ekakids:

look there is no two ways about it, just call your wife and talk to her.make her to realize that though you love her and you have tried to do the things she like just for her to give you what she owes you, that its either she reponse to your desire as your wife or give you another alternative to do her job for her.then she will know that we can as well get it out there from another. and pls for God sake be a man and be firm.

omolasgidi:

Bruv, I do not envy at allllllll!!!!!!!!!!!!
The day u hit it, its going be like christmas in June

ROTFGLMFAO!

@Post

dude you mean u gadda wifey and cos u have issues with her
you kant touch her, Bro you slack up!!

but u have really tried staying so long without sex from your wife and u stay together in the same house
you really need to talk 2 her and hit it >> No need for friendship, shes married 2 u so go back straight into the marriage business
you already know her so cut the stories short

Abekeade08:

^^^25omega, he is already listening to her and has changed a lot for his wife according to his original post. No sex since last October, some Nigerian girls know how to push men's buttons sha. Later they will be the first to complain that their husband is cheating on them, hiss.
@OP, its time to take a stand and be a man, this lady needs fear instilled in her, you need to start ignoring her, stop eating her meals, she needs to learn to submit to you. Eat outside before going home and when you get home and she serves you food, tell her that you are full, hang out with friends on the weekends till late, just get her mind rolling ( i am not asking you to cheat on her ohh) Just get her mind thinking that she is starting to lose you small small, before you know she will start asking you wats wrong and why are you behaving this way to her? Tell her since she has refused to perform her wifely duties, you have decided to take your mind off her and start hanging out with your friends who make you forget about your problems at home. Trust me, she will drop it like its hot because she will be sacred, you might be getting action from outside.
Do not submit to your wife, make her submit to you. That's the key buddy.

newcreatio:

Funny, but not funny,
I have beef with my wife, she has beef with me, No sex since last year October, Now she says, we should build friendship before the sex, , every night nah torment seeing her delicately beautiful body and no-show, I am at breaking point, should I build friendship with her, and get my sexual solution secretly?, , seriously, I hate to beg for sex, Is that all she has to offer me?, Is that why she's using it to starve me, because she has nothing else to use as bargaining power?, , If by this coming weekend being over she does not change her stand on not satisfying sexually,
, I swear to God who made me, I will be the BEST FRIEND SHE'S EVER bleeping HAD!!!!, On top of that, she uses herself as yardstick, listen to her, [b]"Do you think I don't feel Hot too? Or that I am made of wood? You have to discipline yourself. I don't want it to look like we are making up only because of the sex. I have stayed 3 years without sex before I met you, why can't you do the same? You have to grow up and be a man.", [/b]Fellow brothers, because of this girl and to salvage the relationship I have started going to church Mondays, Tuesdays, Wednesdays, Fridays, Sundays, I read Daily Manner, Prayer Bullets, Rhapsody of Realities, Open Heavens, Bible on my phone, bible in my bag, going for counseling,
, what the bleeping else does she want me to do again?Brothers and sisters, advise!!!

Abekeade08:

^^^25omega, he is already listening to her and has changed a lot for his wife according to his original post.  No sex since last October, some Nigerian girls know how to push men's buttons sha. Later they will be the first to complain that their husband is cheating on them, hiss.

@OP, its time to take a stand and be a man, this lady needs fear instilled in her, you need to start ignoring her, stop eating her meals, she needs to learn to submit to you. Eat outside before going home and when you get home and she serves you food, tell her that you are full, hang out with friends on the weekends till late, just get her mind rolling ( i am not asking you to cheat on her ohh) Just get her mind thinking that she is starting to lose you small small, before you know she will start asking you wats wrong and why are you behaving this way to her? Tell her since she has refused to perform her wifely duties, you have decided to take your mind off her and start hanging out with your friends who make you forget about your problems at home. Trust me, she will drop it like its hot because she will be sacred, you might be getting action from outside.

[size=18pt]Do not submit to your wife, make her submit to you. That's the key buddy.[/size]

You are blessed among women

newcreatio:

Pls DID I OVERREACT?
, Yesterday evening,I closed & attended my Counseling session after close of work at 4:15pm.I was on YahooChat with her, told her I would be on my way home soon.

At 7:30pm I was home, she wasn't there, I waited till 8:30pm & she wasn't back, I called her & she started apologizing & promising I should get ready for the greatest sex of my life, that she was so&so part of the city,

, 10pm, 11pm, 12pm, she was nowhere to be found! Her MAN was switched off, I dialed her Zain more than 60 times!!!No pickup!,

At 1pm she called asking me to come open the main gate, she was brought by a car that seemed like a drop, but she told the man"that is him", what's that?!

She wheezed past me,i locked the gates, got up & asked her calmly , I perceived an arrogant shrug, Then she stated that her girlfriend's relationship was bla bla bla, she went to settle them, then they went for a drink because she settled them well, bla bla bla,

I got furious at the story, went into the kitchen, picked the laddle for turning "eba" & because she was unclothed,I gave her the righteous beating of my heart till the laddle broke!!

I didn't beat her like an animal,I beat her like she was a little kid, PLEASE DID I OVERREACT ,

Am worried

alfchye:

@190 I am wit you, we wonder what we keep at home as wife, May God save this our generation, They want to be the boss in the house even after the bible say the man should be the man in the house, I wonder what this western world is doing to our girls, During the old days no divorce, A man can even get 10 wives, But this days we men try to keep 1 wife and they still have 3 husbands,
I wonder what they think they are gaining from this silly western life they claim is fair, Well the end Justifies the means after every they start living in regret, but who do u put the blames on, Yourself,
One advice to the girls, learn from your parents becos they lived happily even in quarrel

You have spoken long and well my son

You are a real son of the afamchawa clan