yes but dont expect anything in return nd be ready for break up when she progressed and achieve financial freedom because hypergamy must play his part

Korllami007:


One guy they spray perfume for the Congo, another guy de shine the Congo like tomorrow no de.

The girl wicked sha.

Human being are wicked, Bible said so

You are on your own, if you take the risk, don't come here and start asking for advise o.

Are you stupid or just foolish? Invest what?!?

Guy and buy wrappers for ur mum with that money

my guy run oh, as fella talk

Ha ha ha
So bear bear bank never liquidate?

Me i will prefer investing on my little Ekuke Dog than investing on her.. E get why

Don't. You will regret it. Wife her first before you do such.

Firstandonly:
My girlfriend is very good in sawing and she has always wanted to have a shop of her own where she can expand. She is still in school and supports her studies from the little sawing she does at home, the truth is she's very hard-working.

Should i take a risk and open a shop for her. I work and i earn 40k a month i can easily save up to 60k from now till January but am scared, I don't want to take a risk i will later regret in life.

Pls has any body faced this kind of situation before or heard of it and how was the outcome?

Blackpearlxx:
how about ladies that invest in men?

Same

Unless they are married, then it's family

Firstandonly:
My girlfriend is very good in sawing and she has always wanted to have a shop of her own where she can expand. She is still in school and supports her studies from the little sawing she does at home, the truth is she's very hard-working.

Should i take a risk and open a shop for her. I work and i earn 40k a month i can easily save up to 60k from now till January but am scared, I don't want to take a risk i will later regret in life.

Pls has any body faced this kind of situation before or heard of it and how was the outcome?

Invest in yourself first . I have done such before I regret it. I suppose to further for my MBA, I pend it for her to further her bsc. Today she don leave me go.

junk head invest in ur sister

Lol, I read the post twice to look for the investment cost, is it because of 60k you wrote this epistle? My only pity is to the good girl dating your stingy self, disgusting

To Nairalanders, so you are this broke? Money that some people spend on a sitting, don't invest in her bla bla bla rubbish that you all are typing. Not 7million, 700,000, ordinary 60k? Na wa o

Skyfornia:
First give am belle..

Even pregnancy can't hold any lady that has got her eyes fixed on the fast lanes and fast lives.

@firstandonly, even if you think she's not worth it, doing it might mean well for her in the future (even if you're in it, or not).

All the best brave Bro!

With the way you described your family and you still earn 40k per month this your story na fabu e no add up walai my suggestion why not borrow her the money at first and set a time limit for her to return it if she does and you see her seriousness with her hustle dash her or tell you are reinvesting it again and let her grow from there my 2cents

Which ever way she will rise to her destiny, 60k is not so big from what u earn, invest in her with mindset that u r helping a human but have an agreement that she will pay u back, have it signed by her, if u think u cant forefeit it...

Almost everyone deviated from the topic. He’s not asking if he should invest in himself or not.

Dear OP, if you can do what you stated without having to deny yourself a good life for a period of time then go ahead and invest in her.

I don’t blame people against you investing cos truth be told, there’s a lot of crazy and ungrateful ladies out there just looking for to prey on but then, life is of two sides, the good and the bad. Both will happen to every man.

I always had this thought myself for my girl about investing in her and here are the things that helped me arrive at a conclusion.

1. Regardless of she being my girlfriend, I would be helping a human being cos I want her to do good for herself.

2. She’s worth every bit of the investment

3. If all goes as planned, she’s going to be my wife and that’s going to be a win win (thinking positively)

4. I haven’t made it my utmost priority, in fact she’s not aware I have any plan of investing in her yet. Although, I have a target month to execute this plan of mine so it’s not a burden and also, I won’t even be saving 5% of my monthly income to get this plan of mine executed.

Please strategize and for now, always put yourself first.

Cheers

help her! if you feel the 'little' you have is far enough for you, why not! just have it in mind that she might likely not be yours one day. highest, she enter BBNaija, she go holla your name for TV

ModestGal:
Lol, I read the post twice to look for the investment cost, is it because of 60k you wrote this epistle? My only pity is to the good girl dating your stingy self, disgusting

To Nairalanders, so you are this broke? Money that some people spend on a sitting, don't invest in her bla bla bla rubbish that you all are typing. Not 7million, 700,000, ordinary 60k? Na wa o

You’re one of the reasons we men get mad at ladies. He’s being honest with himself here. If 60k isn’t much of a big deal to you then pass. You don’t have to call him stingy!!

Peace

ori e to o pe yen.. ( That ur head wey no correct).. you better get serious with ur life n invest in urself.. Upgrade her n watch her leave u for a better man..
invest in itself n let her invest in herself..
Stay Woke o.. make OT sharp

YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW POOR YOU ARE UNTIL ITS TOO LATE. YOU ARE LIVING WAY BELOW POVERTY LEVEL AND DONT EVEN KNOW THAT. INVEST IN YOURSELF FIRST AND KEEP YOUR DISTANCE FROM WOMEN AT THIS POINT OF YOUR LIFE

Invest in her if you love her and if you think she deserves it because if you don't do it another person will do it.

Firstandonly:
My girlfriend is very good in sawing and she has always wanted to have a shop of her own where she can expand. She is still in school and supports her studies from the little sawing she does at home, the truth is she's very hard-working.

Should i take a risk and open a shop for her. I work and i earn 40k a month i can easily save up to 60k from now till January but am scared, I don't want to take a risk i will later regret in life.

Pls has any body faced this kind of situation before or heard of it and how was the outcome?

PREMIUM TEARS

Nuyokoi:
yes, help her out.

Bastard

Sawing? Is she a carpenter? Bro invest in a little education for yourself, you need one.
60k is not much money anyways, just give it to her.

vincenteger:
If you think you are capable just go ahead but plz don't expect anything in return but if you must expect, expect just expect disappointment.

On another note
Just buy a dog with that money

In one word you are wicked. So you mean buying a dog is far more better than a human being?

Skyfornia:
First give am belle..

sense no go ever kill you walai

@firstandonly, even if you think she's not worth it, doing it might mean well for her in the future (even if you're in it, or not).

All the best brave Bro![/quote]

You are very matured. May u get a good woman.

benjijosh:



You’re one of the reasons we men get mad at ladies. He’s being honest with himself here. If 60k isn’t much of a big deal to you then pass. You don’t have to call him stingy!!

Peace

I call him stingy because its something I would do for an ordinary friend if its available and I see the friend in need. He said he doesn't use money

Receive sense in Jesus name! Amen.

coolcharm:
Everything in life is a risk.

If you don't take it, you'll never know.

Personally, I don't generalise things. If you can, do it. But don't bank on your deeds.

If it comes back to meet you for good, fine. If it doesn't, so be it!

Thumbs up for you..