She is the one spending on me

Omo,

Wahala for who get girlfriend.

Op...30k u beta use ur sense... what has she brought to the relationship...

AdeQuate18:
I seriously do not understand why or how it has become the responsibility of guys to take care of the financial needs of whom they are dating. This is of course the norm in the typical Nigerian dating scene but I still don't understand the rationale behind it. As in you actually pay someone (who can work for her own money) because the BOTH of you are in a relationship TOGETHER? Am I missing something? This isn't to shade Nigerian girls but that entitlement mentality that many of y'all have is just disgraceful.

i tire for my generation abeg...

Well

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What ever money your spend on your babe, you are spending it on yourself

Lots of Nigerian guys are lowlifes sha, how can anyone be asking this question

As in? I don’t understand jare. Did you mean “ Girl and friend “ ?
Spend money on Girlfriends , lol
What a question

Uniquekriss:
Let's call a spade a spade, many of us spend double of that amount without recognizing it, hmmmm, we're talking about a whole month o, she visits you, while seeing her off u buy suya, or barbecue fish or shawarma, u spend almost #400 airtime talking to her on the phone daily, u sub for her and sometimes recharge her line, sometimes u send her money for hairdo and nails, u go to visit her with gifts or takeaway, on Sundays u both sit out or see movies, all these don pass 30k monthly bros.

So true

you even pay reach data subscription and light bill, is she not working?


well you know your pocket and we can't advice you on what you do with your money on your girlfriend but pls knw that there is always tomorrow, dat girlfriend you are spending more than 30k monthly may not be there.....not to talk of when you stop spending such on her.

pretend to be broke for two months n watch her reactions....watch if the 30k you have been spending is worth it!

You are one of the people causing problems for men in this life.

You are giving this woman salary for ridiculous shit while she's off probably banging sombody else and demanding more.

Stop being a mugu, what is she bringing that's worth the 30k?

And when you marry her put for house you stop paying her salary.

You are not paying her any salary but for services rendered to you.

Sex with her is not free.

Nonsense!

OP, whoever advise you not to spend money on your babe only wants you to loose her, dey maintain your babe with money, no just do pass yourself.

LightAunt:
Although the question is meant for guys. But giving your girlfriend 30% of your monthly income is reasonable.

30%... WTF, how much your papa dey give you?.

She don land job on top your head.

Your pay her 30k minimum wage.
She wants increment

jaelz:
So I decided to ask this question here because I have a lady that is overly demanding, I mean I tried pegging my monthly spending for her at 30,000 Naira per month including her hair, light, data and cable TV subscription plus one or two outings and hangouts.

But I noticed she never seems satisfied with my little efforts as she demands unimaginable things from me like buying her iPhone 12 and etc.

Guys pls how do you control spending on your women and how much do you spend on them monthly.

Maybe she sees you as an ibu owo baba Monica [One that is stupendously rich] and she wants you to add afunimawobe [one who gives without batting an eyelid] to your titles.

Chai!!! Someone pikin don turn supermaga

. Some questions and thread for this Nairaland just be like say there's an award in "SIMPING

Just imagine am....you no fit ask me how much I dey spend on my oldman on a monthly basis, instead na girl wey no contribute dime to my growth you dey ask of

I AM VERY SURE U DON'T PLAN MARRYING HER COS IF U DID U WONT BE ASKING SUCH QUESTIONS

BABE WEY I NO WAN MARRY, I GO DEY SPEND ON HER LIKE MUGU.......GOD FORBID!!!!!!!!

GUY U BETA WISE UP AND DONT END UP BEING A BLOODY SIMP OOO

JEEEZZZZZZ!!!!

Guy you better run
I can't imagine dating an ingrate

LightAunt:
Although the question is meant for guys. But giving your girlfriend 30% of your monthly income is reasonable.

He said 30k and not 30% of his salary.. Be reasonable for once naw this gal

LightAunt:
Although the question is meant for guys. But giving your girlfriend 30% of your monthly income is reasonable.

God even demands 10% is she bigger than God?

Is she data or food?....

Which of them?

Lol
Light , data, hair , cable subscription ,
Wahala for who still day follow barnie way no get work.

jaelz:
So I decided to ask this question here because I have a lady that is overly demanding, I mean I tried pegging my monthly spending for her at 30,000 Naira per month including her hair, light, data and cable TV subscription plus one or two outings and hangouts.

But I noticed she never seems satisfied with my little efforts as she demands unimaginable things from me like buying her iPhone 12 and etc.

Guys pls how do you control spending on your women and how much do you spend on them monthly.

Una dey try

30k monthly to someone you are not married to?!! That's even more than what most honest hardworking people earn monthly in this 3rd world nation... For doing what exactly for you??!

Well, it's your dough... Do with it whatever you wish. Just don't come bitching when it all goes belly up.

...And let it not be that you spend the same amount or even a penny less on those who raised you (whether or not they are well off)! If you do, you are a bigger dolt than advertised.

30k for ur girlfriend not even wife whereas your Mom just drank garri as dinner. Your last born dey do job for villa just to meet up with Waec registration. You are a disgrace to man'ship'...

Splitmind:
You are one of the people causing problems for men in this life.

You are giving this woman salary for ridiculous shit while she's off probably banging sombody else and demanding more.

Stop being a mugu, what is she bringing that's worth the 30k?

Is really nauseating to say the least