SkyRicks:
I will be brief

When ever am alone even after returning from a stressful day once am a lone at home I feel Hot this has been on since school days
I masturbate once in a while and I truly want to stop thinking about sex but really can't help it right now.

Note something happened to me when I was 8yrs old our neighbor then who my mom drops me at her place her daughter usually sleep with me anytime my mom drops me at there place, I cried telling Mom I don't like that place but she said she doesn't have alternative and can't take me with her i will add stress mind you my dad is working then in another state and visit during the weekend twice a month.

This continued till I was 15yrs yes I began to go there and she likes me alot, sends me message and never ask for change Sneak me inside her room I began to like the act until we left the state to stay with my dad after some years I began to masturbate before uni and all through my days in sch I have lived with this chronic desire for sexual fantasy within me.

My question:
The desire for sex asin constant thinking of having sex is it normal (may me if not face with tasks make me to lose focus) or I need deliverance.
Is there medication for this desire a kind of cure (am a biologist not a physician)
Am confused right now and it making me desire to visit escort female but lacks the courage to seek there service because of the way people see me.

Thank you, your advise is needed

. Many will laugh over this or see it as clout chasing but have been in this shoe before but it wasn't this chronic, though I was bold enough to approach babes to release the urge but what I will advice you is to get a girlfriend that have the same urge like you and with time you both will calm down.

it a shame some take this as joke or clout chasing.
my bro a simple therapy i used that work for me. i get my self busy alot, i found myself somethng that wil keep my mind occupied, i went to learn barbing, so most of time i am either barbing or around alot of people talking bout different thngs. and if possible get yourself a girlfriend, after u guys are into each other, talk to her bout ur problem let her understand ur situation, if na girl wey dy aiit o, u might nt av sex all the time bt i blve she could help u out.
Be prayerfull as well. and i blve the God that do all things wil surely make all your troubles go away

yYot:

Now tell me your qualifications about this issue of sex, obsession, and human behaviour! Please don't quote Bible or your church leader!

yYot:

Now tell me your qualifications about this issue of sex, obsession, and human behaviour! Please don't quote Bible or your church leader!

The bible is my standard and aside the bible, I would have nothing to tell you

O boy give your life to Jesus and watch your challenges come crumbling before your very eyes.

AKAyomide:
Hey bro.. You're not alone in kind of condition you're facing right now. I started masturbating at the age of sixteen. I am in my middle twenties; and I have this urge sexual feeling which makes me to derive solo pleasure by myself. I have read a lot of articles about quitting masturbation but after three or four weeks I stopped masturbation the feeling sudden arise once again.
I feel the only solution to your predicament is too find a girl who really understand you and your sexual problem. It'll be so hard to stop it because your sexual libido is extremely high by nature and the only medication ways to go about is to get yourself an antidepressant drugs but it has huge negative effect than positive effect.

SkyRicks:


If It will help me maintain the right frame of mind and stop desiring why not. Though I will still visit pharmacy later tonight to know if there is any drugs reducing desires for sex

guy if you cannot tame your sexual urge it's definitely mean you can't Mark that word you can't pursue any of your dreams . I would have given you my WhatsApp number but just email me if you're serious in taming your sexual urge

Yada01:


Sex within the confined of marriage. Sex outside marriage has repercussions believe it or not but it's the truth

I think you are damaged mentally! You obviously based your life actions on fairy tales and and what you have been told to do!
Any Adult can have sex whenever they choose to! There is nothing like "confine of marriage ".

TheKingIsHere:


The same you that indirectly just called me an idiot in your last post?

My friend get lost.

Next time read, take time to understand before you type stupid things

It wise to have information on certain things before coming online and embarrassing yourself. I rest my case cos it's clear you know nothing about spiritual things

Yada01:


The bible is my standard and aside the bible, I would have nothing to tell you

Then you have a limited world view! There is so much you don't know John snow!

It's amazing how you think you can put your body in check. without God who created it. Therapy is temporal but the help of the holy spirit is permanent. Be guided!!!

yYot:

I think you are damaged mentally! You obviously based your life actions on fairy tales and and what you have been told to do!
Any Adult can have sex whenever they choose to! There is nothing like "confine of marriage ".

Sorry, I am sound and healthy. But it's clear that you are lost and need salvation. Every evil man look for excuses to justify his evil.

Have u heard the catchphrase "catch them young"?

Hantie has groomed and mentored u from a young age into a fine warrior in the art of " "

It simple nah visit a gynaecologist. They will give u anti-testerone or any other drug that will reduce ur sex hormone. Only 5k go solve ur problem

Please the best advice is to give your life to Christ, always study your Bible, and when ever the urges comes, just worship God, or sing praises. Thanks.



quote author=SkyRicks post=96520709]I will be brief

When ever am alone even after returning from a stressful day once am a lone at home I feel Hot this has been on since school days
I masturbate once in a while and I truly want to stop thinking about sex but really can't help it right now.

Note something happened to me when I was 8yrs old our neighbor then who my mom drops me at her place her daughter usually sleep with me anytime my mom drops me at there place, I cried telling Mom I don't like that place but she said she doesn't have alternative and can't take me with her i will add stress mind you my dad is working then in another state and visit during the weekend twice a month.

This continued till I was 15yrs yes I began to go there and she likes me alot, sends me message and never ask for change Sneak me inside her room I began to like the act until we left the state to stay with my dad after some years I began to masturbate before uni and all through my days in sch I have lived with this chronic desire for sexual fantasy within me.

My question:
The desire for sex asin constant thinking of having sex is it normal (may me if not face with tasks make me to lose focus) or I need deliverance.
Is there medication for this desire a kind of cure (am a biologist not a physician)
Am confused right now and it making me desire to visit escort female but lacks the courage to seek there service because of the way people see me.

Thank you, your advise is needed[/quote]

SkyRicks:
I will be brief

When ever am alone even after returning from a stressful day once am a lone at home I feel Hot this has been on since school days
I masturbate once in a while and I truly want to stop thinking about sex but really can't help it right now.

Note something happened to me when I was 8yrs old our neighbor then who my mom drops me at her place her daughter usually sleep with me anytime my mom drops me at there place, I cried telling Mom I don't like that place but she said she doesn't have alternative and can't take me with her i will add stress mind you my dad is working then in another state and visit during the weekend twice a month.

This continued till I was 15yrs yes I began to go there and she likes me alot, sends me message and never ask for change Sneak me inside her room I began to like the act until we left the state to stay with my dad after some years I began to masturbate before uni and all through my days in sch I have lived with this chronic desire for sexual fantasy within me.

My question:
The desire for sex asin constant thinking of having sex is it normal (may me if not face with tasks make me to lose focus) or I need deliverance.
Is there medication for this desire a kind of cure (am a biologist not a physician)
Am confused right now and it making me desire to visit escort female but lacks the courage to seek there service because of the way people see me.

Thank you, your advise is needed

Bro! Let me tell u about me, no one knows about mine, even my mom but i want to share with u so that u feel motivated.
I was 7 getting to 8 years when mine happened and this was done to me by one of my in-laws who was older than. let me explained to u how it started first of all.
A very good day, no one was at their house, it was just her. she called me to send me for an errand and when I was back, I entered her room and after keeping what she sent me on the bed, I was about to live and I saw her inside, she was with a wrapper. She then hold be and push me to the bed gently, I was scared this was new to me. The next thing I saw was a complete naked woman. She grabbed my hands to touch her breast, she then climbed on top me and started kissing me passionately and then she bleeped me. This happened not once, not twice but a lot of times...
I feel in love with what she was doing to me, and sometimes I intentionally go to her house when there was no one....
And then it came to a time when she got admission and I was left alone. Then I get to realized my mind has been polluted, as I get older I started watching porn 247, Any movie I watch anywhere/any day I see just a seductive dress style of a lady, my mind don arrange her for bed already...

Man, when I was a teenager I was no longer comfortable because I had a dream I was so passionate about (being a computer programmer and building something big, which I have already done but currently looking for funds to launch ) and I noticed what happened to me was killing me from the inside. I also had no courage to stand or even talk with ladies, once I get touched by ladies My prick go just charge and I had to find somewhere to sit down first and calm my self...

So I wanted to fight this evil in me alone and this was how I did it, by the age of 17 started to discover that this Jesus I serve is more powerful than I think so I joined baptism class in my church thinking the moment they deep me inside the water my mind will be purified and all that but guess what!

After baptism, that very night I masturbate bad bad and I watch porn, the war with my mind was stronger man...
am beginning to even reach 2 rounds when masturbating at 18 (years old) sef and it was bad for me I know.

But the next wave, this is what I did, I learned that keeping oneself busy will help so when I spend time learning my programming online/at nights I discovered I hardly get any taught but the moment I leave that computer, my mind and prick go get to work so things were hard bro, and I also took another wave which is currently at work now and this is what I do.

I said to myself, keeping myself to be busy won't actually fight this evil but I had to add Jesus to the battle and this is what I did, I started having quiet time as early as 5am in the morning and as usually keep on learning my coding and so on...
And guess what! I won the battle of watching porn and I was happy, and I said to myself, I have to change what I watch, see and listen to, to help renew my mind and I quit musics for sometime and I don't watch all type of movies again. I started listening to worship songs and yes it did help.
Gradually I was able to roll with the opposite gender, I then got admission into the university and I was also having my quiet time. I had female friends now in school, we talked, laugh and things go fine.

NOTE: sometimes I do fall again, I find my self masturbating but I keep on fighting because I don't wan to be consumed by this evil.

After 1st semester break, I came back home and I was still having my quiet time and coding still. I discovered I was spending 1 to 2 months without masturbating, and the months was increasing I could feel freedom from afar somehow. And I started trying new things, I walk to a shop where one of my crush was working and I just started a conversation with her and collected her number, I was fucking shy but I discovered she was shy too and that gave me some little courage but my mouth was vibrating still but I was successful, I started been nice and build acquaintance with random ladies when I find myself in new places and yes I collected their number and called some of them and also walk to them when I see them somewhere and even take pictures (my prick was always asleep now except in the morning sometimes, e dey wake up before me and sometimes it doesn't )
But all glory be to God. Am currently 20 years old and I can't remember when last I masturbated talk less on watching porn sef.
I still do my quiet time, and now I listed to our Wizzy, davido, and other stars music and I don't find myself thinking otherwise, I also watch some movies and when I get to sex scenes I find out there was no effects on me anymore.
I can now talk to any girl I want, but am trying to make it known to myself not to fall for fornication ever again till I get married and I am still moving with this praying God helps me.

I still have my quiet time bro and things are now fine

And this is what I understand in this journey of life bro, and it is this "To walk with Christ is not a decision one makes a day, but a decision one is to make everyday of his life" because the devil doesn't sleeps, he moves like a lion everyday looking for someone to devour so I/You have to keep on going and fighting....

This is my story to u, hope this teaches u something...

am not special nor better than you, I go to church only Sundays but I keep myself going with God's word by having my quiet time and praying to him always for help and so on...

If I can do it what makes u think u can't..


I wanted to send this to u privately but I just decided to write it here so that everybody gets to know...

Don't give up, the fight doesn't end till ur dead bro...

God help us all

cut your prick
there’s no other way

odisman:
O boy give your life to Jesus and watch your challenges come crumbling before your very eyes.

Okay ooo
I have heard you

U dey enjoy sex too...continue its not easy to stop ...if we stop u one day u go Bleep goat

Op, U Can Overcome Dis Thought If U Want. What She Did To U When U Were A Child Has Av Negative Effect To Ur Spirit, Soul & Body. I Would Advise Dat U Give Urself To Fasting & Prayer To God Abt Dis. I Want To Ask. Do U Use To Sex In Ur Dreams? Cuz, It Could Av To Do With Spirit Wife Too. Do U Use To Sex In Ur Dreams?

Judolisco:
Also he should stop spending a lot of time in d bathroom

This is key^^^...

you've said it all

SkyRicks:
I will be brief

When ever am alone even after returning from a stressful day once am a lone at home I feel Hot this has been on since school days
I masturbate once in a while and I truly want to stop thinking about sex but really can't help it right now.

Note something happened to me when I was 8yrs old our neighbor then who my mom drops me at her place her daughter usually sleep with me anytime my mom drops me at there place, I cried telling Mom I don't like that place but she said she doesn't have alternative and can't take me with her i will add stress mind you my dad is working then in another state and visit during the weekend twice a month.

This continued till I was 15yrs yes I began to go there and she likes me alot, sends me message and never ask for change Sneak me inside her room I began to like the act until we left the state to stay with my dad after some years I began to masturbate before uni and all through my days in sch I have lived with this chronic desire for sexual fantasy within me.

My question:
The desire for sex asin constant thinking of having sex is it normal (may me if not face with tasks make me to lose focus) or I need deliverance.
Is there medication for this desire a kind of cure (am a biologist not a physician)
Am confused right now and it making me desire to visit escort female but lacks the courage to seek there service because of the way people see me.

Thank you, your advise is needed

First off, that abuse didnt lead to ur masturbation. You prolly learnt that act in boarding school.
Secondly if u r very very idle n jobless then you would be thinking of sex...
Dont blame that lady even tho she did wrong.. Wi experienced that too but i didnt turn out to be like u..
So u r ur own problem.
Infact... I did enjoy the act n never told anyone.. Except some years bck i told my ex...

The truth is you're using sex to block your emotions. You were powerless then but you don't have to be right now. My advise is to ween off masturbation gradually, it may not stop completely now but it may once you start dragging a hobby with the act.

i.e if you're into gaming, painting, blogging, investing etc, think of that anytime those urges come, think of the cool money or match you could have had and the exp points you lost. In time your brain will switch to seeing sex less than your hobbies.

This idea is based off of ADDICTION, addictions happen when something that gives you pleasure now occupy a greater demand in your mind/body than anything else, you've become TOLERANT of sex and need to be weened off it slowly.. don't judge yourself, keep doing it but be mindful of the number of times then gradually start replacing your last session with a very good hobby till you need more of that hobby than your ADDICTION.

My dear or whoever that wrote this story, should endeavor to seek spiritual help from a pastor precisely because that act from when u were a child has opened up doors to some spiritual entities into your life, resulting in masturbating etc... Note: Don't try to act emotional strong with this kind I'm speaking from a christian point of view...seek help now before it too late,this spirits have stimulated those acts u are noticing,be swift so this will not lead to unfaithfulness in your relationships or marriage... I have more to say but I believe this is a enough for u to get the message..

I see you got very wrong advise already!

Don't use drugs! Common! It doesn't take anything away. I do not even know about drugs that reduces your urge for sex. The person who advised you said to get depressant drugs.

These drugs are never permanent solutions. Just temporal. In the end, you would not just get addicted to thinking about sex but also you will get addicted to the drug and you will need it Al the time.

You want your life to be controlled by drugs?

1. Get busy if you are not too busy. There are different Writing platforms where you can write and even earn. Now, you have got motivation; earning and developing your writing skills. What else? Learn a soft skill that may be useful for you now or later. The gist is to limit the time you spend in door.

At night, eat, watch a movie: science, action film etc.

2. In the end, everything boils down to your mind. You can send thoughts that you don't want away

3. You are very normal for thinking about sex. Everyone who made a comment on this thread thought about it today, some maybe few seconds and they brushed it off, some have more time to it. So, there is nothing wrong with that, when it's too frequent, then it shows you are letting your body over power your mind.

4. Yes, you had that issues in the past and it's still affecting you. So, you need to go for counseling.

Rather than drugs or looking for away to kill those thoughts overnight, simply invest that time and energy into visiting a counselor.

It's bad that you really now want to pay to get it.

This will not go overnight. It takes little steps and you will conquer.

Watch your thoughts, watch what you read, Consciously do that

Lastly, even the Bible never asked anyone to fight sexual temptation. It says: FLEE. So avoid everything that would awaken such desires in you.

The gist is those desires would come, the goal is not to give in. Rise above it, you can.

Goodluck.

SkyRicks:
I will be brief

When ever am alone even after returning from a stressful day once am a lone at home I feel Hot this has been on since school days
I masturbate once in a while and I truly want to stop thinking about sex but really can't help it right now.

Note something happened to me when I was 8yrs old our neighbor then who my mom drops me at her place her daughter usually sleep with me anytime my mom drops me at there place, I cried telling Mom I don't like that place but she said she doesn't have alternative and can't take me with her i will add stress mind you my dad is working then in another state and visit during the weekend twice a month.

This continued till I was 15yrs yes I began to go there and she likes me alot, sends me message and never ask for change Sneak me inside her room I began to like the act until we left the state to stay with my dad after some years I began to masturbate before uni and all through my days in sch I have lived with this chronic desire for sexual fantasy within me.

My question:
The desire for sex asin constant thinking of having sex is it normal (may me if not face with tasks make me to lose focus) or I need deliverance.
Is there medication for this desire a kind of cure (am a biologist not a physician)
Am confused right now and it making me desire to visit escort female but lacks the courage to seek there service because of the way people see me.

Thank you, your advise is needed

hmm, wahala be like bicycle shaaa

Hello bro,
Feel your stress. I have a nephew who confided in me once about his uncontrollable sexual urge.
I did not take it seriously because I thought it runs in the family, the men are very sexually active, but when he told me all he has been through, I knew there was problem.
So I started searching for solution, then I remembered a health book my father gave to me, he also got it from his dad, I searched through and found something, we tried it and it worked.

The book has become very rare now, I stumbled upon it again on amazon, and I have been an advocate ever since, it is truly a must have for every home.
So many natural health remedies.
Am attaching the page that talks about the solution, but the herbs involved, you have to visit your alagbo.
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So I can make commission, after all I no charge you, but if you end up buying the whole book, the seller cannot make profit at my own expense, man must wack.

Wish you luck.

SkyRicks:


What will I tell the pharmacist is my sickness or illness?

Don't take any drugs, you wouldn't like the side effect. There are other ways to go around it. Firstly, tell God to help you, He will gradually.

SkyRicks:


She is way older than I am and am sure she must have married by now and have kids by now.
Like I said she is older that me that is why she sends me errands and allow me keep the change

Thanks alot yours was useful, I will re-establish contact and talk things through but I may awake hidden emotions

Like you said, don't waken hidden emotions. I'm very sure she was also abused, that you can ask her if you ever get to talk.

constantly reading and meditating on the word of God will stop it permanently. be not conformed to this world but be ye
transformed by the renewing of your mind through reading that word of God according to bilble and casting down every imagination that exalted itself against the knowledge of God. Brother you did not just allow this sex to exalt itself against the knowledge of God in your life only but it has gone so Down to consume you. use the word if God ro kill it yes it works.

Whatever cursed mankind to think that consensual sex is sinful. God has designed us to have sex for procreation, you did not make the dick and you did not make the pussy neither did you make the sperm or the eggs, when you mature these things naturally develop for their purpose.
OP if you meet a lady and you both consent to have sex, please do it well. Your urge for sex is as natural as your urge for water when thirsty.
I sympathize with you on your abuse, sex with a minor is unnatural, like eating an unripe fruit but you have come of that age when you must have the natural urge to procreate, nothing is wrong with you.

Truvel:
What Advice Do U Want Again 4 Godsake? Get A Lady Or A Wife. I'm Even Astonished Dat U Posted Dis Here. Haba!!

So if you someone comes to take your daughter's hand in marriage just to satisfy your sexual urge, you'll be happy?

What if when he's away from wife, the urge returns?

SkyRicks:



Hmmm
Even after marriage ?

Married men are sleeping around. Many of these men raping girls every week are either married or have girlfriends. The spirit of perversionis everywhere now that both men and women have an insatiable appetite for sex and more sex.