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| How Do I Deal With These Bad Behaviours by Victoria407(f): 10:31pm On Oct 30, 2020 |
I have two bad behaviours: The first one: whenever I wake up in the morning especially when I wake up in a bad mood I just pick someone around the house to fight with... I fight with that person and by the end of the day I always regret it..I remember my cousin that stays with us..I woke up as usual and i remembered something bad she did to me a year ago and I got into a fight with her..the next thing I didn't cook her food with the rest since I an in charge of cooking the girl just kept her cool...by evening my anger was gone and I started talking to her again.. It can be either my mum,sister, dad or brother.. Once I wake up frowning ...don't just near me... I wonder if this is a mood swing or devil at work... Second behavior:: I don't behave ladylike, not like I behave like a boy o ..i manage a poultry with my mum and whenever am working and my mum sent me on errand I don't even get to change, I just zoom off With that dirty working cloth unlike my younger sister who clean up even if she is going the next house.. I remembered my mum sent me fuel one day and I went without bra then I saw a guy staring at my chest,I gave him a bad stare that day..again I remembered going out with my friends and I ordered amala instead , I didn't pity the food at all, I was biting into the hard meat like I was at home...it was when I got up to wash my hands I discovered some people there giving me disgusting looks even , I didn't care anyways but my friends said I was shameless... Whenever I go to parties I tend to eat a lot without caring...my mom would have to caution me... My mom and dad are serious Christians and take no nonsense since am the first born and 21 years ...I had a bf once and when my parents found out ,my dad took belt and my mum turning stick and dealt with me...the next day I took out the anger on the guy and gave him a resounding slap..he broke up with me afterwards...my mom took me to all the pastors cuz of this bf issue .....all this made me view myself as a weirdo and its bothering me... Someone pls advice... Thanks 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: How Do I Deal With These Bad Behaviours by Nobody: 10:35pm On Oct 30, 2020 |
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| Re: How Do I Deal With These Bad Behaviours by Nobody: 12:17am On Oct 31, 2020 |
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| Re: How Do I Deal With These Bad Behaviours by Nobody: 12:18am On Oct 31, 2020 |
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| Re: How Do I Deal With These Bad Behaviours by Nobody: 12:20am On Oct 31, 2020 |
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| Re: How Do I Deal With These Bad Behaviours by Nobody: 12:41am On Oct 31, 2020 |
Hmmmm interesting,,,, OP you're okay,,,,,,, You just need to work on yaaself,,, I can relate dat first behavior to myself,, but i changed ,,,,,,, i could remember dat i use to vex for my youger brothers like mad,, you go think say we no be the same blood,,,,,,,,, Anyway,, you just have to train your mind,,,, For yaa second character lol i can relate to one of my friend,, ,,,, dat one is not the issue as time goes on,, nobody will tell you to change,, But work on the first one before the thing late,,,,,,,,  |
| Re: How Do I Deal With These Bad Behaviours by JONSYN7154: 2:29am On Oct 31, 2020 |
Victoria407: can I see that your chest to see what that guy is starring at? |
| Re: How Do I Deal With These Bad Behaviours by pansophist(m): 2:43am On Oct 31, 2020 |
Everytime you wake up in the morning, pick an exercise to do that will drain you off a reasonable amount of energy and reset you into a better mood. It helps. Also, even if you're angry, do pushups, jump rope, or anything that will make your heart beat. It's a natural detoxer to feel better. Secondly, you need to train yourself to be ladylike. It is good that you are aware of your behaviours that are not ladylike. So therefore, change them. Behaving like a woman in many case is about socialisation. Train yourself to be one. Seek help from your sister if needed. You'll get use to it with time. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: How Do I Deal With These Bad Behaviours by Nobody: 2:54am On Oct 31, 2020 |
engage in any morning exercise that will burn off the aggression in you u can choose from these following exercises to burn off the aggression in u in the mornings 1: kick boxing 2:Running up a hill 3:jumping ropes 4:marathon or cross country jogging(weekends only) 5:pushups 6:situps choose from any of these exercises and when u do them u will burn off ur aggression in them and dont bring up the excuse that are a woman and cant do it cos i have seen white girls who do mountain climbing or engage in sky diving.IF a white girl can do such then u as a black chick can do ten times of what she does. 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Deal With These Bad Behaviours by ugochukwun(m): 3:28am On Oct 31, 2020 |
Maybe you’re a witch and you don’t even know it  Or you don’t have an elder brother who would tame you by beating Christ into your head Or no guy has really flogged your destiny with a good gbola Or being rude is your destiny People like you nah e dey kill their boyfriends over stupid issues Only my love fit help you You need someone who will comot your teeth every morning  By the time no teeth remain, u go don dey alright |
| Re: How Do I Deal With These Bad Behaviours by CaveAdullam: 6:13am On Oct 31, 2020 |
A. Have a to do list of important activities to perform every morning, and make sure these activities are what will benefit you in the long run, and also make you tantalizing towards others. They include: Prayer, meditation, reading, retrospection, introspection, writing, cleaning, exercising, creative thinking, etc. There are seven(7) days in a week, and it is very possible to fall into the planning fallacy even after setting the to do list, and moving on with the plan for the day. But, however, this shouldn't be a problem: 1. Start with performing these activities thrice a week, better you start Monday till Wednesday. 2. Rate yourself: if you are able to perform from Monday to Wednesday you mark yourself excellent, minus one day; good, minus two days;poor, and no performance at all; fail. As you become stronger, you will progress further with the days. 3. Start recording your success, and observe how your result is changing you and making you more appreciable. Also observe how others see and treat you; in words and actions. B. A woman ought to be neat, smart, kind, gracious and very conservative at all times. I think If you first know the negative consequences of your actions, you will adjust faster. 1. If you're dirty, you will develop bad body odour, and people wouldn't like to stay around you. So, always ensure you wear good clothes; for any occasion or activity. People are attracted to you if you are neat, and well dressed. And besides, you don't know when your husband will come knocking. 2. Enter into social interaction with people in your church, monitor how they interact with one another, learn from them and enhance yourself. Also do this on an individual level with your customers. 3. Follow the right eating plan; gluttony or bad eating etiquette is not good for ladies. Eat and drink moderately. Avoid alcohols and excessive sugar. 4. Make a decision to improve yourself and be nice to others everyday. You're a pastor's child, and a woman; all eyes are on you. Better start behaving and coordinating yourself according to the right and proper demeanour that pertains to your position. Be versatile: growth is a gradual process; bit by bit, failure is always part of it; do not be fazed by it. Every time you fall, make sure you rise further. It is not easy, but improve and become better you must. Thanks. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: How Do I Deal With These Bad Behaviours by Vecto(m): 7:06am On Oct 31, 2020 |
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| Re: How Do I Deal With These Bad Behaviours by Nobody: 7:34am On Oct 31, 2020 |
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| Re: How Do I Deal With These Bad Behaviours by virginprincess(f): 7:50am On Oct 31, 2020 |
Op like seriously you really need to work on yourself especially on the issue of hygiene, no responsible and decent guy of this era would want to marry a dirty girl, maybe you should learn from your younger sister, for the other one, i sure when you wake up in the morning you don't pray, learn to pray, you see before you finish praying those anger and bitterness would leave your heart. 1 Like |
| Re: How Do I Deal With These Bad Behaviours by Regex: 8:37am On Oct 31, 2020 |
Victoria407: You may want to check the psychiatrist to know what's up with you. A little being cautious of yourself since you've already figured out the problem. You don't care how you look since your parents wouldn't let you have any boyfriend when you were younger. It really did traumatize you. |
| Re: How Do I Deal With These Bad Behaviours by motionarena: 8:41am On Oct 31, 2020 |
you are depressed, you need good 4uck. DM me lets connect Victoria407: |
| Re: How Do I Deal With These Bad Behaviours by Shortyy(f): 10:00am On Oct 31, 2020 |
You're normal my dear. Just tomboyish. That's all. You have two choices, train yourself to act ladylike, or be your normal tomboy self. Me too sometimes I no dey wear bra commot for house, and I no send anyone. |
| Re: How Do I Deal With These Bad Behaviours by Sawzer(m): 10:09am On Oct 31, 2020 |
Victoria407: I just know that you will be a real person Being real in not entirely good Unfortunately, I don't have advice to give down |
| Re: How Do I Deal With These Bad Behaviours by lordC(m): 11:11am On Oct 31, 2020 |
You can be remade following the design of your Creator. It requires time, but it's worth it; because it delivers expected results. It has been tested 7 time and not failed. The sweet version of you is what your Creator designed in His Word (the Bible) for you; and it can be restored. 1. Surrender yourself to Him, by believing in the resurrection of Jesus Christ, His Son and confessing Hin as Lord over your life. 2. Lay hold of those things which He has said about you and let them transform your mind. This will take some little time, within which you have to guard your heart with all diligence, watching the things you view, listen to, think about, etc. You lay hold of them by: 1. Attaching yourself to a family of God's children that will ensure you have the right mentorship about you and what your Creator said about you. 2. Study these things which your Creator said about you. 3. Think on them, intentionally think on them and give yourself wholly to them. Refuse any thought that is not consistent with them. 4. Verbally declare those things to yourself in agreement to what He has said about you. Write a new script with your tongue on your heart by boldly declaring who God has made you. By now, the ability to live accordingly would have welled up in you and you won't incline to the fake you anymore. 5. Live accordingly until 1,2,3,4&5 become your new habit and culture. We can talk further on this if you please. WhatsApp or Telegram me on 07065255519. God bless you. |
| Re: How Do I Deal With These Bad Behaviours by Mrscarter(f): 12:04pm On Oct 31, 2020 |
Victoria407: Wow U sound mean Sound like a grumpy person lol. Sounds like U gotta teach urself to control your moods n to treat ppl like you like to be treated. |
| Re: How Do I Deal With These Bad Behaviours by Mrscarter(f): 12:06pm On Oct 31, 2020 |
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