HRHQueenPhil:
what is love sef? GOD so love the world he gave his own son, husband love ur wives as Christ loved the church and Gave his life for it..
Simple things like giving her your time not looking for remote control of TV, buying her gifts, calling her thrice in a day to see how her day is going, completing her when she looks nice and her food yummy, praying with her And correcting her in love..making love to her.it can be d game changer for ur relationship

Yeah showing her how much U love her will make her feel more secure. It's true. Just little things can make Ur marraige so much better.

southniyikaye:
let me give you a scope, I know you might be tired whenever you get back home.shower, take your meal and try as much as possible to dedicate the rest of your time to her. See they don't neccesarily need much, just cuddling and playing with her will be OK.. Just relax on her leg let her play with your hair and body or make her relax on your body and play with her whole body.. Compliment her. Even when you didn't see anything new about her, just create one and talk about it.. Her hair might be due or just talk to her about telling her you saw some sexy lingeries.. Just keep her engaged with the little time you have..

So in love with this comment. U will surely know how to keep a woman

HRHQueenPhil:


ignore her ramblings,i have broken up with my man ten times this week..just show her this side of u...pls try..I know women can be frustrating

inside life olofa

1) File a report to the police station with evidence of her suicide threat. You'll be safe if she eventually do it. Send a copy of the report to her parents.

2) Report the sex denial, and frustration to your religious leaders. I know your religion has case studies for this issue in marriage.

3) Visit a marriage counselor. Go alone first for the first session ; then go with her subsequently. Discuss the issues with the counselor in details.

4) Focus on your work (business and career). If your marriage ruins your source of income, you'll be in mess without good savings.

5) Do not announce/discuss your intentions. Lock your phone and pc and use passcodes known only to you.

6) I know you seem to be a responsible man. This young age is the right time to Man up and explore your potentials, skills and interests. Let nothing and no one stop you from pursuing your success. Think of the lifestyle you want to give your children. Think of old age.

7) Learn to command some respect in your marriage. It appears you've loosed it. Pick a few books on marriage from the bookstore and read. Learn to 'be the man' always without having to resort to physical abuse. You can achieve this.

Withdraw All the privileges she has. Limit the funding to basic, limit access to your bank account, stop eating her food. Drop any money she might need to run the home on a table and tell her so she wont need to ask you. Do all the house chores yourself every morning and as often as required. Bath and take care of your children. Take them to school.

9) Live like she doesn't exist. Let her feel useless, help your children do assignments after work, dedicate time to yourself and the children. Pray as required. Visit the poor and give them alms. Don't involve her.

10) This is my golden point.
Never raise your voice, hand on her. Do not show any signs of frustration or anger from her behaviors. Ignore her when she cries unnecessarily. Make provisions in the house. Food, beverages, female materials, baby stuffs. Pay your bills and utility fees on time; don't let them come home asking your wife for bills.

Maintain as many of these you can do for 14 days. It may be tiring but I bet you'll love it.
Watch her behaviors without showing you're watching.

Share the results again for further evaluation.
Let's hope she'll change.
Mind you, if she pretends to change, never restore all the privileges. She has lost some for the sake of goodness.

I am not telling you just be the man. But

BE A MAN.

I am a woman, but i wont lie that if any man would do all these for me in just 3 days, i swear my head will reset. U are not just a man but a MAN
Some men actually knows how to handle a woman sha..

Yahksbiz:
"I don't understand, she keeps asking for love. she is just frustrating my life. how do you do when divorce is your only option.

right now, I don't know if I should marry second wife or still maintain a first. "

my brother

When a woman keep asking for love,it shows you are the problem. I believe the woman lacks your care,that is why you still don’t give a damn, and you could think of is to marry another woman.
You have deprived her of so many thing which are more important to woman than material things.

Kestolove:
My brother divorce her and marry another cause if u allow her problem kill u, she will cum to ur burial with another man

Woman don’t be quick to judge. It is dangerous to give this kind of advice when you don’t have details of what is really going on their marriage.
As you can see from the op post,he said,” the woman keeps asking for love”. It shows there are a lot of things wrong with the marriage due to lack of care on the part of the man. You may think all woman want is material things, no it is more than that. Woman don’t just ask for love, she ask for it when her man don’t show her love through care.
You can see all he could think of is to marry another woman. Why can he seek for advice to resolve the issue instead of thinking of marrying another woman? Is that the solution to the problem?

emerged01:

Woman don’t be quick to judge. It is dangerous to give this kind of advice when you don’t have details of what is really going on their marriage.
As you can see from the op post,he said,” the woman keeps asking for love”. It shows there are a lot of things wrong with the marriage due to lack of care on the part of the man. You may think all woman want is material things, no it is more than that. Woman don’t just ask for love, she ask for it when her man don’t show her love through care.
You can see all he could think of is to marry another woman. Why can he seek for advice to resolve the issue instead of thinking of marrying another woman? Is that the solution to the problem?

she asked for love is not but a way of saying I am not available. that is not true.
in fact she practically denials me sex. she welcome me with hot looks and shear character. my food isn't in sight I have to buy it. if I talk to her she act like I am not worthy talking to her.

on Friday when I returned from mosque, I was talking to her she refused to give a reply. instead she told me she is tired. she told me she wasn't feeling too well when I asked her what the the problem was she told me I should leave her alone. I was to do some of the advice I got here to cares her, my brother my house was on fire. my two children were just crying. the reason for their crying was they are hungry.
I don't understand why is she punishing the little children because of me? when cant she cook food for them. if she was afraid that I ask for mine why not cooked it to the way it will be enough for them and count me out.

Pray to God never to meet an entitled broke woman, or fustrated soul, they are never satisfied...they can never change too, it is their chatacter,run from her to enjoy your life.

Yahksbiz:


she asked for love is not but a way of saying I am not available. that is not true.
in fact she practically denials me sex. she welcome me with hot looks and shear character. my food isn't in sight I have to buy it. if I talk to her she act like I am not worthy talking to her.

on Friday when I returned from mosque, I was talking to her she refused to give a reply. instead she told me she is tired. she told me she wasn't feeling too well when I asked her what the the problem was she told me I should leave her alone. I was to do some of the advice I got here to cares her, my brother my house was on fire. my two children were just crying. the reason for their crying was they are hungry.
I don't understand why is she punishing the little children because of me? when cant she cook food for them. if she was afraid that I ask for mine why not cooked it to the way it will be enough for them and count me out.

All these problems can still be resolved. Consider the future of children before you going ahead to marry another woman.