i am in a relationship that is three weeks old and she told me earlier that she has a relationship with a guy but that the guy is no more seriuos yesterday i insisted on knowing my stand so far the guy is staying close to her house in ibadan and i am with her in school, she sent a text today to tell me that she luvs to hold on to both of us that the guy will soon say it himself, there is a bit lie and sincerity in this case, pls help me out

"i THIINK HE WILL SOON SAY IT" Said it

she wants the two of you. simple. - two timing to be specific

even worse, you know about the guy but he does not know about you.

are you ok with it?

the ball is in your court.

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OP

If you have bought a blackberry for her

collect it back from her immediately!!

most likely he bought it and also topping it up

just fu-ck her and
discharge her.

@M M M
you b bad person if she is your sister n ko?

pele

Holumighty:

i am in a relationship that is three weeks old and she told me earlier that she has a relationship with a guy but that the guy is no more seriuos yesterday i insisted on knowing my stand so far the guy is staying close to her house in ibadan and i am with her in school, she sent a text today to tell me that she luvs to hold on to both of us that the guy will soon say it himself, there is a bit lie and sincerity in this case, pls help me out

Oh Jeez, you are so dumb,,, how can a gal play u and u are so blind to seee,,,,,,,,,,Msheeew

Mugu meets handler.
I guess you are the type to share your woman with another man. You are with with a lady that you can't beat your chest and tell yourself "she is mine".
Grow a pair.

I'm sorry to say it this way but what kind of man are you to even be entertaining this. Do you have shortage of women up there. I have never heard of such, i'd rather believe it's not happening and you're just looking for a topic, yes?

M M M:

just fu-ck her and
discharge her.

A bit late for him to do that now, she's done it to him and the other fool.

how will she feel if she was in ur shoes,
if u can win her hrt, then bail out fast.

Then i guess u hold on with her until she settles her other relationship.

thank you all for your love and concern, i still hope to get more response from you, but i want you to see family.

is this what u call relationship?

i will feed you back what happened that leads us to love making, PANORAMA

yesternight she told me to stay that she will do away with the guy but i should give her time to do that, after that we made love severally

Holumighty:

yesternight she told me to stay that she will do away with the guy but i should give her time to do that, after that we made love severally

she's doing that with the other dude as well! so, are u ok with that? dats sharing with consent i guess!!!!

with an open mind and a positive spirit, plenti dey hapen

A lady wanting to keep two guys is called a very selfish and irresponsible girl. Same thing applies to guys too.

The way I see it, she is treating you like her spare part incase if the original had dumped her than she knows she has you.

Poster, if I were u, dump her sorry a55 and move on. She is not worth your time and one day she is going to get it!

Bia nwa nna?kedu ka igaesi amicha nwagi nwayi  with onye ozo? ebe umu nwayi bu aja di n'ala sit her down and let her chose b/w u and the other guy.inuru ihe nkwuru

Guy shine your eyes,u re being used.

Going by the way you are trying to back her up in these deeds, well I can see you are already done for. Don't worry when next you visit her at home and see her helping to wash the other guys clothes, you should join her to wash, even help her iron it sef, so she can consider you. M>U>M>U.

Listen to your heart and follow it!!!


ALL THE BEST

Okay, let livedit get this straight.  You two have only been dating for 3 weeks and you two are talking commitment already? You don't even know this woman and vice versa.  Why not take the time to get to know each other first before you decide to commit to her.  Because it seems that is what she plan on doing. This is more than likely the reason why she is not ready to let the other guy go.  Why don't you get out and date other people as well.  I'm not saying not to date or "see" her, but it's kinda too early to be thinking about settling down so quickly with someone who obviously wants to "play the field".  She just maybe a nice woman indeed, but right now you should take the time to make sure she is the right woman for you before jumping full force ahead.

livedit:

Okay, let livedit get this straight. You two have only been dating for 3 weeks and you two are talking commitment already? You don't even know this woman and vice versa. Why not take the time to get to know each other first before you decide to commit to her. Because it seems that is what she plan on doing. This is more than likely the reason why she is not ready to let the other guy go. Why don't you get out and date other people as well. I'm not saying not to date or "see" her, but it's kinda too early to be thinking about settling down so quickly with someone who obviously wants to "play the field". She just maybe a nice woman indeed, but right now you should take the time to make sure she is the right woman for you before jumping full force ahead.

Very well said! poster listen to this advice

3 weeks and you want to know where you stand omo you stand as the guy in school while the other guy stands as the guy at home.

O boy u av 2b patience jua 3 weeks? My 1st realtionship tak me up 2 a year b4 she agree be patience

U dont hv any relationship here. U are obviously her spare part.

She wants to make you her ASSISTANT BOY FRIEND.

nairalanders, i will always be proud of you, you are more than friend to me, i will always cherish you