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Whats The Best Reaction To An Unfaithful Girl Friend. by ozolity(m): 3:00am On Mar 11, 2011 |
Please what could be your best reaction when u suddenly discovers that your girl friend who claimed to faithful is dating another guy. Please I need sincere response. takia |
Re: Whats The Best Reaction To An Unfaithful Girl Friend. by LordReed(m): 3:20am On Mar 11, 2011 |
Tell her goodbye. Very simple. |
Re: Whats The Best Reaction To An Unfaithful Girl Friend. by ozolity(m): 3:22am On Mar 11, 2011 |
What if I still need her? |
Re: Whats The Best Reaction To An Unfaithful Girl Friend. by Osama10(m): 3:30am On Mar 11, 2011 |
ozolity: What do you need a cheat for again? |
Re: Whats The Best Reaction To An Unfaithful Girl Friend. by LordReed(m): 3:32am On Mar 11, 2011 |
Abi o, help me tell him She doesn't need you so you dismiss her trifling arse. |
Re: Whats The Best Reaction To An Unfaithful Girl Friend. by ozolity(m): 3:44am On Mar 11, 2011 |
But she still claims to be faithful anytime she is asked. The discovery is a secret one which is not aware of. |
Re: Whats The Best Reaction To An Unfaithful Girl Friend. by Jenifa1: 3:53am On Mar 11, 2011 |
when did you find this out? |
Re: Whats The Best Reaction To An Unfaithful Girl Friend. by ozolity(m): 3:57am On Mar 11, 2011 |
Just recently |
Re: Whats The Best Reaction To An Unfaithful Girl Friend. by Jenifa1: 3:58am On Mar 11, 2011 |
well then maybe you are still shocked. give yourself some time then you will figure out what to do about it. over time, you may start to view her differently or even fall out of love with her. give it a bit of time though. e.x start preparing yourself emotionally for a breakup if you don't plan to forgive her. |
Re: Whats The Best Reaction To An Unfaithful Girl Friend. by ozolity(m): 4:16am On Mar 11, 2011 |
Janifa tanx. but if I want a breakup how can I go about it so that she wont be hurt in the process. |
Re: Whats The Best Reaction To An Unfaithful Girl Friend. by Jenifa1: 5:40am On Mar 11, 2011 |
how do you know she will be hurt? I thought she found someone else and is cheating on you. isn't that what your topic is about? you're confusing me now. |
Re: Whats The Best Reaction To An Unfaithful Girl Friend. by kaycrystal(m): 8:46am On Mar 11, 2011 |
wot are u, nice or silly? u think a cheat is going to be hurt if u end it with her? well, unless u are not so sure of ur claims. if certainly she's cheating on u, den she doesn't deserve u, better move on, cos she has stepped up her own game. |
Re: Whats The Best Reaction To An Unfaithful Girl Friend. by sexy74(m): 5:30pm On Mar 11, 2011 |
@ poster if you can tolorate her stay with her but you must confront her and stop making it a secret. If you continue keeping it to yourself you are the one sufferring and not her. If you know you cant tolorater as you girlfriend keep her as a friend then reduce been close or very intimate with her. But get this to your head never ever in your life trust any woman, if you do, you will have yourself to blame. They say a perfect marriage or friendship is that betwen a blind man and a dumb woman. ( you dont see what she does orr hear what she says) so pally livve your life and screw her anytime she comes your way. |
Re: Whats The Best Reaction To An Unfaithful Girl Friend. by kokoye(m): 5:33pm On Mar 11, 2011 |
ozolity: See, there you go. trying to keep other people happy at your own expense. Right now, are you hurt or happy about the situation? Your hurting real bad right now but it'll only get worse if you dont take that Hot bull by the horns. |
Re: Whats The Best Reaction To An Unfaithful Girl Friend. by ZIMDRILL(m): 5:38pm On Mar 11, 2011 |
ozolity: best reaction are you serious? is it a test that you look for best reaction? the answer is this you wouldnt know how you would react at that present time |
Re: Whats The Best Reaction To An Unfaithful Girl Friend. by 25omega(m): 6:25pm On Mar 11, 2011 |
dude you said she cheated on you but you still worry about hurting her feelings if you break up with her ![]() ![]() aren't your feelings hurt? did she care about your feelings? and what exactly do you need her for anyway? Besides breaking up with someone doesn't have to be all dramatic n sh1t you can just let her know that you found out she cheated and you want to end the relationship. Simple |
Re: Whats The Best Reaction To An Unfaithful Girl Friend. by eridah2007(m): 7:54pm On Mar 11, 2011 |
sexy74: Good one ![]() |
Re: Whats The Best Reaction To An Unfaithful Girl Friend. by koolchicco: 9:00pm On Mar 11, 2011 |
@OP Ditch her. Simple! |
Re: Whats The Best Reaction To An Unfaithful Girl Friend. by koolchicco: 9:07pm On Mar 11, 2011 |
ozolity:For what purpose or are u that ugly that you can't find a replacement. ![]() ozolity: That makes her a Cheater and Lair. Double charges. |
Re: Whats The Best Reaction To An Unfaithful Girl Friend. by annawhite(f): 9:30pm On Mar 11, 2011 |
why is she cheating on u? R u sure of d oda guy in question or u r acting on heresay? If truly she is cheatin on u 4 no reason---kick her 2 d curb where she belong! |
Re: Whats The Best Reaction To An Unfaithful Girl Friend. by koolchicco: 9:34pm On Mar 11, 2011 |
annawhite:This is the only part that I'm interested in-------^^^^^ ![]() |
Re: Whats The Best Reaction To An Unfaithful Girl Friend. by livedit(f): 9:51pm On Mar 11, 2011 |
25omega: I agree with 25omega. I understand you care about her feelings because you still care about her. It is nearly impossible to break up with someone and they don't be hurt. Granted they still have feelings for you still. I mean, you don't have to be cruel when/if you break it off with her. Most of the times, it's not always what you say, but how you say it. She has proven to be untrustworthy and a cheater. So regardless, her feelings right now would be the least important. |
Re: Whats The Best Reaction To An Unfaithful Girl Friend. by deniyor: 1:22am On Mar 12, 2011 |
I will triple date her sister and her best friend. |
Re: Whats The Best Reaction To An Unfaithful Girl Friend. by koolchicco: 1:26am On Mar 12, 2011 |
deniyor: ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Whats The Best Reaction To An Unfaithful Girl Friend. by MrsChima(f): 1:37am On Mar 12, 2011 |
The best thing to do is leave her and do not look back if you do not love her. If you love her then you can try to make it work if you can forget that she cheated. If not, keep moving forward life is full of surprises. Carpe diem! |
Re: Whats The Best Reaction To An Unfaithful Girl Friend. by koolchicco: 1:40am On Mar 12, 2011 |
I don't cheat and I hate cheaters, ergo, I'd ditch her ozigbo ozigbo. ![]() |
Re: Whats The Best Reaction To An Unfaithful Girl Friend. by Nobody: 5:56am On Mar 12, 2011 |
Best reaction: A REASONABLE confrontation and then making the decision to leave or stay based on your gut feelings. Never hit her and never wish her harm. Just brush your shoulder, cry if you have to and move on! |
Re: Whats The Best Reaction To An Unfaithful Girl Friend. by Nobody: 6:32am On Mar 12, 2011 |
OP: before enjoying chicken pepper soup, the chicken must be killed. You can't break up with someone and expect them not to get hurt in the process. Green grass dey the other side o. If you're sure of your findings, then tell her bye bye and look forward. |
Re: Whats The Best Reaction To An Unfaithful Girl Friend. by Blazay(m): 11:56am On Mar 12, 2011 |
Do people still practice monogamy in this day and age? ![]() @OP Do y'all have a 'faithfullness' contract in effect even as boyfriend and girlfriend? Or are you reading too much 'Bible' into human relationships? ![]() She is still single and free to jingle and mingle. So are you. ![]() She does not have to disclose her "movements" to you either. BTW, what does any one person really have to guarantee 'faithfullness' from one person? Something is always missing and must be solicitited from someone/somewhere else. If she lied about it, it is because human beings generally NEVER like to face reality or deal with the honest truth. Just a natural defensive and coping strategy to protect others from being hurt in your case or other motives may be indicative of such habits. Yes, honesty is the best policy. . .but ONLY if and when it can be handled without getting emotional. ![]() It does not mean she does not love you. It is just that 'sometimes love just ain't enough'! Ever heard of that song? ![]() Welcome to the real world. ![]() I would let her be while I keep 'collecting' my own share 'with protection' of course. . .that is if I remember ooooooh. ![]() Wait till you get married and feel the real 'beat'! ![]() Please, learn to be realistic and stop living in 'Wonderland'. You are not "Alice'! |
Re: Whats The Best Reaction To An Unfaithful Girl Friend. by dremoney(m): 12:05pm On Mar 12, 2011 |
we need to give it a couple of dayz, This dude is still psychologically down! ![]() His brain is running anti clockwise at the moment, so you stl love abi? pele o |
Re: Whats The Best Reaction To An Unfaithful Girl Friend. by yongnoble(m): 12:14pm On Mar 12, 2011 |
@ poster when you make a fuss about the whole cheating thing, the more she continues to enjoy cheating, its best to just ignore it. The sad truth about girls is that when you start ignoring them(acting you don't give a f**k if she cheats), thats when they tend to love you the most, its ironical but its the truth. Just ignore her, pretend as if you don't care, with time she will want you back. Trust me, it works like |
Re: Whats The Best Reaction To An Unfaithful Girl Friend. by sevule(m): 12:21pm On Mar 12, 2011 |
Dude she cheated on you and you are still concerned about hurting her feelings ![]() |
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