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Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Mummiesgirls4(f): 9:46pm On Nov 03, 2020 |
Am a moda of 4 girls by 2 different men , 2 lives with deir fada one with my parents and i onli stay with my last baby 1 years and 5 months . I I relocated to asaba to start afresh and i met my new guy in june , he loves me so much and has accepted my baby like his own , we are staying together but i i haven't told him abt my 3 other children , i lied to him that i only have 1 child i I didn't tell him about them because they don't live with me and its not necessary to mention them now . I love him so much and i don't want to loose him because he is my everything on earth. Did i do the right thing please advice me. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by donigspain(m): 9:51pm On Nov 03, 2020 |
It is better to tell him now than for him to find out later. Relationships built on deception hardly last. 8 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Foodqueen(f): 9:52pm On Nov 03, 2020 |
Tell him but he's gonna leave. Why on Earth did you have kids for different men Modified..... As I was reading thru your replies, my mind kept going to a particular lady that once shared her mumu story. I had to check ur profile and am not surprise it's u again. 13 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by EditorsPalace(m): 9:54pm On Nov 03, 2020 |
Tell him the truth. Simple. Avoid future headaches, disappointments and sorrows. Tell him the truth and have your peace of mind. If he wants you, he will stay with you. But don't tell him until he is very serious with you. Until he has proposed to marry you or is talking about marriage with you, then you can tell him. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by JamParkMe: 9:58pm On Nov 03, 2020 |
I hope he finds out and breaks up with you immediately. This is evil. 7 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by lymelyte(m): 10:00pm On Nov 03, 2020 |
You are an extremely promiscuous lady. Why would you have children for multiple men? So this is how you will still have another child for your current man and after he breaks up with you, you will go and get pregnant for another man again.. Na wa for you o..I carry preek up for u 21 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Mummiesgirls4(f): 10:01pm On Nov 03, 2020 |
donigspain:if i tells him now he will leave me maybe after marriage... I don’t know realli |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Righteousness89(m): 10:02pm On Nov 03, 2020 |
A House Built on a Faulty Foundation, no matter How Beautiful it is will Collaspe yakata .. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Mummiesgirls4(f): 10:03pm On Nov 03, 2020 |
Foodqueen:The last one was a mistake but I love her |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Mummiesgirls4(f): 10:06pm On Nov 03, 2020 |
EditorsPalace:Thanks I like this advice , I will not tell him maybe until he is serious about marriage |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by donigspain(m): 10:06pm On Nov 03, 2020 |
Mummiesgirls4:You're more concerned with him leaving than hurting his feelings with your dishonesty? That's selfishness. It will be easier for him to choose you after you come clean now than to remain with you when he finds out after "marriage". The marriage is in quote because it is not real and will be easily dissolved in court for being built on deception. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by mariahAngel(f): 10:25pm On Nov 03, 2020 |
Mummiesgirls4: When you do tell him and he accepts and goes on to marry you, do you plan on bringing in your children into the marriage? If not all, how many of them do you intend to live with? Or are you ready to neglect your children for a man in the name of "I have my own life to live"? Don't you think forgetting "love" and raising your kids would make your life easier? 10 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by armyofone(m): 10:27pm On Nov 03, 2020 |
Big Yes!! |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Mummiesgirls4(f): 10:36pm On Nov 03, 2020 |
mariahAngel:No am not planning to bring them in my house , I I will never neglect my children because they are not in the street , they are fine with deir father and grandparents. I can’t forget about love because my children will not satisfy me sexually so I need a man in my life and I am happy to have him 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by LadySarah: 10:53pm On Nov 03, 2020 |
Mummiesgirls4: ezigbo sexual satisfaction. pls visit a family planning unit. thank you 15 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Mummiesgirls4(f): 10:56pm On Nov 03, 2020 |
LadySarah:Am safe I did family planning for 5 years |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by starbuck(f): 10:59pm On Nov 03, 2020 |
Better tell him now and expect the worse than living your life on false hopes... 1 Like |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by starbuck(f): 11:00pm On Nov 03, 2020 |
Mummiesgirls4: Then how come your last baby is 1 year plus Modified You did it recently? 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Mummiesgirls4(f): 11:05pm On Nov 03, 2020 |
starbuck:Yes I did it when my last baby was 3 months old it will last 5 years 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by IamGreen1(f): 11:16pm On Nov 03, 2020 |
Madam pls remain single there is nothing that man will really need you for if he realised that you already have 4 kids besides you as an individual 4 kids are more than enough for you So I don't know what else you're looking for by wanting to keep a man. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by adekola72559: 11:30pm On Nov 03, 2020 |
I hope he finds out and breaks up with you immediately. This is evil. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Mindlog: 3:56am On Nov 04, 2020 |
Mummiesgirls4: Quoting you from your earlier thread to have an insight into where you have been and also coming from. Co-habiting with a man shouldn't have been your priority when you are yet to get a clear head about the direction of your life. Don't lead any man on with intentional misinformation about your child-bearing history because the consequence will be dire. You already have 4 children with different fathers, I suggest you pause on any relationship that is sexual to avoid having another child and focus on putting your life back on track and having all your children living with you while their fathers make their contributions. Being economically empowered and raising your daughters should be your priority, work on conquering the cravings of seeing a man as an escape from your reality because it isn't! 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by GboyegaD(m): 4:25am On Nov 04, 2020 |
Mummiesgirls4: If this is not fiction then you have no business being in a relationship. As a mother of 4, I expect you are matured to know deceit doesn't keep a relationship. Tell him asap. 5 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by UjuJoan2: 6:59am On Nov 04, 2020 |
Mummiesgirls4: But why would you keep something like that from him in the first place? I don't get it! 1 Like |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by lymelyte(m): 8:42am On Nov 04, 2020 |
Mummiesgirls4:mistake you say? So na so the thing dey sweet you |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by lymelyte(m): 8:44am On Nov 04, 2020 |
Mummiesgirls4:her kpecus dey scratch her too much |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Nobody: 2:53pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Of course, you should tell him. It's extremely deceitful to lie to him that you have only one child when you have four. Fear God na. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by Mummiesgirls4(f): 3:09pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
DimplesLikeWow:Ok will tell him when he is serious about marriage ... if not maybe few days after the wedding |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by ahnie: 3:39pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
I met one some days ago... she's a mother of two from two different dicks. She's currently co-habiting with her new catch who's a single father from two women. She's even planning to birth another kid for her new catch who recently lost his job. She isn't even up to 20 yrs yet. It's a funny world. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by faithfull18(f): 5:22pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
ahnie:Na wa oh. |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by bukatyne(f): 6:13pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
ahnie: Is this Africa Magic or Life Magic? Or has Child Support started paying in Nigeria? |
Re: Should I Tell Him Abt My Oda Children? by crackhaus: 6:25pm On Nov 04, 2020 |
Mummiesgirls4:I feel like maybe something is wrong with you. You want to wait to inform him only after he gets serious about marriage, because you know deep down that he will never get serious about marriage if he knew. What even makes you so sure he is interested in getting married to you in the first place? Man could just be enjoying the free coochie a single mother of one (as he thinks) is providing for him. 11 Likes 1 Share |
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