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11 Common Lies That Cheaters Tells by Uzomacharles: 11:38am On Nov 24, 2020
1. I’ll never do it again!

Of course, he will. Once a cheater, always a cheater. But it’s really up to you whether you’ll be willing to tolerate his constant infidelity. If he was willing to cheat on you once, what makes you think he won’t be willing to do it again? Even if he believes that he won’t be willing to cheat on you again, he would be lying to himself too.

2. You’re acting crazy!
No, you’re not. You’re acting just perfectly normal. It’s okay to freak out on your cheating boyfriend. He deserves whatever wrath you’re ready to unleash on him. He knows you’re not acting crazy and he’s merely trying to diffuse the situation by deflecting his faults unto you.

3. I promise I’ll change.
Actually, he won’t. If he’s old and mature enough to commit himself to you in a relationship, then he should also be old enough to know that change doesn’t exactly come so easily. That’s part of his personality and there’s just no changing it. You have to choose if you’re willing to live with it.

4. It was only a moment of weakness on my part.
It wasn’t just a moment of weakness. We all get our moments of weakness. We get weak whenever we’re tempted to eat that extra slice of pizza. We get tempted to splurge all our savings on toys and clothes. We also get weak whenever we’re sexually attracted to someone, but it’s not an excuse for acting on our temptations. That’s another story entirely.

5. But you’ve been really distant lately!
Typical cheater mentality. He tries to absolve himself of the incident by passing the blame on you. It’s your fault that he cheated. Apparently, it was your own fault that he chose to engage in sexual relations with other women. Certainly, he never would have cheated on you if it were just up to him. You had a role to play in the incident also.

6. She’s only a friend!✓
She’s not. Friends don’t engage in romantic and sexual relationships with people who just happen to already be engaged in a relationship with other people. She’s not just a friend. She’s a side-chick and if he’s not ashamed of cheating on you, then he shouldn’t be ashamed of admitting it...

7. She’s the one you should blame!
Blame anyone except him. Apparently, she raped him from the way he’s trying to reason his way out. He’s talking as if the sex wasn’t consensual. No, it’s not entirely her fault. He is also just as much to blame as she is and you shouldn’t let him off the hook so easily.

8. It was only sex. It’s you I’m in love with.
Sex is never only sex. Never allow him to downplay the severity of his actions. It wasn’t just sex. It was a betrayal of trust. Yes, he may still be in love with you but the fact of the matter is that he still cheated on you despite the love...

9. It didn’t mean anything!
It meant something. It definitely meant something. It meant that he’s immature and unwilling to commit to you and only you. It meant that he’s not ready to get tied down with you. It meant that he’s a cheater who lies to get whatever he wants.

10. You’re never game to try anything new in bed.
Don’t fall for it. It’s never your fault. Just because you’re not adventurous in bed doesn’t mean he gets a free pass at sleeping with other women. It’s not like he gave you a free pass to sleep with other men, right?

11.You’re the girl I want to marry.
Actually, he might not be lying in this case. But that doesn’t erase the fact that he cheated on you. If in case he’s lying and he’s just trying to trick you into forgiving him, then shame on you for letting that happen. Don’t ever allow yourself to act the fool. Have some sense of self-worth and stand up for yourself.

Thanks
Re: 11 Common Lies That Cheaters Tells by donbachi(m): 11:41am On Nov 24, 2020
The one i hate the most is "you pushed me into it".
Re: 11 Common Lies That Cheaters Tells by Nobody: 11:41am On Nov 24, 2020
Experience
Re: 11 Common Lies That Cheaters Tells by Uzomacharles: 11:42am On Nov 24, 2020
donbachi:
The one i hate the most is "you pushed me into it".

Experience grin
Re: 11 Common Lies That Cheaters Tells by Uzomacharles: 11:42am On Nov 24, 2020
SmellySperm:
Experience
Our Experience grin grin

Re: 11 Common Lies That Cheaters Tells by Nobody: 11:43am On Nov 24, 2020
Uzomacharles:


Our Experience grin grin
Na ur experience,me i no be brolosho

Re: 11 Common Lies That Cheaters Tells by Uzomacharles: 11:44am On Nov 24, 2020
SmellySperm:
Na ur experience,me i no be brolosho
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Re: 11 Common Lies That Cheaters Tells by Nobody: 11:46am On Nov 24, 2020
Uzomacharles:


grin grin grin grin
grin these vagina people are not to be trusted bro

We move

Re: 11 Common Lies That Cheaters Tells by Uzomacharles: 11:46am On Nov 24, 2020
SmellySperm:
grin these vagina people are not to be trusted bro
We move
I swr gan but also implies to we men
Re: 11 Common Lies That Cheaters Tells by ProfessorBerlin(m): 12:13pm On Nov 24, 2020
person dey fv©k that your serious babe, no allow any babe lie for u.













the way u dey control other babes fv©k na so dem dey control your babe fv©k too

Re: 11 Common Lies That Cheaters Tells by khingTony(m): 12:16pm On Nov 24, 2020
OP you are almost right, but where you went wrong is with your constant use of "he" in all the examples

Let me tell you something, in case you don't know, girls cheat and tell more manipulative lies more than men, and while doing so, they'll start the routine emotional blackmail as if it's their right to cheat. So I think you should edit your posts and use "she" although


Peace smiley
Re: 11 Common Lies That Cheaters Tells by Uzomacharles: 12:16pm On Nov 24, 2020
ProfessorBerlin:
person dey fv©k that your serious babe, no allow any babe lie for u.














the way u dey control other babes fv©k na so dem dey control your babe fv©k too


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Re: 11 Common Lies That Cheaters Tells by SILENTandSMART2: 12:19pm On Nov 24, 2020
The one i hate hearing is , "I'm sorry"



What will you say "I'm sorry"


Jusss forkkk off dats all smiley



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