If a woman feels hurt through something said or done by a man, why does she try to make the man feel guilty for it?

If your feelings are the result of external circumstances, or what people say about you, how can you direct your life in a constructive way? A man might be totally clueless that's he's done anything wrong, yet he's given the third degree as though he's committed the unpardonable sin, is that fair?

No one should make another person responsible for how they feel, since everyone has the ability to control what they feel.

If a person refuses to accept responsibility for their feelings, and learn how to control what they feel, they're nothing more than a leaf in the wind, at the whim of circumstances - like a puppet on a string.

Are you willing to acknowledge that your feelings are your own and that they’re entirely your responsibility? Trying to make a man guilty for how you feel is just plain wrong.

Oh well, they hardly take responsibility for the actions and/or inactions.

Always ready to play the victim card to attract sympathy. We don see them taya!

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Human beings in general don't like to take responsibilities for their actions. It is their nature to blame something or someone else. To ply, manipulate, hinder and destroy.