Robert1da:
With the way he's owing. It means when he eventually gets a job, the bank will still deduct his salary.

How does someone owe a bank?
Did he take a loan from them or what?

yes

No matter what you wana do to him ..please renew his rent .... but I know he won’t starve sha ... Don’t feed him .. feeding him will make him relax .. however just renew his rent..... It’s not easy out there.. if he had established a side hustle ,it wouldn’t have been like dis ... everyone needs a side hustle or hustles ...

Robert1da:
With the way he's owing. It means when he eventually gets a job, the bank will still deduct his salary.

How does someone owe a bank?
Did he take a loan from them or what?

lolz anyone can apply for a loan as long as it’s for investment purpose ... I did last December and I’m still paying the loan.. although I wish I can just pay dem at once but then say nah monthly stuff ...

AyarmBoye:
lolz anyone can apply for a loan as long as it’s for investment purpose ... I did last December and I’m still paying the loan.. although I wish I can just pay dem at once but then say nah monthly stuff ...

Did you apply with a salary account?

Robert1da:


Did you apply with a salary account?

yes I did .... not a big loan though !

Why do I feel he has fallen into depression mode like this, hmmm ur guy needs hope to believe in himself first, well ask him if he has some kind plans to be self employed, like say if he was given the opportunity what will he rather be doing, then let the discussion gradually graduate u will then know wats up and how to come in, don't push it too much ooo or else he will run back into his mental cave lasun, pls don't and don't be another problem for him lasun by pressuring him to do what 'u feel' he should, well u b woman na una know how una dey run am Sha




Make i Holla person now sef

Good morning

don't give him anything

his just lazy to get another job
if you keep on giving him cash, he will start depending on you

Psych412:
don't give him anything


his just lazy to get another job

if you keep on giving him cash, he will start depending on you

Hey lienusa?

Ikillbrokehoes:
Hey lienusa?

what is these

Psych412:
what is these

It is what it is

Trayceey:
I'm an adult. I can choose to have sex whenever I want and no one will beat me. Besides, if a lady sleeps in a man's house. It doesn't necessarily mean they had sex

You don't respect yourself.



Bye. You are welcome.

Truvel:
Guy, I Know. I Said So Dat Let It Be A Good Record Dat She Had Done Her Best 4 Him But He Is D One Not Ready To Become A Man. It Would Be A Good Record 4 Her. So Dat 2moro, He Won't Go Abt Start Telling People Dat She Dumped Him Because Of His Present State.

Why should she give a damn what other people think?

I personally do not paint a girl bad for leaving a guy based purely on what HE said.
I know and have seen some very useless, ungrateful and irresponsible fellows out there who don't deserve good women.

Ikillbrokehoes:
It is what it is

please don't quote me again

Psych412:
please
don't quote me again

Miss lienusa hv u forgotten dat dis is a public forum? I can quote u anytime I want

2buffagain:


Why should she give a damn what other people think?

I personally do not paint a girl bad for leaving a guy based purely on what HE said.
I know and have seen some very useless, ungrateful and irresponsible fellows out there who don't deserve good women.

U May Be Right But U Don't Know How Their Relationship Had Been B4 Dis Happened. It's Only D Info She We Know Abt 4 Now.

gideonite98:
Lol you're waiting for an angel to tell you he's depressed in his mind and soul.
Stay with him and try to bring him out of the depression OR leave him completely and I'm sure one day he will be on his feet again and move on to something great.

God bless you man.
That dude is depressed, Either you stay put or Run for your life.
It's a polar decision and you are an adult to decide what you want.

Sometimes in life a man has to be a man and take the bull by the horn, I lost my job a few years ago, I squatted with a friend for a year before I had my break through. The many reasons people live in poverty is their mindset. To be honest ur man is lazy and he should leave his comfort zone, 7 months is too long to be this idle. He should get something doing fast or you dumb him for your own emotional sanity.

Ikillbrokehoes:
Miss lienusa hv u forgotten dat dis is a public forum? I can quote u anytime I want

why are you calling me lienusa

I need more contributions please

Trayceey:
I need more contributions please

Use 360k to open MBA forex account for him.

glimpse33:


Use 360k to open MBA forex account for him.

it's like you did not read my story well

Trayceey:
it's like you did not read my story well

Sis, leave that guy. 7 months is too long for a MAN to be out of a job and cares less about it.

A man having no savings and was working. Something is wrong.

Truvel:
For Good 7months? He Should Av Atleast Meet Dem In D Office. Anyway, If Dat's D Case Open A Business 4 Him Or Something He Could Sell Or Get A Job 4 Him. If He Doesn't Want Just Leave Him To His Fate.

is the "man" a vegetable?

SweetCunt97:
is the "man" a vegetable?

Meaning?

SweetCunt97:
is the "man" a vegetable?

No I don't hav small vegetable. but I have big cassava thou. please can we mate?

Trayceey:
Hi all,

There's this guy I met in December, we started dating. He was working then, but due to covid 19, his job was put on hold in March. I've talked about this guy in my previous topic. Immediately his job was put on hold, I came to realise that he has no savings. He's even owing his bank. I began to support him financially. I even wanted to run an investment for him but because he's owing his bank I couldn't because if I put the money in his account, the bank will seize it. It's been 7 months since he stopped working, some people at his work place have been called to resume but he was never called. Each time I try to inform him about another job vacancy he can try, he's never interested. Sometimes he picks offence. I was discouraged. I withdrew from assisting him financially. I didn't give him a penny anymore. Even his rent I promised to renew, I changed my mind. Please am I overdoing it? Am I being wicked? He has indirectly started telling me how broke he is. Yesterday, he told me that he's thinking about his life and that he has no Kobo on him.

That's a red flag of a lazy man

Leave him let him face life reality and learn how to stand as a man

The more money you give him the more you make him comfortable with his laziness

Take a break else you will rob yourself and carry the family burden for life

Some men are like that pls all they need is a struggling woman to keep them going, don't be a victim

frozen70:


That's a red flag of a lazy man

Leave him let him face life reality and learn how to stand as a man

The more money you give him the more you make him comfortable with his laziness

Take a break else you will rob yourself and carry the family burden for life

Some men are like that pls all they need is a struggling woman to keep them going, don't be a victim

thanks