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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Gabkosh: 12:10pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
CHoccolaTE:This one is a single mother. This is the same attitude that leave her a single mother Hahah 4 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by shomutuski(m): 12:10pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess: a woman money is not to be shared but a mans money is yours abi eleeribu werey 6 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by ZinoFasisi: 12:11pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess: Wow, just wow. So as a mother, a woman should not share and spend some of her own money on her own children 1 Like |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by zeusdgrt(m): 12:12pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
nenyewrites:Men die out of pressure to provide with little or no assistance,the life span of a man is cut short that's why in a marriage the lady lives longer and it is due to mental, physical,pschycological pressure of target mounted upon him.If u don't get this then I think maybe you are not matured enough to comprehend adulthood information. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by chrisj2(m): 12:12pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
For the men, it is liabilities everywhere... Some of the younger women cannot even cook properly, they are wasteful and soon let themselves go... If not for children, I will not be married because the sex is not even good - not with a fat 20 something woman who is loathe to exercise or eating sensibly. She has used my money to overfeed herself and now wants me to spend a whole load of money helping her shed the weight and still find her attractive. I did not realise that it was hunger that made her slim even after having a child before - now I know. And the family wahala too - on both sides; women no care about men at all. Monkey dey work, Baboon dey chop... 8 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Gabkosh: 12:14pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
WeRblessed:May God bless you. You don't have to be sorry, any bitter lady here who does not like your comment should go and die. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by zeusdgrt(m): 12:16pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
nenyewrites:Same way women will work to have that dick! |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by rapcy(m): 12:18pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess: 1 Like |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by humilitypays(m): 12:21pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
nenyewrites:Not the truth sister.......the truth is, global economy is not smiling....its taking a torn on men.....remember in the past, most women were at home caring for the kids and taking care of the home, leaving the jobs for the men to work and earn money they take back home to their wives and kids....but the case is totally different today; more single ladies are gainfully employed now than single guys.....it now take extra effort from single guys to find their feet financially, and by then, most have clocked 40yrs......while the ladies they were supposed to marry are earning good salaries and income and refused to marry the guys who are not earning fat like them.....this created an inbalance situation in our society. Either women go back to the house and cater for kids and do house chores and leave the jobs for the guys to do and bring back the money or they must accept the gender equality in roles and in financial spending and caring for the home and even in settling the marriage rites.....only this can solve the problem, not ladies closing their legs which is not possible because they too fantasize about sex, they even enjoy sex more just that nature bestowed them with more self control, if not, ladies for de rape men everyday because they enjoy sex more than men, if you are a lady who have dated a guy you cherish, you will agree with me that sex is sweeter to ladies than to guys......guys just lack self control towards sex, all thanks to nature, and its for a purpose of the nature also 8 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Gabkosh: 12:23pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
DenreleDave:She's refering to her father, brother, uncle and all the males in her family. |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Talkingoil(m): 12:30pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess: This kind of mentality is the reason why when you eventually that kind of man, you automatically become his slave, and he'll never honor or regard you 1 Like |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Talkingoil(m): 12:31pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
Churchill6767: Leave the pest alone |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Sarita01(f): 12:31pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
CHoccolaTE:True,they don't give anything back,they're like a black hole sucking up every thing but giving back nothing,a man in my area beats his wife everyday,forming alpha male on her even when everyone knows she out earns him and provides basically everything in the house,even gives him money to fund his business but he can't even give her love(that is free),he can't give back respect,he can't give back appreciation,he can't give back peace of mind,he can't give back attention,he practically couldn't give back things that are free,then how can he give back things that are worth money. Babe,only give all of you to a man who gives you all of himself,choose yourself above others. No concessions allowed only compromise 4 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by THUNDER4real(m): 12:33pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
Fussion1000:Olodo have you forgotten that in the bible,... HE..can be referred to male/ female. you are just reading the text. small boy, go and read the whole chapter ask God for interpretation. Stop spewing your ignorance here. |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Talkingoil(m): 12:34pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess: Young lady please, you're expression oozes of sheer ignorance and I can assure you if you go into marriage with this mindset you'll have issues o, be wise |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by jikins(m): 12:34pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
ZIINI: Chai no chill at all. But raw truth |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by bizhop01: 12:35pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess:Even Jeff bezos the richest man on earth wife didn't sit at home, this is 2020 you better wake up and dump your poor African mentality Team i need billionaire husband but i don't even have ordinary transport fare. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Talkingoil(m): 12:36pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
deewhydoski:With 200 naira data to browse |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 12:36pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
zeusdgrt: And women don't have mental,physical and psychological pressure down to the pressure of getting married or having well-brought up kids while going to work with pregnancy and still ensure the smooth running of her home? You must be brainless. If you like don't eat well and stop smoking, drinking, and having sex up and down, you will die early. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Talkingoil(m): 12:37pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
ZIINI: Valueless and a liability to men 1 Like |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Prolific007(m): 12:39pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess:If I may ask a woman's money is not supposed to be shared by her husband I understand but what about her children?? You see where you dumb gals want to keep wallowin' in fantasy and stuupidity right |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by DenreleDave(m): 12:39pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 12:40pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
YoungDaNaval:it would be easier for a fat cow to pass through the eye of a needle than for a nigerian lady to be dating one guy at least the naija lady would have a guy she likes that she is dating then having another that might be providing her sex then another that is providing her money ..if she is a student she will have one brilliant student that will be helping her do her school work and dat one will be hoping to get into her pant..then she wll have a nice guy who is dedicated to her as reserve in case the main guy she really likes disappoints |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 12:40pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
pocohantas: Thank God you know, reason men delay in getting married is "Expectation". these expectation ranges from culture to societal to inlaw, even family & friends. As the man everyone expect you to be the provider. No reasonable man would want to go into marriage with the hope of " my wife will support me". a man is aware, support from a woman is a threat to his dominance on a short run or long run. so men just simply wait till when dey feel they're capable or look for one low class gurl that settles it. when those gurls to get you your age they will know |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Talkingoil(m): 12:41pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess:Take the correction being given to you |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by stacyadams: 12:41pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
Gabkosh: Deep down ,she sef know |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 12:42pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
humilitypays: Even during famines in the past, men didn't change their resolve to get married. So, it's not economy anything. There is simply no motivation, because they get everything free of charge now. Even with the so-called boyfriend and girlfriend relationship where someone will be getting free sex without paying bride price. Remove free sex, let me see if men will not hustle to take back the work from women. 1 Like |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Liposure: 12:42pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
omoharry:though i understand my role as a man in the union, i'd still want a supportive wife not just any wife. 1 Like |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by stacyadams: 12:43pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
lefulefu: Minus the "Mr nice guy"others go enter d pant finish,after the whole body count,Mr nice guy go borrow money from soko loan go do wedding 3 Likes |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by CHoccolaTE: 12:46pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
dominique: Personally I don't know one single woman that has no job, no matter how small, I don't know why men are always crying and wailing about providing, There is this very young girl I used to work with that was running two jobs to put herself through University, she was a front desk clerk and was also making pastries and cakes for an event planning company. Many women run side hustles like online trading or makeup artists etc It's only on Nairaland that women are liabilities that bring nothing to the table. 1 Like |
Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Passionate1(m): 12:47pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
virginprincess: " A woman's money is not supposed to be shared."
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Re: Why Majority Of Men Delay In Getting Married Nowadays by Nobody: 12:48pm On Nov 07, 2020 |
THUNDER4real: ...in ur family , it's woman who used to be the head of family, I pity ur dad, and not you the way he allowed your mama to bring you up That's why you are reasoning & biting like woman wrapper in public forum. 1 Like |
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