when I hear much older people talk about there love life back in the 80's ,90's is so different from ours....although some got it wrong but alot married the women/men of there dreams...most dated for years building things together before getting married but dating/courtship now is a mess...many men don't even have plans of getting married... ladies that still needs there mother to be coaching them about life are now mothers themselves (mostly single mums).
A close friend of mine just showed me the whatapp chat of his wife and a guy.... obviously she cheating with the guy but the husband isn't a saint either because he is cheating aswell....is just funny because I just didn't know what to tell him to do.
So am wondering why is it so hard to find true love this days and why is cheating so much among us ...

What is the cause of lack of finding true love on both side (male/female)...

Pls let discuss what we think is the cause and how we can solve it.

I will go first....I think the lack of finding true love for men is based on the orientation.... Every lady wants a rich husband and men don't want women who don't have source of income.

The solution for me is both genders should place less importance on money when choosing partners.

The status quo has been altered. Women are no longer subjective, this generation believes in independency of ladies (feminism), it doesn't go well with true love

jahguide2268:
The status quo has been altered. Women are no longer subjective, this generation believes in independency of ladies (feminism), it doesn't go well with true love

lol.....and what do you think is the solution to this

Just as a child graduates from high school into college, his priorities shift. The courses he takes become more narrow. He drops some classmates behind and retain few classmates who share the same college preference and same course. We do not go remain in high school out of loyalty to our friends.


As we age, our values, hobbies job etc changes. This is a sign of growth.one whose priority remain constant is stagnant like a child who fails to learn . Our choice of life partner also change.
https://tobechispeaks./2020/11/04/a-little-fragrance-of-divorce/

Why do we like recycling old things always,


Money and girls are like bread and groundnut


So with money true love emerges

Just hold money you go dey control dem like a goat on a rope,

SILENTandSMART2:
Why do we like recycling old things always,


Money and girls are like bread and groundnut


So with money true love emerges

Just hold money you go dey control dem like a goat on a rope,

And if the money finishes

Godoverevery:

And if the money finishes

Love disappear of course,



Nah money full there coconut head

For me ehn, true love still exists and is very much available.

You just need to find the right person.

SILENTandSMART2:

Love disappear of course,


Nah money full there coconut head

Then isn't there fault.... using money to attract a woman love is totally wrong.

EmmaNuella77:
For me ehn, true love still exists and is very much available.

You just need to find the right person.

But you know in the process of finding the right person many people have gotten hurt badly....infact is now very difficult to find the right .

Godoverevery:

Then isn't there fault.... using money to attract a woman love is totally wrong.

Lol this man wanna prove shumtin to me SILENTandSMART ,


Nobody talk about that,


So nah poverty you go use get their love? Nobe money ?

Godoverevery:
But you know in the process of finding the right person many people have gotten hurt badly....infact is now very difficult to find the right .

Ikr?
Tho I don't know for others.
But for me, I'll know if you really like me or I meet the one.
I don't know what to call it but my instincts does magic

SILENTandSMART2:


Lol this man wanna prove shumtin to me SILENTandSMART ,


Nobody talk about that,


So nah poverty you go use get their love? Nobe money ?

You don't have to be poor bro but what you saying is loving someone because he/she is caring, intelligent, smart, godly is not available anymore....nah money be the only thing

EmmaNuella77:


Ikr? Tho I don't know for others. But for me, I'll know if you really like me or I meet the one. I don't know what to call it but my instincts does magic

How many relationship have you been in

Godoverevery:

How many relationship have you been in

just one

EmmaNuella77:

just one

Good

Godoverevery:
You don't have to be poor bro but what you saying is loving someone because he/she is caring, intelligent, smart, godly is not available anymore....nah money be the only thing

Yeah you're kinda right


But did you think all the things wey mention beat money?

SILENTandSMART2:



Yeah you're kinda right


But did you think all the things wey mention beat money?

Nah.... no money no life

Godoverevery:
Nah.... no money no life

Now you're talking,

You self see say nature no favour us at all,


Forrkkk you girls

u can only find true Love without money... Wen u don't have money that's wen u will know those who truly Love u.

Jamest162:
u can only find true Love without money... Wen u don't have money that's wen u will know those who truly Love u.

Aswear man that's 1880's principle,

Yes love in term of help, you're right

But love in term of marriage you're wrong phisicaly , spiritually and normally

Godoverevery:
I will go first....I think the lack of finding true love for men is based on the orientation.... Every lady wants a rich husband and men don't want women who don't have source of income.

The solution for me is both genders should place less importance on money when choosing partners.

Don't be ignorant my friend... Make money before talking of relationship in terms of friendship before marriage self. Have your savings and investment oh even if she needs the marriage fast let her sponsors it.
Without money there is no life talk more of living and finding love. All over the world everyone wants a friend who has something to offer get that and never depend on anyone for anything.

SkyRicks:


Don't be ignorant my friend... Make money before talking of relationship in terms of friendship before marriage self. Have your savings and investment oh even if she needs the marriage fast let her sponsors it.
Without money there is no life talk more of living and finding love. All over the world everyone wants a friend who has something to offer get that and never depend on anyone for anything.

Ohh my gad

Man you too much

This word made my day,


That's just the bitter truth,

Make money first