Most times, kids lie to avoid being beaten by their parents. It’s a fact that we all want our kids to always tell the truth, but there will be a point where our patience will be tested. Therefore, parents need to keep in mind that telling lies is a natural part of child development and that in most cases, kids outgrow this behaviour.

So, why exactly do kids lie? Here are some reasons they lie:

To avoid working
To get attention
Fear of punishment
To boast amidst their classmates
To showcase their anger

It should be noted that, kids do not understand the consequences of lying until you explain them. Therefore, parents are advised to explain why it is bad to lie, what it leads to and what they need to do when they eventually lie.

As parents, what should you do when your kids lie? Here are few tips:

UNDERSTAND THE ROOT CAUSE
You should know whether your kid is telling to tell a tall tale as part of fantasy or because (s)he doesn’t want to be punished? If it is fantasy, you can’t afford to discourage her creativity. However, if it’s really to avoid punishment then, you need to explain why it’s bad. Make them understand that telling the truth pays no matter what.

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