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Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by Godoverevery: 7:20pm On Oct 30, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle:lol .. you are just naive. you think men are really ready to marry like that....do you know how ladies disturb and pressurise there men on when he will marry. who cry every now and then about not getting married.....lol 1 Like |
Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by GreatMage: 11:03pm On Oct 30, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: If she's loving, caring and submissive... I don't need anything else ![]() After all, what else can I ask from a woman called my wife ![]() BUT! Just that shouldn't give way to laziness and the mentality of that's all there is to being a good wife... ![]() 1 Like |
Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by Sixfeetbelle: 6:45am On Oct 31, 2020 |
Godoverevery: Who are the ones crying for marriage when all we have presently are bad examples? Or is it the ones were the married ones are clamouring to be single again? I've said it that desperate women who aren't content give men this nonsense overbloated ego they have. |
Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by Sixfeetbelle: 6:56am On Oct 31, 2020 |
GreatMage: And you can't do all this without marrying a woman? There are homeless babies to adopt. Go ahead and create a home for them all by yourself and stop disturbing women to give you one. Help reduce the population. Your gene must not propagate in the earth ![]() You can have a healthy sex life with a sex doll. You don't need women for that. Or better still, just thank the westerners for gay pride ![]() Fulfil which scripture? As far as I know, Jesus and Paul never married, priests aren't married, and a whole lot of you guys can benefit from following in their footsteps ![]() To be honest, I still don't see why you guys need women to be tied down to you in the name of marriage, and with this never-ending name calling and men's constant cry for more independent ladies, the gain women used to enjoy as a married woman is no longer there. We are suffering in marriage. |
Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by Sixfeetbelle: 7:07am On Oct 31, 2020 |
GreatMage: How do you hope to protect her? Do you have swords or what? And protect her from what exactly? Scorching sun? Mosquito bites? Menstrual pains? Manly comfort, hmmm, I may concede on this even though I don't see why someone who's never had it before will know they need it. Assurance? How? Where you there when she was at her lowest point or will you be there? And how do you propose to give her this assurance? Will you be there when she's gained weight and looks unattractive? Or when she's stressed and depressed and lacks the desire to be with you sexually? Mental and spiritual pillar. Tbh, I think men give women more mental and spiritual problems than relief, but hey, that's just my opinion. A healthy sex life. One that is loyal to one lady or one that sticks it in every hole they see out there? Thanks but we'll pass. Majority of you don't believe in your woman cause your fellow men have indoctrinated you into thinking all women are liars, so excuse me if I doubt the sincerity in your "assertion." I am yet to be convinced on the importance of a man in my life. Sorry. ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by GreatMage: 11:11am On Oct 31, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: Now I understand. I really do. The problem doesn't lie with the world but rather with you and how you see the world. There's nothing that can convince a person who thinks the world is cold, heartless and with love or sincerity... And also; when it comes to marriage... The lady is the one that makes the selection. So only you knows what you want. A lady saw a charming, loving and caring man who tho not wealthy like davido but has prospect and can take care of his bills and his partner's. Then she saw a toxic guy who is super rich but is arrogant and prideful. She saw it all and knew deep within her who she should chose but unfortunately, the saying " I would rather cry in a Ferrari than cry in a bike" resounded in her head... Married the super rich guy, got what she was looking for and then came regrets. Everything you highlighted over there simply expose your heart and mind on relationship and family building which to be is kinda twisted. Would have loved to tackle and correct your misgivings one at a time but as the Chinese would say: "You can not crave a rotten wood" The outlook of the world in your mind is just too twisted... 1 Like |
Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by GreatMage: 11:14am On Oct 31, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: Like I said earlier: Your view of the world is twisted... You must have read alot of novels and watched alot of movies which wasn't helpful while growing up... ![]() 1 Like |
Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by ThaThinka: 12:07pm On Oct 31, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: Interesting questions. Let's just say most men have been conditioned by the society to get married. If you don't, people would consider you an irresponsible person and may be pestering you. Also, some men marry for religious reasons. They don't want to be guilty of sinful, non-marital intimacy. Still some do so mainly because they want children. As for those ones kneeling upandan, it's their cup of tea. That's what some redpillers call "simping." Why would an African man like me do that? ![]() ![]() Were it not for the fact that I am Christian (and try somewhat to live like one) I'd rather not marry at all if the only one available is materialistic and thinks intimacy is the only or best offer she has. Have I died since all these years that I haven't had it? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by Emarvel(m): 12:23pm On Oct 31, 2020 |
Godoverevery , what you wrote is nothing but the truth. I can relate to almost all |
Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by Sixfeetbelle: 5:37pm On Oct 31, 2020 |
GreatMage: Yada, yada, yada... I should have put a disclaimer up there that this was for educative purposes only but in typical nairaland fashion, when men can't debate a point further, they turn psychoanalysts on you. Spare me the balderdash you wrote up there, will you? |
Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by Sixfeetbelle: 5:41pm On Oct 31, 2020 |
GreatMage: I fail to see the correlation between my bibliophilia and its happily-ever-after riddled endings to having a twisted world view, but you're the expert so I'll leave it to you. Bye. |
Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by EmmaNuella77(f): 5:44pm On Oct 31, 2020 |
FunnyDude: Thankiu guyyy
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Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by Sixfeetbelle: 6:01pm On Oct 31, 2020 |
ThaThinka: Hmmm. @ the bold, isn't it ironic that they are heavily guilty of this sin even as single people? Hardly will you find a man that hasn't been a part of lust in one way or another. So generally speaking, if this is why men get married, eh... let's just say they're better off NOT married. I have issues with the "getting married cause you want children" ideology. I mean, the devil works in mischievous ways and one wouldn't want to get stuck in a childless home for long. Asides, I still maintain men can have children outside of marriages. Orphanages are in their hundreds. Homeless children are in their millions. Good lord! Proposing on bended knee is just being fancy. And maybe silly but I won't judge. My problem is the ugly beasts that may emerge when all the fanfare is done with. Coming to you, you can still decide to NOT marry. Priesthood is the easiest way out of this predicament ![]() ![]() Conversationally, I believe that most men lack a proper discernment of why they are getting married. Marriage is for companionship, first and foremost, not children, not sex and definitely not for acquiring wealth. Building friendship with her, being her friend, and staying her friend ensures you two can weather the storms when they come waging in. |
Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by ThaThinka: 8:14pm On Oct 31, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: I guess women must be saints then since you appear to think practically all men are guilty of lust. And for sexual sin, men commit it alone, right? ![]() Also, does the fact that some men commit fornication before getting married means it's no longer a sin if they continue with it and forget marriage altogether? I'm struggling to grasp the point in that second paragraph ("Hmmm" was the first). Regarding the bold, so you believe that? Strange. For someone that seems to have issue with men generally. And is that companionship the intimacy, which appears to be the only thing some ladies have to offer? Stop generalising. All men are not the same - the same can also be said of women. You don't describe everyone by the traits of a few or even the majority. Try to give everyone the benefit of the doubt until they prove to not be worth it. Because of the action of a proportion, for instance, many Westerners are suspicious of every Nigerian as being fraudulent. But the question is: do you agree to be called a fraud simply because you're a Nigerian? 1 Like |
Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by Sixfeetbelle: 8:26pm On Oct 31, 2020 |
ThaThinka: Point of correction: I don't hate men. I think they're wonderful creatures. On the contrary, I hate men that aren't sexually disciplined. Men who carry sex for head, them I see as dogs. Sorry not sorry. No need for the emotions. Every human being commit sexual sin, I agree. I was only responding to your examples though, nothing to it. Every other thing you pointed out, I probably agree too. So yeah. Note to self: Give everyone benefit of the doubt. For your last question, my peace I leave you: "When a finger gets dipped in palm oil, it will eventually get to the rest of the hand" - Igbo proverb. |
Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by SimpKING: 10:22pm On Oct 31, 2020 |
IamAngelica: Absolutely correct 1 Like |
Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by GreatMage: 6:52am On Nov 02, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: Alright... |
Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by GreatMage: 6:52am On Nov 02, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: Okay... |
Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by GreatMage: 6:59am On Nov 02, 2020 |
At the end of the day... Who am I to say ones ideology is wrong or the perspective of how they see the world and life itself is faulty ![]() Oh by the way; Any wuxia or xianxia novel reader or fan here? |
Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by Nobody: 7:09am On Nov 02, 2020 |
Stephenmoka4: Most of these posters generalise here. What type of person comes to NL to rant about women everyday if not bitterness. Panophist needs to educate people |
Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by Mrscarter(f): 12:24pm On Nov 02, 2020 |
santos123: N some ladies don't know the value of good men even tho they can be broke at the time |
Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by Mrscarter(f): 12:29pm On Nov 02, 2020 |
FunnyDude: With that mentality some shallow girls will use you. U take care of each other in a relationship. It isn't a transaction. U can't say U don't want a woman to love you for who you are n not wat U give them. U can take care of your wife or girl if she truly cares for u but some girls will want U just for Ur money. Those girls are the ones guys on here are talking about. U don't respect someone if U only date them for money. |
Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by Mrscarter(f): 12:34pm On Nov 02, 2020 |
IamAngelica: I agree with you. |
Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by FunnyDude(m): 1:28pm On Nov 02, 2020 |
Mrscarter: Well said, by the way. I'm very smart with women. But I believe at some point (age) one should be over these kind of discussion. Unless the op is a teenager or student. 1 Like |
Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by Tango123: 1:30pm On Nov 02, 2020 |
FunnyDude: Natural law? Established by who? Go and find out the meaning of social construction of reality. There is no natural law apart from the one u and i and people in our society constructed. And we can chamge it if we want The OP has changed it for himself, just like i did many years ago as a teenager. If u like, continue to leave under that law. Its ur life. Its ur choice |
Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by Tango123: 1:32pm On Nov 02, 2020 |
virginprincess: U call this wonderful comment because u are a woman. When u have a son who spends stupidly on his girlfriend, we will have this conversation again. |
Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by Godoverevery: 1:35pm On Nov 02, 2020 |
FunnyDude:very funny.... funny dude indeed. feel free to wallow in foolery dude ....FYI I graduated uni 8yrs ago and currently an employer of labour.... |
Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by Nobody: 1:40pm On Nov 02, 2020 |
From what I can see, this thread applies to Nigerian women right? |
Re: The Reason Why We Men Say **ladies Have Only Sex To Offer** by Nobody: 5:56pm On Nov 02, 2020 |
u support a simp virginprincess: |
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