I think we really need to be guided about certain issues in life, especially on that canker worm of entitlement mentality. If i as a man begs a lady for a loan of 50k and she decides to give me the loan on the ground that she must sleep with me for TWO WEEKS, i as someone who is really broke and knows how hard it is to make money will tell her to let me think about it, after the thinking phase, i will call her up and tell her that i am ready. She will then proceed to use me. After the using phase, i will still be good friends with her, i will make sure no one hears what she did to me, i will still ask for more loans with smiles and let her use me over and over again for weeks unending and then when i pay back the loans, i will proclaim a very big THANK YOU MA to her. Do you know why, its because i have no right to tell her how to make use of her money, i mean its her money, she suffered for it so i dont have any right to jugde her if she dictates a condition to me before dispensing some of her hard earned sweat to me. It will be so wrong of me to feel entitled to her sweat, entitled to get free money from her.
Now, in the same light, a girl begs me to dash her 100k for her upcoming birthday party and i tell her i would like to sleep with her just for ONE NIGHT, thats where the bubble bursts, she will tell the whole wide world how wicked i am by trying to take advantage of her, she will label all men as scum, she will tag all the feminists she knows and redirects them to my space for them to heap insults on me, she will go to WACOL and play the victim's card, she will join women support groups on facebook and whatsapp as she already sees her self as going through some shitty trauma and she will then start to see me as her worst enemy. Guess what, my reputation becomes ruined, people starts to see me as a monster, men starts to be seen as demons and WACOL finally charges me with infringement on the fragile emotional stability of a potential widow and i go to prison just because i simply felt i had the right to decide how to utilize my money, my own sweat and blood.
Lets be guided, everyone has the right to use his/ her money they way he or she wants, if u as a girl decides to take advantage of me by sleeping with me before giving me a loan, its very very fine and okay by me and if u as a lady feels that you are entitled to my free money, pls just SHIFT.

Gbam!! op so much sense in what u said thumbs up

Are you not the one feeling entitled to her body because of money, it's very simple, she asked for money, if you cannot give her, tell her and move the fvck on,

Stop equating sex with money, can't you think? Why will you give her the condition of opening her legs cos you want to dash her money? It is no more giving, it is a loan payable with something else, if you want to loan her, payback should be same way; money,

Must you guys let your diick think for you? If you do without having sex with all the ladies that come your way, will you die? Are you not scared for your life? Do you know the kind of spirit and soul nonsense the girl may have? What of STDs and all? Herpes and other ills is real for fvck sake, do you know that?


If she agrees now, same you will come here with insults, calling her a hoe or olosho, and other nonsense your little brain can come up with, when you are obviously the community dog of a cesspit,

And this one will also call himself an Alfa mail, while he's an everlasting simp that thinks with only his third almost dead diick, rubbish.

[quote author=Fountainofyouth post=95630404]Are you not the one feeling entitled to her body because of money, it's very simple, she asked for money, if you cannot give her, tell her and move the fvck on,

hey bitch, am sorry if you find it hard to comprehend English languague, go back and try to assimilate the post, if i tell her to move because i cant give her the money that she feels entitled to, she should just stick to MOVING THE Bleep ON and not trying to make if look as if i used her for rituals.

The thing is, you fit the description of such girls, funny enough even after all the tanishing of reputation, girls like you will still go and humbly do the one night stand

mind u, even if i think with my dick, the size of the brain in my dick superceeds all the mass of the brains of your family and descendants put together

Fountainofyouth:
Are you not the one feeling entitled to her body because of money, it's very simple, she asked for money, if you cannot give her, tell her and move the fvck on,

Stop equating sex with money, can't you think? Why will you give her the condition of opening her legs cos you want to dash her money? It is no more giving, it is a loan payable with something else, if you want to loan her, payback should be same way; money,

Must you guys let your diick think for you? If you do without having sex with all the ladies that come your way, will you die? Are you not scared for your life? Do you know the kind of spirit and soul nonsense the girl may have? What of STDs and all? Herpes and other ills is real for fvck sake, do you know that?


If she agrees now, same you will come here with insults, calling her a hoe or olosho, and other nonsense your little brain can come up with, when you are obviously the community dog of a cesspit,

And this one will also call himself an Alfa mail, while he's an everlasting simp that thinks with only his third almost dead diick, rubbish.

I use my money to get what I need that's what it's

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shantti:

hey bitch, am sorry if you find it hard to comprehend English languague, go back and try to assimilate the post, if i tell her to move because i cant give her the money that she feels entitled to, she should just stick to MOVING THE Bleep ON and not trying to make if look as if i used her for rituals.

The thing is, you fit the description of such girls, funny enough even after all the tanishing of reputation, girls like you will still go and humbly do the one night stand

mind u, even if i think with my dick, the size of the brain in my dick superceeds all the mass of the brains of your family and descendants put together

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You are so much of a dolt, I wonder how any sane human will associate with you, talk more of ask your broke self a dime, schmuck.

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Bennysam:

I use my money to get what I need that's what it's

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So why are you telling me this? Why should I care

Fountainofyouth:
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You are so much of a dolt, I wonder how any sane human will associate with you, talk more of ask your broke self a dime, schmuck.

even the so called INSANE people that associate with me usually thank God every morning when they wake up and realize they arent you. Do u know why? its because you are a blazing ninny with the IQ of a deranged mosquito

In as much as I won't ask a woman to fuckkk me before loaning her some money, as a liberal that I am, I won't blame the OP if he insists on having a one night stand with a girl before loaning her some money.

The truth is that we all have different perspective on how we see things and everyone is entitled to do whatever he/she feels like with his/her money.



Incase you don't know na me talk

Funny enough not all ladies will loan you money in return for sex. Some girls know better. Sex is not their ultimate bargaining chip. They rather commercialize sex than condition it.

shantti:


even the so called INSANE people that associate with me usually thank God every morning when they wake up and realize they arent you. Do u know why? its because you are a blazing ninny with the IQ of a deranged mosquito

Only a mosquito will know that a fellow mosquito is deranged.

Fountainofyouth:
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So why are you telling me this? Why should I care

I tell you because of that trash you wrote there, you people always play victim card

Fountainofyouth:



Only a mosquito will know that a fellow mosquito is deranged.

Thank you for admitting that you are a deranged mosquito, but what actually happened was that your level of lunacy was so conspicuous that non mosquitoes started to notice it too.

Bennysam:

I tell you because of that trash you wrote there, you people always play victim card

i swear

Liposure:
Funny enough not all ladies will loan you money in return for sex. Some girls know better. Sex is not their ultimate bargaining chip. They rather commercialize sex than condition it.

Money <=> Get laid, is one of the most unfair trade I think. I view it quite different cuz it is like losing money and someone tried sleeping with the person to make him forget the sorrow. My two cents though.

shantti:
If i as a man begs a lady for a loan of 50k and she decides to give me the loan on the ground that she must sleep with me for TWO WEEKS.

Why will any Nigeria woman do that. (Excluding sugar mommies). Looks like a two way for the guy, unless she gives you an unpaid labor (cleaning, dishwashing or housekeeping)

I as someone who is really broke and knows how hard it is to make money will tell her to let me think about it, after the thinking phase, i will call her up and tell her that i am ready. She will then proceed to use me. After the using phase, i will still be good friends with her, i will make sure no one hears what she did to me, i will still ask for more loans with smiles and let her use me over and over again for weeks unending and then when i pay back the loans, i will proclaim a very big THANK YOU MA to her.

Use you?

Do you know why, its because i have no right to tell her how to make use of her money, i mean its her money, she suffered for it so i dont have any right to jugde her if she dictates a condition to me before dispensing some of her hard earned sweat to me. It will be so wrong of me to feel entitled to her sweat, entitled to get free money from her.

How about other ways to use you during the loan period, like car washing, dishwashing, errand boy, manual washing machine or so.

Now, in the same light, a girl begs me to dash her 100k for her upcoming birthday party and i tell her i would like to sleep with her just for ONE NIGHT, thats where the bubble bursts, she will tell the whole wide world how wicked i am by trying to take advantage of her, she will label all men as scum, she will tag all the feminists she knows and redirects them to my space for them to heap insults on me, she will go to WACOL and play the victim's card, she will join women support groups on facebook and whatsapp as she already sees her self as going through some shitty trauma and she will then start to see me as her worst enemy. Guess what, my reputation becomes ruined, people starts to see me as a monster, men starts to be seen as demons and WACOL finally charges me with infringement on the fragile emotional stability of a potential widow and i go to prison just because i simply felt i had the right to decide how to utilize my money, my own sweat and blood.

N100k is not worth the trade, keep your money, that is a very awful exchange and a big loss to you.

Lets be guided, everyone has the right to use his/ her money they way he or she wants, if u as a girl decides to take advantage of me by sleeping with me before giving me a loan, its very very fine and okay by me and if u as a lady feels that you are entitled to my free money, pls just SHIFT.

You have the right to use your own money but, not in a way that causes discomfort to others.
At bolded, it is for your benefits and it is okay for you but, not for everyone. I prefer money to sleeping around.

Stephenmoka4:
Why will any Nigeria woman do that. (Excluding sugar mommies). Looks like a two way for the guy, unless she gives you an unpaid labor (cleaning, dishwashing or housekeeping)

Use you?



How about other ways to use you during the loan period, like car washing, dishwashing, errand boy, manual washing machine or so.


N100k is not worth the trade, keep your money, that is a very awful exchange and a big loss to you.
You have the right to use your own money but, not in a way that causes discomfort to others.
At bolded, it is for your benefits and it is okay for you but, not for everyone. I prefer money to sleeping around.

my broda, catch the joke and stop analysing. The world would have been better if women starts to think and behave the way men do

shantti:


my broda, catch the joke and stop analysing. The world would have been better if women starts to think and behave the way men do

Do men really need that competition from the other gender

Honestly, abeg nor give 100k like that oo, even if na joke.

Fountainofyouth:
Are you not the one feeling entitled to her body because of money, it's very simple, she asked for money, if you cannot give her, tell her and move the fvck on,

Stop equating sex with money, can't you think? Why will you give her the condition of opening her legs cos you want to dash her money? It is no more giving, it is a loan payable with something else, if you want to loan her, payback should be same way; money,

Must you guys let your diick think for you? If you do without having sex with all the ladies that come your way, will you die? Are you not scared for your life? Do you know the kind of spirit and soul nonsense the girl may have? What of STDs and all? Herpes and other ills is real for fvck sake, do you know that?


If she agrees now, same you will come here with insults, calling her a hoe or olosho, and other nonsense your little brain can come up with, when you are obviously the community dog of a cesspit,

And this one will also call himself an Alfa mail, while he's an everlasting simp that thinks with only his third almost dead diick, rubbish.

You think these people are normal? People that think with their third legs. Everything is about sex to them. Money and sex, those are the two things men can offer a woman. And they expect the woman to die trying to please them. May God not allow me to meet such an unfortunate fellow as a partner.

Stephenmoka4:
Do men really need that competition from the other gender

Honestly, abeg nor give 100k like that oo, even if na joke.

Shortyy:

You think these people are normal? People that think with their third legs. Everything is about sex to them. Money and sex, those are the two things men can offer a woman. And they expect the woman to die trying to please them. May God not allow me to meet such an unfortunate fellow as a partner.

how come you only focused on the male aspect

No woman will want to have sex with a man in exchange for sex. No woman!
It's either she gives you money or she doesn't give you. Simple. Unless you're talking about Married women that are looking for young boys To make them feel good, apart from that, no single lady will do that.

You people will just cook up lies every time to shame the female gender.

Tabasco23:
how come you only focused on the male aspect

See it down there.

Shortyy:
See it down there.

where

Shortyy:
See it down there.

don't you mean up there and down here

Shortyy:

You think these people are normal? People that think with their third legs. Everything is about sex to them. Money and sex, those are the two things men can offer a woman. And they expect the woman to die trying to please them. May God not allow me to meet such an unfortunate fellow as a partner.

u r mad not to understand where i was coming from. i mean it would have been great if circumstance were switched and women decides to start taking advantage of men before helping them, it would have made sense. so before sending that urgent 2k to your guy, tell him to come to ur house and collect it

shantti:


u r mad not to understand where i was coming from. i mean it would have been great if circumstance were switched and women decides to start taking advantage of men before helping them, it would have made sense. so before sending that urgent 2k to your guy, tell him to come to ur house and collect it

Fend for yourself. You're a grown man.

Shortyy:
No woman will want to have sex with a man in exchange for sex. No woman!
It's either she gives you money or she doesn't give you. Simple. Unless you're talking about Married women that are looking for young boys To make them feel good, apart from that, no single lady will do that.

You people will just cook up lies every time to shame the female gender.

It may be cook up story, but point of correction! No woman will like man to sleep with her without compensate her with money, I don't knw women in abroad but obodo naijiria,

A grown up woman once said, if a man sleeps with woman without giving her money, woman sees it as if she is being punished.


Even urself you take money from ur guy.

So many of them will be old spinsters

Fussion1000:


It may be cook up story, but point of correction! No woman will like man to sleep with her without compensate her with money, I don't knw women in abroad but obodo naijiria,

A grown up woman once said, if a man sleeps with woman without giving her money, woman sees it as if she is being punished.


Even urself you take money from ur guy.

I'm talking about a woman demanding money for sex, not the other way round.
You don't have to tell me about men and their unquenchable hunger for sex. I already know that.

Tabasco23:
don't you mean up there and down here

Yes, up.