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Help Plz! Am Falling For 2 Damsels by Nelbless(m): 10:10am On Mar 16, 2011 |
Am in love to a girl a year younger than my self, my main aim of posting this massage in this forum is because am a bit confuse, by His grace, i acquired a sound education in and out of Nigeria and presently a distance student of university of shelfield, but suddenly i found my self in love with this girl, yes she loves me so dearly, and i love her too but to be honest her level of education to mine is very low, due to the situations of things in her family, she did accounting in a polythecnic (ond). though one quality in her that made me so comfortable with her is her understanding, she's enconomical, petient and every other thing a man desires, but she can't SPEAK GOOD ENGLISH AND CAN NOT HAVE ANY SOUND ADVICE OR IDEAS ON WHAT ONE CAN DO TO PUT FOOD ON THE TABLE. i have tried my able best to know if i will get her, inlove with reading, engaging her in things that wil brush her knowledge and make her sharp in thinking and presentable to the caliber of my friends, but she is the type that dont have any hunger in learning. recently i met a fresh graduate, very young but match the exact girl am looking for (intelligence), Am always swept off my feet when ever i interact with this second girl, plz advice me plz |
Re: Help Plz! Am Falling For 2 Damsels by alagha: 10:17am On Mar 16, 2011 |
education is not the real thing in marriage ,pls concentrate with your heart fill love and make her yours. |
Re: Help Plz! Am Falling For 2 Damsels by justwise(m): 10:45am On Mar 16, 2011 |
Nelbless:That girl will be better of without you, do you think you are educated? Think again. |
Re: Help Plz! Am Falling For 2 Damsels by SAGoddess: 10:51am On Mar 16, 2011 |
Don't talk about education and have tons of errors in your write up, it is funny! |
Re: Help Plz! Am Falling For 2 Damsels by Basildon1(m): 10:51am On Mar 16, 2011 |
justwise:LMAO! At the same time, bear in mind that there are many people that cant speak good english but are very well educated. But i get the point here, pot calling kettle black! |
Re: Help Plz! Am Falling For 2 Damsels by SAGoddess: 10:53am On Mar 16, 2011 |
Basildon1: Very true but funny nonetheless |
Re: Help Plz! Am Falling For 2 Damsels by kaymoney2(m): 10:54am On Mar 16, 2011 |
@ OP you seem not to be contempted with whatever you have Try to encourage your babe and bring her up to your standard you can do this with love not making her feel inferior and deficient since you know what physcological depression can cause be good, be nice encourage her with love |
Re: Help Plz! Am Falling For 2 Damsels by Ranoscky(m): 10:57am On Mar 16, 2011 |
Well, I think Alagha & just wise have said it all. OP, do you stil need my advice? Then I wil advice you to stay glued to your 1st love! |
Re: Help Plz! Am Falling For 2 Damsels by kaymoney2(m): 11:01am On Mar 16, 2011 |
The boy na one kai oloju kokoro Easily carried away by anything package in skirt |
Re: Help Plz! Am Falling For 2 Damsels by Nelbless(m): 11:02am On Mar 16, 2011 |
Thanks every one, thanks Kay Money for being DIRECT, with your words, i do appreciate, |
Re: Help Plz! Am Falling For 2 Damsels by Odunnu: 11:02am On Mar 16, 2011 |
What a post! @Justwise, easy mahn |
Re: Help Plz! Am Falling For 2 Damsels by alagha: 11:04am On Mar 16, 2011 |
Ranoscky:gbam! |
Re: Help Plz! Am Falling For 2 Damsels by Basildon1(m): 11:05am On Mar 16, 2011 |
SA Goddess:LOL, definitely funny. The starting line " Am in love to a girl , " cracked me up already! |
Re: Help Plz! Am Falling For 2 Damsels by justwise(m): 11:06am On Mar 16, 2011 |
Basildon1:Education is not only about the paper qualification, its the whole 'you', that include the way you treat others and ur view on things. Yes mistakes are bound to be made but i don't think he is the best person to teach the gf English language. |
Re: Help Plz! Am Falling For 2 Damsels by justwise(m): 11:10am On Mar 16, 2011 |
SA Goddess: Thats my point, the gf wouldn't made an effort to learn but making her look very little is not the best way to go about it. |
Re: Help Plz! Am Falling For 2 Damsels by kaymoney2(m): 11:10am On Mar 16, 2011 |
alagha: @ Alagha Who told you education is no big deal in marriage except if you are an illiterate thats when you wont bother your head with such issue, Are you limiting the poster or who told you he wont be a public figure in future or are you advising him to keep his wife at home whenever he is going to a public function Alagha you are wrong with that your claim |
Re: Help Plz! Am Falling For 2 Damsels by justwise(m): 11:11am On Mar 16, 2011 |
Odunnu: Its all good, how u dey? |
Re: Help Plz! Am Falling For 2 Damsels by SAGoddess: 11:11am On Mar 16, 2011 |
justwise: Kwawkakwakwakwak, stop it already, you are going to make me choke on my lunch |
Re: Help Plz! Am Falling For 2 Damsels by Nelbless(m): 11:17am On Mar 16, 2011 |
You are Blessed Kay Money, That is exactly what i'm pinpointing, i've always struggled to limit her from knowing some of my friends, yes she've got all the elegant and poise but, communication is one big huddle (i mean in accurate english) she's having, but i must confess, " i love this girl so dearly" but she ain't learning not even with all my efforts. i wouldn't want to see my future disapear b4 my very eyes, plz comment more Naira landers |
Re: Help Plz! Am Falling For 2 Damsels by Nautillus(m): 11:17am On Mar 16, 2011 |
Nigeria & Uk educated, Na wah oh, (sounds to me like burnt cash) |
Re: Help Plz! Am Falling For 2 Damsels by kaymoney2(m): 11:18am On Mar 16, 2011 |
justwise: Well I dont think English language is as difficult as Latin or Arabic language so whats stopping him from teaching her if he genuinely loves her |
Re: Help Plz! Am Falling For 2 Damsels by brinebaba(m): 11:20am On Mar 16, 2011 |
alagha: sure it isn't the real thing, . . but it's actually part of it ! |
Re: Help Plz! Am Falling For 2 Damsels by kaymoney2(m): 11:23am On Mar 16, 2011 |
Nelbless: If you truelly love her the bulk of the job resides with you, Since she can count ABC, Z correctly the job is simple, Start with parts of speech to singular and plural etc but bros e no go easy ooo , Since love conquers all the battle will be won sha |
Re: Help Plz! Am Falling For 2 Damsels by justwise(m): 11:25am On Mar 16, 2011 |
kay-money: Trust me its hard to learn from somebody who puts u down. She need to learn from a friendly environment, a place she will feel free to make mistakes and laugh it over. not with some highly 'educated professor' |
Re: Help Plz! Am Falling For 2 Damsels by justwise(m): 11:27am On Mar 16, 2011 |
SA Goddess:You like food too much, go back to work. . . |
Re: Help Plz! Am Falling For 2 Damsels by SAGoddess: 11:27am On Mar 16, 2011 |
Nelbless: Just make sure you teach her the right things dude, otherwise you two will have problems! |
Re: Help Plz! Am Falling For 2 Damsels by kaymoney2(m): 11:29am On Mar 16, 2011 |
SA Goddess: @Sa Goddess you are fuelling the situation here God is your witness |
Re: Help Plz! Am Falling For 2 Damsels by justwise(m): 11:31am On Mar 16, 2011 |
kay-money: SA Goddess is a bad influence |
Re: Help Plz! Am Falling For 2 Damsels by kaymoney2(m): 11:34am On Mar 16, 2011 |
justwise: But mind you when you call a girl your girlfriend I dont think the issue of putting her down or making her feel inferior should come in here The more reason he must be sure if he truelly loves this babe in question, But to me its very simple I can take it upon myself and polish that aspect that is rough in her Yes i can |
Re: Help Plz! Am Falling For 2 Damsels by SAGoddess: 11:36am On Mar 16, 2011 |
kay-money: I swear I am not trying to cause trouble but "Operation Rescue" is doomed before it even begins by the look of things but like everybody else, I believe love overcomes all |
Re: Help Plz! Am Falling For 2 Damsels by LesbianBoy(m): 11:37am On Mar 16, 2011 |
justwise: [size=30pt]Stop calling my mistress a bad influence[/size] |
Re: Help Plz! Am Falling For 2 Damsels by kaymoney2(m): 11:39am On Mar 16, 2011 |
SA Goddess: Hahaha @ Operetional rescue Do you forsee a Tsunami coming |
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