Hi all,
I strong believe that my job is affecting my private life, particularly relating with love.
I lost a wife because of this. She owned a farm and she was always busy at work. I am a salesman and I was traveling a lot.
We have been married for 14years and I can say we have never really known each other becouse of our jobs. We had no children bcouse of this.
I separate from her and found another girl. I lived with her for 2 years. She dumped me because I was always traveling abroad, she was jealous thinking I was screwing around. She cannot psicologically effort the pressure to do not having me with her.
Now I have a new girl which I love and I care and I do not want to repeat this again, but I have no other choice because I am doing this job from the very start of my career and I will not find anything here in europe that can avoid me to travel. I want to settle down, I want to stop, to have children and take care of her and the kids, but my work is a big big issue. How can I handle this?

well, it actually depends on what your woman also does for a living, and if she is willing to move around with you.

I suggest you both sit down and discuss this serious matter, get to know what she thinks about the situation, and find out if she would feel better accompanying you for some of these business travels. (that may be a good idea, and once she knows what kind of business/jobs you do, she'll be able to deal with it at the times you two may not be together)