Kindly tell my wife and I what to do to improve our sex life. As a man, my organ is small and my performance cannot last more than five minutes. My wife, on the other hand, is near frigid. She doesn’t contribute a thing to our lovemaking. She leaves the entire job to me.


Our marriage is two years old. I am already thinking our marriage is a mistake. This isn’t what I envisaged when I got married.

Although we both got married as virgins, I believe that lovemaking should be more fun than it currently is between my wife and I.

Deep inside me I feel something is missing in our marriage. I am seriously itching to know what it is.

Please help me.

Frank.


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are you both illiterates aside marrying as virgins?buy books,adult movies et al.you two should talk more and and dont make SEX a sacred topic when together.stop over spiritualising issues(as i can see even thou you didnt mention it)and f.uck your wife real good.try out different styles.communicate,just do some crazy funny sturfs.

Maybe your wife is frigit because she cannot believe she said "for better or worse" before she knew what she was getting herself into. . . . .imagine a small organ that won't stand for more than 5 mins, I would also be frigit but good luck to the two of you!!!

PS: This is no attack on your small organ. . . . . . . . . .

pls try romance for like 15minute before u want to have sex,u shud start making her to feel u first befor u start feeling her,i guess romance should help u better,about ur small organ,try when romancesing let ur wife try to play with it before sex,it will help.

excuse to cheat!

that's why you ought to have gone thru the necessary training and experience before doing till death do us part

Now you are wondering about what else is out there and how they compare to what you are stuck with.

On second thought, if you learn to use your tool properly, size is irrelevant!

The ones that are actively having sex were virgins at one point and did not know what the hell they were doing.  

In order to be sexually experienced, you must repeatedly have sex not necessarily different people but the more you have sex and use different techniques the more knowledgeable you will become.  If you are the type that does not like to try new things then you will be one boring fucker.   No offense.

^^^

but these guys now keep feeling there's something different out there that they've missed out on,

that is the issue.

One of Tyler Perry's movie talks about the 80% versus 20% and the theory is accurate because as humans we are likely to look for something better than "this" so we go out and seek it not knowing that the best thing ever is already there.

The issue is amongst both men and women. We have this need to achieve better and that goes back to the "simplicity" that we do not accept. If it is too simple, it is not right.

That bleeped up. Life is simple, we make it complicated. That why there are issues when it shouldn't be any issues. If we learn to be simple and content, the world will be a much different place. The fact that we are indulging in greed, we want more or something better not knowing what the Bleep we really want. Now that sad.

This is serious

This is serious

I think both of you need a sex therapy quickly befor it get's out of hand and destroy your marriage.

The real truth is that 5 mins is too small to get a woman into the groovy and make her moan,act crazy and ask for more.Putting things in order has to start from you.If you have ever forked a girl(sorry you married as a virgin,so u never did it) for over 30 mins,am telling you,even the ones that dont like sex have their whole body activated to the point that they will beg for more in a crazy way.It works on every girl,even ashawos.It takes a lady a longer time to begin to want for more than it takes you.Try taking a lot of time before even putting your stick inside.There are so many things to do for atleast 30 mins to one hour before banging and I believe all these are prerequisites to having it good.This is your wife and you have all the time.I have this one experince where I forked a girl and she shouted that her "toto don catch fire"(her exact words).it didnt take five minutes to that and I had it in mind to impress her and after that day,I was the one that started to run because she now wanted it morning,afternoon and night and my brother,it is a human body not machine that is doing the work.Get your mind off the thing and think of taking it longer.

how did u know it wasnt fun when u have never tested anybody else apart from her. since she is your first and last, i expect u should jst assume that thats how sexx is

She's frigid n you last only 5 minutes? What will happen when she starts reacting. Anyways I believe you should stop looking at her as your wife and start mixing it up a bit. Sex in d car, balcony, beach, rooftop. D excitement will increase pleasure n please for her sake, pre-intimacy!! As ur thing small, ur tongue n fingers na ur pincode

Hey man, i can feel you. The solution is at door step.
Just buy the book called "ACT OF MARRIAGE" The beauty of sexual love written by TIM & BEVERLY for yourself and your wife. I promise you after reading it your love life will not be the same again and you will surely testify.

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marriage is not all about love making, please do your own thing ,your own style because ,there are no perfect(best) love maker.

Bad sex can definitely break a union, some people have never had toe-curling sex so they settle for what they get thinking "I got the best here"

Is marriage all about sex?

There are many books for married people to spice up their sex life, even for Christians.

Mrs.Chima:

The ones that are actively having sex were virgins at one point and did not know what the hell they were doing.

In order to be sexually experienced, you must repeatedly have sex not necessarily different people but the more you have sex and use different techniques the more knowledgeable you will become. If you are the type that does not like to try new things then you will be one boring fucker. No offense.

GBAM!!!
I trust my suga.

OP.
Get going with the above tips.

Hey D sense sup

Poster,

Let me share a tip with you I normally charge a fee but I am feeling mighty generous today.

I want you to get some cherries, whipped cream, crushed groundnuts, and hot fudge or chocolate spread.

I want you and your wife to take a good bath and wash your nuts twice and her toto twice. I want you to wash her breasts and under her breasts because trust me you don't want to lick the breast butter when you about to do what I am teaching you. Once the bodies are clean and dry.

I want you to lay her down and spray some whipped cream on her breasts and toto. I want you to sprinkle some nuts on the toto and breasts add one cherry for each nips and toto. Once she is done I want you to add some chocolate spread on your kondo and make sure it is thickly spread.

Now I want you to get on top of her and put your kondo on her face while her toto is in your face AFTER you have sucked her nips and eaten the cherries. You will begins to lick her toto as he begins to suck your kondo. I want you guys to do that for three minutes or less that is called pre-intimacy.

Your kondo should be riped and her toto should be wet. I want you to lay her on the back and spread her legs upward as you enter her gently do not rush because you may causes her to reject you further. Once you have enter her please thrust in slow pace and build the intensity as the kondo hardens. You make sure that you come direct contact with her clits and every five thrusts you should be kissing something on her body.

You continue the same thing for about ten minutes or so then you should have a woman whipped. Now if your kondo is small then I suggest you contact my friend who is the LITTLE KINI SPECIALIST. She have proper techniques that will help your little kini appear larger than life.

Good luck and happy fucking!

Maybe your wife is frigit because she cannot believe she said "for better or worse" before she knew what she was getting herself into. . . . .imagine a small organ that won't stand for more than 5 mins, I would also be frigit but good luck to the two of you!!!

PS: This is no attack on your small organ. . . . . . . . . .

DEATH

Google is your friend.

Size does not always matter. What matters is what you can do with what you have.

OP,

My post will offend the small kini carriers but do not be offended just take it as a lesson and see if it will help your sex life any.

deniyor:

Google is your friend.

Size does not always matter. What matters is what you can do with what you have.

How in the world does size not matter? It doesn't matter how he 'moves', if he's got a tiny willy, it sure does matter. You can't do anything with that sh[i]i[/i]t . . .

You shole the Bleep can't! More like a damn worm trying to climb on a big hill!

The least that of could do is teach your wife some moves that fits your desire. Your wife is a woman, you should be training her to meet your sexual standards.Another thing, in my opinion a man should be the one dominating when it comes to sex, especially if you are being intimate with your wife. Her role is to enjoy while she follows and tries to pick up moves from you.

P.S. Don't think about enlargement and all that kinda crab, be satisfied with that you have and make the best out of it.

that's my 2 cents.

Semira22:

Is marriage all about sex?

Sex is a huge part of marriage/relationships for most people, at least those that I know, may not be so in your world. . . . . .like I said, bad sex can break a union or at least get people cheating just to be sexually fulfilled!

Advocator:

The least that of could do is teach your wife some moves that fits your desire. Your wife is a woman, you should be training her to meet your sexual standards.Another thing, in my opinion a man should be the one dominating when it comes to sex, especially if you are being intimate with your wife. Her role is to enjoy while she follows and tries to pick up moves from you.
P.S. Don't think about enlargement and all that kinda crab, be satisfied with that you have and make the best out of it.

that's my 2 cents.

LMAO, I beg your pardon!!! anyway, the case here is the blind leading the blind!