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Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by Nobody: 7:06pm On Nov 08, 2020 |
women are evil and manipulative things. no wonder Islam no allow them freedom along with other ancient cultures. A woman can travel from kogi to Lagos and still give you mind-blowing sex. if as a married man she is giving excuse marry another wife or get side chick. nonsense 2 Likes |
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by bestmutiu2019(m): 7:12pm On Nov 08, 2020 |
Mindlog:so after 5 years of begging for s€x he should keep on begging till death split them ba? |
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by toyinsalammy(f): 7:27pm On Nov 08, 2020 |
CanadianNaija: Well said, God bless u for this |
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by pocohantas(f): 7:58pm On Nov 08, 2020 |
Twoclans: No need to dey beg them, make e divorce am. All of us will rest. How you see am? |
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by Sixfeetbelle: 8:25pm On Nov 08, 2020 |
Kriss216: You always talk out of point that I wonder how you get so many likes. Which lady took care of children when she was dating her boyfriend? Or do you think taking care of children is like watching a soccer match? 2 Likes |
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by Sixfeetbelle: 8:27pm On Nov 08, 2020 |
HarunaWest: He should go and meet the in-laws that collected those things and have sex with them. No bride collected any nonsense yam or goat for herself. 3 Likes |
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by Twoclans(f): 8:50pm On Nov 08, 2020 |
pocohantas: I did not want to tell him that if his penising game is poor even if he likes he should marry 100 women it will still end in tears. Why will I as a wife be tired to chop better prick.If I hear.Which mumu house chores excuse is everybody talking about. Anyway I hope he considers your suggestion. 1 Like
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Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by pocohantas(f): 8:57pm On Nov 08, 2020 |
Twoclans: We need to hear the wife’s side of the story. Penis people are fond of playing victim. I hope he considers it o. His sexual happiness is very important to the world. A Hot man is an angry man. 1 Like |
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by Munzy14(m): 9:04pm On Nov 08, 2020 |
smithclito:First bolded, the usual abnormal normal for some couples nowadays... The second bolded, their usual way, bleep at the beginning, and slack when u put a ring on it...smh.. I have three friends suffering same issues...They make us get scared of next level atimes.. Na God go save u sha... you know what to do ,when u are pushed to the wall...As far as u discharge your hubby duties well, u no supposed beg for yoni o... |
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by Munzy14(m): 9:10pm On Nov 08, 2020 |
Kriss216:No lies at all.. |
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by Munzy14(m): 9:23pm On Nov 08, 2020 |
smithclito:Na hypocrite, them plenty here, that one fit deh on top boyfriend mattress the access nairaland..Unto weekend spendings... No sense of training, small thing insult don enter..smh Back to the matter, so u do all this @bolded, yet...Na suffering o. Don't beg for it, for a while, and see how things goes... |
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by Munzy14(m): 9:26pm On Nov 08, 2020 |
smithclito:Indabosky mode
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Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by Munzy14(m): 9:37pm On Nov 08, 2020 |
mariahAngel:na so! Road weh don close don close, Oga don try... |
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by Munzy14(m): 9:38pm On Nov 08, 2020 |
Psych412:
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Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by belcom10(m): 9:47pm On Nov 08, 2020 |
You said you are a believer. You also said she was not like that before you get married. Did you taste or have been eating the cookie before marriage. Or your own believer is different from the one we know. Let's know before I summit my advice. smithclito: 1 Like |
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by mariahAngel(f): 9:51pm On Nov 08, 2020 |
Munzy14: That's not true A woman who once loved you can love you again |
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by Munzy14(m): 9:56pm On Nov 08, 2020 |
mariahAngel:We are talking sex, not love o... OP's wife love him, but he isn't getting sex which is part of conjugal rights. And all this domestic chores no be excuse for a woman weh want to bleep, even she flew in from a long journey, she will bleep hell out of the man. For this case, I think crackhaus made more sense with the detailed narratives.....The problem must be in that comment. Nwoke mmadu a di go frustrated. Na y i no like nice guy, them go use u deh tie wood anyhow.. If OP na bad guy, wify go respect herself. 2 Likes |
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by mariahAngel(f): 10:02pm On Nov 08, 2020 |
Munzy14: There's a difference between loving and being in love with a person. The passion part of their relationship is dying out, which needs reigniting. |
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by Munzy14(m): 10:09pm On Nov 08, 2020 |
mariahAngel:I modified the comment. U see y I said something about naija couples, and ignoring ones in a while getaways..All those things count...And rejuvenate things...Despite the fact, the one weh go cut, go cut. Marriage no be beans sha, see finish can birth withdrawal very easy easy... |
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by mariahAngel(f): 10:15pm On Nov 08, 2020 |
Munzy14: It's not easy being a woman o! The demands can be overwhelming... from husband to children to chores to everything The worst part is that most men don't seem to understand.... even women find it hard to understand themselves and what they're feeling most times There are so many issues about women that should be addressed. 1 Like |
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by Munzy14(m): 10:26pm On Nov 08, 2020 |
mariahAngel:To be a man is not a day job o... But wait, y this our generation the complain alot, and our mothers did everything, and still enjoyed marital life...smh Are our mothers different from nowadays women? Because most of us had either working class mom or business minded ones..yet discharged their duties, even pride in it. At this stage, only God knows what year 3000 and above ladies will be like... |
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by mariahAngel(f): 10:38pm On Nov 08, 2020 |
Munzy14:That is why couples need to carry each other along, supporting each other. But wait, y this our generation the complain alot, and our mothers did everything, and still enjoyed marital life...smhUwa mmebi Men within that time probably had one thing or the other to complain about and compared their time with the time before, and I believe men of the future will say men of now had it good. 1 Like |
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by Munzy14(m): 10:53pm On Nov 08, 2020 |
mariahAngel:lol, smh same time...We talking women, u deh change am to men.. Men of those days enjoyed, very free to marry many, imagine op at liberty to marry many, he won't create this kind thread. He will be praying for strength to discharge his duties .. ume ka eji afu oku |
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by smithclito: 11:01pm On Nov 08, 2020 |
Munzy14: u wan kill me with laugh . it is well. |
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by smithclito: 11:08pm On Nov 08, 2020 |
belcom10: nobody was born a born again Christian. I use to very social then with lots if club girl who don't give u headache. u have them and u go r way. during and after my marriage I met Christ proper and I dont intend turning back Note I dated my wife for 5 yrs before marriage. 2 Likes |
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by crackhaus: 11:21pm On Nov 08, 2020 |
Munzy14:That's a fact! And if I didn't know, I would think you were making it up I believe I've mentioned this sometime here before, and I expect that most men (married or single or player) would already know it by now – Women nor get any other thing wey dem fit use manipulate/control their men pass sex, NOTHING else...no jokes Although some may go further to use the kid(s), some might use food if they know the man is the type that it will work for... but overall, their most basic/go-to/first choice tool of control and manipulation is always sex. However, the moment a man has successfully freed himself from this eternal curse of always needing/desiring pünny like it's the next best thing after oxygen, more than half of his problems with women (whether wife or girlfriend) go disappear especially when they know he is that type of person that can't be bothered to grovel for it. That one nor mean say we nor go make them feel like the most important people in our lives, but at the same time, a man who values his peace of mind needs to have a body language that makes his partner/wife understand he is not TOTALLY dependent/tied to that feeling of pleasure she can provide for 30mins once she opens her legs... even though she is the queen of his world. Meaning if she carry dey do anyhow, she go still see anyhow. 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by EmperorMaria: 11:29pm On Nov 08, 2020 |
D 2 men above won’t rest until they destroy this marriage,,expired bachelors |
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by mariahAngel(f): 11:39pm On Nov 08, 2020 |
Munzy14: Na now you come! I kwuola ihe nu gi n'obi...make una come dey marry many na, ka anyi lewenu anya |
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by ImaIma1(f): 11:46pm On Nov 08, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: You are taking him seriously |
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by ImaIma1(f): 11:57pm On Nov 08, 2020 |
smithclito: You should try getting her help first. Many women lose themselves to house chores, taking care of the children and hardly have time for themselves, let alone their husbands. I have learnt in recent times that if you can afford it, pay someone to do it. Even my aunty that believed in doing everything herself advised us not wear ourselves out doing everything if we can pay someone to get it done. Because after years of stressing herself, she realized that she had missed out on a lot of other things she could have used her time for. Plus she is not as strong as she should be. She is your wife, not a stranger. Ask her what would make her life easier. And if after, you relieve her of the plenty chores, and she is still not giving you attention, then you should raise alarm. 2 Likes |
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by Sixfeetbelle: 12:14am On Nov 09, 2020 |
ImaIma1: I tire ooh. But I also worry for the people that will take him serious |
Re: Pls I Need Your Sincere Advise. by ImaIma1(f): 12:19am On Nov 09, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: I don't think any wise person will. |
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