerous people have contributed some sensible points like she's a mother with kids, a housewife at that. No one deserves to be abused (physically, emotionally etc). However, it's no new knowledge that such a lady would only leave when she finds the inner strength to do so. A woman like that would snap back in time but it's a matter of when and hopefully, it's not too late. You can do whatever you can as a friend, even to the point of going to her home and moving her out but until she's ready to move on personally, she'll be right back to the abusive husband. Perhaps, this also drives a point home to ladies. NEVER depend on a man. I can't emphasize this enough. If she were not a housewife and had something going on for herself, perhaps it would make the transition especially in the financial realm much easier for her. She needs to work on getting on herself together if not for herself, for her children. Unfortunately, like majority of victims, they don't want to hear or see the truth. Be a friend, support her, be there when she needs you as she might see you as the enemy instead of her abuser. Hope your friend seeks help and finds it within her to get out of this situation before it gets worse. |
Re: Help My Neighbor, Her Husband Beats Her Mercilessly And Threatens To Kill Her. by klear(f): 4:39pm On Mar 09, 2011 |
FIDA will definitely help out & dey handle a lot of pro bono cases 2 in case she is broke. She should not under any circumstance endanger her life in d name of marriage. Am not in support of divorce bt it will save her life den its a lesser devil. Her kids needs her so does d society even if her husband does not. |
Re: Help My Neighbor, Her Husband Beats Her Mercilessly And Threatens To Kill Her. by klear(f): 4:44pm On Mar 09, 2011 |
FIDA will definitely help out & dey handle a lot of pro bono cases 2 in case she is broke. She should not under any circumstance endanger her life in d name of marriage. Am not in support of divorce bt it will save her life den its a lesser devil. Her kids needs her so does d society even if her husband does not. As 4 us Ladies, never marry a man dat has no authority figure in his life, s.one he listens 2 & respects a lot & be useful 2 ur self ( never knew dat bin a housewife is still fashionable in some ladies lives!) |
Re: Help My Neighbor, Her Husband Beats Her Mercilessly And Threatens To Kill Her. by mkpuluma(f): 1:04pm On Mar 10, 2011 |
here is another link to Project Alert Josephine@projectalertnig.org someone told me of how they helped women in similar situations. Violence against women should be totally discouraged. i tire for african men oooooo. |
Re: Help My Neighbor, Her Husband Beats Her Mercilessly And Threatens To Kill Her. by ikotaiwo(m): 1:13pm On Mar 10, 2011 |
they both need deliverance from curse of fight and didnt they get married in the church |
Re: Help My Neighbor, Her Husband Beats Her Mercilessly And Threatens To Kill Her. by emmatok(m): 1:15pm On Mar 10, 2011 |
mkpuluma: Violence against women is not limited to African men only. It is a global phenomenal. Go check info about Mel Gibson and Charlie Sheen .They both have history of Violence against women. So stop been a stereotype. |
Re: Help My Neighbor, Her Husband Beats Her Mercilessly And Threatens To Kill Her. by mkpuluma(f): 1:17pm On Mar 10, 2011 |
Violence against women is not limited to African men only. It is a global phenomenal. Go check info about Mel Gibson and Charlie Sheen .They both have history of Violence against women. So stop been a stereotype. na so i pain u reach? anyway thats your headache. |
Re: Help My Neighbor, Her Husband Beats Her Mercilessly And Threatens To Kill Her. by emmatok(m): 1:20pm On Mar 10, 2011 |
mkpuluma: You don come again with you wahala ooo. No let my madam vex oo |
Re: Help My Neighbor, Her Husband Beats Her Mercilessly And Threatens To Kill Her. by mkpuluma(f): 1:25pm On Mar 10, 2011 |
You don come again with you wahala ooo. No let my madam vex oo who be d madam? hope say u no dey beat am o like Deborah's husband. |
Re: Help My Neighbor, Her Husband Beats Her Mercilessly And Threatens To Kill Her. by emmatok(m): 3:12pm On Mar 10, 2011 |
naa If she catch me dey yarn u online na serious kasala be dat. |
Re: Help My Neighbor, Her Husband Beats Her Mercilessly And Threatens To Kill Her. by mkpuluma(f): 3:25pm On Mar 10, 2011 |
i beg o i no wan cos wahala. all the best. |
Re: Help My Neighbor, Her Husband Beats Her Mercilessly And Threatens To Kill Her. by emmatok(m): 4:01pm On Mar 10, 2011 |
No prob;em , I i know how to delete browsing history. You see, no be only man dey beat him wifee. Some women fit kill their hubby with just one blow. Spousal abuse knows no race or sex. |
Re: Help My Neighbor, Her Husband Beats Her Mercilessly And Threatens To Kill Her. by mkpuluma(f): 4:20pm On Mar 10, 2011 |
You see, no be only man dey beat him wifee. Some women fit kill their hubby with just one blow. Spousal abuse knows no race or sex. thats true but violence against wives/women seems to be more common. |
Re: Help My Neighbor, Her Husband Beats Her Mercilessly And Threatens To Kill Her. by Nobody: 2:45pm On Mar 16, 2011 |
You're the closest confront the husband, what nonsense |
Re: Help My Neighbor, Her Husband Beats Her Mercilessly And Threatens To Kill Her. by tpia5: 4:29pm On Jul 01, 2011 |
emmatok: see your life? |
Re: Help My Neighbor, Her Husband Beats Her Mercilessly And Threatens To Kill Her. by Nobody: 4:42pm On Jul 01, 2011 |
mkpuluma:LOol, u be big olodo, oluku, olu duede, akpalakpa |
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