So I decided to ask this question here because I have a lady that is overly demanding, I mean I tried pegging my monthly spending for her at 30,000 Naira per month including her hair, light, data and cable TV subscription plus one or two outings and hangouts. But I noticed she never seems satisfied with my little efforts as she demands unimaginable things from me like buying her iPhone 12 and etc. Guys pls how do you control spending on your women and how much do you spend on them monthly.

Cc: lalasticlala, Seun, onila, farano, prettythicksme, mynd44

If you can count how much u spend on ur girlfriend monthly it simply means you spending nothing ND u stingy..

Damnnn niggarrrr
Dump her sorry ass

You try OP

These are the repercussions of dating a student

Tufiakwa I date a lady who can't even afford to subscribe for data on HER OWN phone

Sadly most Nigerian relationships operate on a parasitic level

Anyways Me and my woman spend money on each other simultaneously.. And I don't intend to stop spending on her...

Kestolove:
If you can count how much u spend on ur girlfriend monthly it simply means you spending nothing ND u stingy..

Hmmmm so I shouldn't have a budget ba, I should just be spending like werey because I be Dangote pikin

Go for the one you can take care of and stop lamenting, learn how to avoid load that you can't carry

Any liability wey come as friend or girlfriend...dump am. I repeat, dump their sorry asss.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Dump her sorry ass

Thanks Gee

Sundrus:
Any liability wey come as friend or girlfriend...dump am. I repeat, dump their sorry asss.

Omo Odogwu but I love this girl wella o

Zzor:
Go for the one you can take care of and stop lamenting, learn how to avoid load that you can't carry

Hmmm like you have never been in love ba?

How can you be spend a 30k on your girl monthly, how much do you spend on your mama every month.. You are wasting your resources imagine investing 30k every month for two years in any financial instruments...

Mere looking at things it's really draining you financially.... My guy dump her sorry ass and find another girl even if you going to spend it should be the least 7k and give you mama 23k every month and see how your doors opens

duduade:
You try OP

These are the repercussions of dating a student

Tufiakwa I date a lady who can't even afford to subscribe for data on HER OWN phone

Sadly most Nigerian relationships operate on a parasitic level

Anyways Me and my woman spend money on each other simultaneously.. And I don't intend to stop spending on her...

Men I dey find that kind woman o

you fvck her and leave her.



like you fvck eniqurl. Don't say you are keeping eniqurl. Another guy is fvcking her while you are keeping her. Fvck her. what did I say? Fvck her. don't let her deceive you that she is a virgin. How many of these above eighteen years old girls are virgins? Fvck her. She is not a virgin.

jaelz:
So I decided to ask this question here because I have a lady that is overly demanding, I mean I tried pegging my monthly spending for her at 30,000 Naira per month including her hair, light, data and cable TV subscription plus one or two outings and hangouts. But I noticed she never seems satisfied with my little efforts as she demands unimaginable things from me like buying her iPhone 12 and etc. Guys pls how do you control spending on your women and how much do you spend on them monthly.

Cc: lalasticlala, Seun, onila, farano, prettythicksme, mynd44

This story is cooked up. show a proof of your transfer to her if you are not lying.

Since you have forgotten that charity begins at home keep on spending. You can even put her as your next of Kin.
I hate it when people who cant buy 1 painter of garri for their mum or sisters will be asking rubish questions on how to spend on a gf.

jaelz:
Omo Odogwu but I love this girl wella o

no let that kind love fool u oh. Sometimes the things wey we dey think say na love na just misguided feelings. If ur woman love no strong pass u own, just ghost her, no time. Wise women know how to build their relationships. Na only the foolish ones dey turn to liabilities & sextools.

You give her 30k monthly?
Naija girls are really enjoying. They have no regret being a Nigerian cause they would always see that SIMP who would help them carry their load.

Brunosamel:
How can you be spend a 30k on your girl monthly, how much do you spend on your mama every month.. You are wasting your resources imagine investing 30k every month for two years in any financial instruments...

Mere looking at things it's really draining you financially.... My guy dump her sorry ass and find another girl even if you going to spend it should be the least 7k and give you mama 23k every month and see how your doors opens

We're talking of 30,000 Naira here o. Not THREE HUNDRED thousand Naira.

He should dump the girl cuz he spends 30k on her? Wow! Just wow! If it's now 100k, you'll ask him to use her for money rituals. You don't know how much he earns, and you don't know if that 30k is 1% of his salary.

When you get your own girlfriend, give her 200 Naira per month. For now, allow the guy do what he wants with his money.

dermmy:
You give her 30k monthly?
Naija girls are enjoying o.

You do know that we have Naija guys who make up to a million a month, right?

You tell her go f**k ursef

KimberlyWest:


You do know that we have Naija guys who make up to a million a month, right?

I know but i'll never be this stupid even if i am making 1 billion naira monthly. Am i her parent? Is she a leper who can't work to earn a living for herself? If she didn't meet me won't she survive as a lady? I thank GOD i am a liberated man.

OP, well done. Every Dick, Tom and Harry will now come here to tell you how to run your relationship and what you should give your girl every month.

While I don't believe in depending on someone, I also don't believe in bringing relationship matters to this forum. Especially this section.

If you feel your girlfriend is asking for too much, sit with her and discuss things. Tell her why having her own money as a lady makes more sense than depending on you, and why you feel you're starting to spend too much on her, monthly.

Anyway, you just taught me that people have a stipulated amount of money they spend on their girlfriends every month. I thought the people in relationships are supposed to spend on each other and spoil themselves silly.

Let me go and tell oga that this the new way relationship works. You pay me salary every month.

dermmy:


I know but i'll never be this stupid even if i am making 1 billion naira monthly. Am i her parent? Is she a leper who can't work to earn a living for herself? If she didn't meet me won't she survive as a lady? I thank GOD i am a liberated man.

People still spend on ladies who have their own money. It's even more expensive.

Imagine a lady making 200k every month, and you want to buy her a gift. It can't be indomie and egg or 15k Android. The only difference is that she also spends on you.

I discard them like a rag they are and move to next one

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KimberlyWest:


People still spend on ladies who have their own money. It's even more expensive.

Imagine a lady making 200k every month,
and you want to buy her a gift. It can't be indomie and egg or 15k Android. The only difference is that she also spends on you.

That's the answer. Never date a broke lady
A naija girl will never date me as a broke guy so why should i spend my hard earned money on a lady? Mutual spending is allowed and i subscribed to that but i haven't met any naija lady who does that.

An average naija lady loves to take and take without reciprocating. I know you would think i'm a stingy guy but i wasn't created to be a host to any parasite. I won't let any lady take advantage of me in the name of love.

My sincere advice I will like you to adhere to is one with a bittersweet truth, really a hard pill to swallow but to your own interests I'll like you to adhere to it
you know no show ní
Continue to they give am 30k
Later you use am do ritual
Then upgrade to another babe give am 100k
Later you use am do ritual
Then upgrade to another babe give am 150k
Later you use am do ritual
Just continue to dey upgrade dey go
All na sense

lol

30k every month to a girl who is not family my goodness how much for transgender surgery abeg make i turn millionaire for 2021

dermmy:


That's the answer. Never date a broke lady
A naija girl will never date me as a broke guy so why should i spend my hard earned money on a lady? Mutual spending is allowed and i subscribed to that but i haven't met any naija girl who does that.

I believe in the mutual spending stuff too. I can imagine how depressing it feels to shoulder another adult's responsibilities.

I know many ladies with their own money, and they spend on their men too. Whenever I come to nairaland and see the whole "leeches" stories. It makes me wonder where these guys meet their women.

Hopefully, you'll find an independent lady soon.

The funny thing be say this gillrl go still dey cheat on you with her broke hostel neighbour