I lost my mom 9 years ago and my dad got married again just two years ago..
My mom had two daughters for my dad and I'm the second daughter.. However my new step mum has a daughter from her ex husband..
My elder sis is married so I stayed with my dad,step mum and her daughter...
But ever since this new woman came along I don't like her neither her daughter... I just have this strange feeling when am around her...one time am friendly with her the next minute I just get this strange feeling again..

My instinct just tells me she is a bad person pretending to be nice..but she is so nice to me..
But then I noticed my dad doesn't give me things in her presence or even let her know about the things he gives me..he once told me if am not comfortable with her I should let him know but I said am good...

So I went back to school ( I'm in my 200 level)then the pandemic came up but I didn't go home instead I went to my aunt place which is my mum sister... My dad came to visit me there and he told me his wife's daughter stole his money but his wife begged him not to tell me..
I was pissed off but my dad told me to forget it but I still felt this woman isn't treating my dad right but its just instincts anyways..

Fast forward to July this year my dad fell sick but I went to school for exam so I do call him to check up on him but later I called but his wife picked and said he was sleeping and hang up..I called back so many times but she didn't pick and later switched off...when I called the next day she picked and we ended up fighting over the phone.. I reported to my sister but she scolded me instead...

I had a dream my dad was being fed and I tried convincing him to come with me to church cuz it might just be an attack but he said it was only malaria ...I tried convincing the wife too but still..
A week later I called my dad but he was sounding so weak I tried convincing him again but his wife said he was getting better.. But my dad reported me to my elder sis saying I was shouting on him on the phone...

The next day was my last exam so after the exam I called my dad but it was someone else that picked telling me he gave up already...
I called my aunt and she came to pick me in school...I couldn't stop crying...
He was a Muslim so the next day everyone was at the cemetery except my step mum , people giving excuse that she was wailing too much and they couldn't bring her along, she only lost her husband and I lost a father wtf ...

She called me later that week to greet me...
So my dad family sold my dad car and gave my sis the money to share...
But instead my sis gave me and step mum the same amount which isn't fair and she has no child for him..I told my sister and she said I was behaving like a witch so I let it go since its just money anyway...
My sister and all other family kept taking pity on her and let her stay in the house till date...
She didn't leave the house ...
I have no pity for her and I didn't call her at all...
Everyone said am a very wicked person...
But I still think my dad death was not ordinary but every time I pray about this issue I kept seeing a woman I didn't know in my dreams.. I don't understand anymore and I think I should just let go now since it won't bring him back...my dad was still young and even had a mother...
I stay permanently with my aunt now since she is the only one that supports my motion and I like it there but now I feel guilty and want to call my step mum but I just don't know why I only feel resentment towards her...and again I'm just 20 yrs
Is this normal
Pls advice
Thanks

It's okay to be guided by your intuitions but the truth is that there is no real evidence from all your write-up that the woman is evil.

Darasimi2040:

So my dad family sold my dad car and gave my sis the money to share...
But instead my sis gave me and step mum the same amount which isn't fair and she has no child for him..I told my sister and she said I was behaving like a witch so I let it go since its just money anyway...

I think you goofed on this.

Let your mind be at peace


Your dad is gone

Move on

From your write up, i cant seem to find motive or intent for your stepmum to kill ur dad...yes, she has the oppourtunity...
I'm sure it aint money coz if it was, you would have clearly stated it...

You loved ur dad and you were never okay with him getting another wife....
I thinks thats why you are having a feeling of resentment towards her(i dont blame you tho)..

You even want her to park from her hisbannd's house(which by right is her's also)

All in all, i dont think she is evil as painted...itz just youe mind playing against her for marrying ur dad..(my opinon tho)

Let it go there...

Don't endanger yourself

My dear sorry for the loss of your dad. to me i will say you should let go, if she has a hand in your dad's death karma will surely visit her.