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Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by humilitypays(m): 12:39pm On Dec 01, 2020
TheRealProphet:
Happy new month Nlers.

I told my wife that I don't wish to have another baby, because 3 is okay by me, but she insisted that she wants another baby, she has been on my neck for the past few days because of this issue.

We have 3 (three) beautiful babies already - 2 boys and a girl, which is ok for me. I ain't financially strong, and I don't want to bring any child into this world to suffer.

married and matured folks please help me out. Thanks
3 kids -2 boys and 1 chick, the dream of most Nigerian couple and your wife still want more and even insisting.....forget that your claim that she is not the bitching type....if your wife insist on this in few more days to come, then she is pregnant for someone else. Everybody in this life is a suspect until they prove to be innocent.



Don't go trusting foolishly in this time and age........if you have done plenty bad things with different women of all class and status as a man, you will learn not to trust even yourself shocked shocked



But if she proves not to be pregnant, you can codedly go for vasectomy, withdrawal method does not always guarantee no pregnancy wink



Women love sex more than men, if you want to find out, ask a married man......the level of sexual urge and demand from married women can cause a man to hate sex for life! That's why more married ladies cheat more than single ladies.....once they start fvcking every night legally in marriage, their sexual libido becomes unleashed and they no longer hide it like when they were single. Married ladies are the easiest set of ladies to sleep with, sadly cry.....all the married ladies here know what I am saying lipsrsealed

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Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by wildikeman(m): 12:40pm On Dec 01, 2020
TheRealProphet:
she is doing her best in respect to helping our family. I might try vasectomy.

DON'T TRY IT OOOO!!!!


TELL HER YOU DON'T WANT SIMPLE!!
Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by hermesprogidy(m): 12:40pm On Dec 01, 2020
Go and sterilize yourself and stop disturbing the Universe. Next!

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Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by khatea: 12:41pm On Dec 01, 2020
yomi007k:
Is she the one footing their bills?

OP shld hold his cum grin
Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by Tango123: 12:41pm On Dec 01, 2020
TheRealProphet:
She ain't pregnant bruv. She's not the bitc*ing type...she wants another gal, she said she wants it to be 2 boys & 2 gals.

And if she gives birth to a boy again, she will take God to court abi?

I know a man whose wife deceived to have a 4th child. Thenstress from that made the man to hate the woman

Sit ur wife down and discuss heart to heart about the financial implications of another child, thats if she is the type to understand finances and fore planning

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Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by Farki: 12:41pm On Dec 01, 2020
She's still stuck on baby fever and isn't thinking clearly, better put your foot down since you have kids already. If you get a vasectomy at least you will know the children are not your own.

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Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by bigtt76(f): 12:42pm On Dec 01, 2020
f@ck am naaa or give anoda person to do di thing cheesy


TheRealProphet:
Happy new month Nlers.

I told my wife that I don't wish to have another baby, because 3 is okay by me, but she insisted that she wants another baby, she has been on my neck for the past few days because of this issue.

We have 3 (three) beautiful babies already - 2 boys and a girl, which is ok for me. I ain't financially strong, and I don't want to bring any child into this world to suffer.

married and matured folks please help me out. Thanks
Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by Dididrumz(m): 12:42pm On Dec 01, 2020
TheRealProphet:
This your question eh..are you married?

When You see stupid comments, just ignore them. The number of stupid people on Nairaland is getting higher.

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Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by khatea: 12:43pm On Dec 01, 2020
crackhaus:

Whatever you choose, sha do everything possible to NOT cum inside her because once she gets pregnant, she go born the pikin and there will be nothing you can do.

Exactly!!!

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Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by bigtt76(f): 12:43pm On Dec 01, 2020
Osheeeeeey Queen! Is she a feminist? She wan equality naaaaa cheesy


TheRealProphet:
She ain't pregnant bruv. She's not the bitc*ing type...she wants another gal, she said she wants it to be 2 boys & 2 gals.
Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by hermesprogidy(m): 12:43pm On Dec 01, 2020
humilitypays:
3 kids -2 boys and 1 chick, the dream of most Nigerian couple and your wife still want more and even insisting.....forget that your claim that she is not the bitching type....if your wife insist on this in few more days to come, then she is pregnant for someone else. Everyone in life is a suspect until they prove to be innocent.



Don't go trusting foolishly in this time and age........if you have done plenty bad things with different women of all class and status as a man, you will learn not to trust even yourself shocked shocked



But she proves not to be pregnant, you can codedly go for vasectomy, withdrawal method does not always guarantee no pregnancy wink

You are right, she may have played an away match and probably looking for a soft landing

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Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by BarrElChapo(m): 12:43pm On Dec 01, 2020
Lankybaby:
Meaning of vasectomy

Google it

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Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by iretinyeee(f): 12:44pm On Dec 01, 2020
internationalman:
I suspect she's already pregnant with another man's baby, she wants you to be responsible for it by having sex with you and making you cum inside so as to contemporarily coincide with the pregnancy.

If I'm wrong, which I doubt you can go ahead and perform vasectomy
� percent correct
Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by coolsegun2002: 12:44pm On Dec 01, 2020
gift2xl:
Wow! so people can still get erection at this season.

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Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by Tango123: 12:45pm On Dec 01, 2020
crackhaus:

Whatever you choose, sha do everything possible to NOT cum inside her because once she gets pregnant, she go born the pikin and there will be nothing you can do.

A woman i know held the man with her legs when he wanted to withdraw. The released inside. Result, baby number 4, against the mans wishes. Thats wickedness

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Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by BarrElChapo(m): 12:45pm On Dec 01, 2020
internationalman:


My future wife might be your sister or daughter

When you eventually make up your mind to marry na.. I read up where you said you are not sure if you would
Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by Bigcowhorn: 12:45pm On Dec 01, 2020
TheRealProphet:
No na...we are both running our home, but the problem is she wanting another baby

She's been on your neck this last few days? I would have said take her for pregnancy test but that can kill the love in your marriage so I will advice you get one of the sharp eyes grannies to look at her and know if she is pregnant.

If she isn't give her what she want so you will be happy.

.........................................................

I dey here dey find wife wey go give me 5+ kids willingly and you dey complain say woman dey beg you for the same thing.

Life no balance at all.
Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by KHbaby(f): 12:46pm On Dec 01, 2020
TheRealProphet:
she is doing her best in respect to helping our family. I might try vasectomy.

OP, seek medical advice before you go for vasectomy, make you no go regret your action in the future o.

My advice, why not sit her down, make her understand the reasons it's not advisable to have another kid now, you can assure her that if the economic situation of the family improve, then another baby can comes in. BTW, what makes your wife thinks if she gets pregnant the baby will be a girl, what if it's triplets (3 boys).

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Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by Aguilar(m): 12:46pm On Dec 01, 2020
alayé no mind your woman, she no go understand wetin married man dey go through with raising kids
Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by Proffessorr: 12:47pm On Dec 01, 2020
TheRealProphet:
She ain't pregnant bruv. She's not the bitc*ing type...she wants another gal, she said she wants it to be 2 boys & 2 gals.

That’s not totally a bad idea...

But have you pointed her to the economic implication of this her desired “50:50 boy-girl ratio”
Especially in the face of the current realities of our beloved country...
Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by Farki: 12:48pm On Dec 01, 2020
TheRealProphet:
Condom undecided sorry, I don't use that with my WIFE.

Withdrawal - I do that often.

Vasectomy - will try that if she don't calm down.

You don't want children yet you're using a barely reliable method to prevent pregnancy. grin

Please what food will you be serving at the naming ceremony?

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Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by Belafonte(m): 12:48pm On Dec 01, 2020
internationalman:
I suspect she's already pregnant with another man's baby, she wants you to be responsible for it by having sex with you and making you cum inside so as to contemporarily coincide with the pregnancy.

If I'm wrong, which I doubt you can go ahead and perform vasectomy

My thoughts exactly

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Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by hermesprogidy(m): 12:49pm On Dec 01, 2020
prekumohtim:


Men do not know when they are being used by devil . These your words can cause a serious havoc in someone's home. Obviously, you are single so you don't know what it means to maintain a home for years. Stay away from married people's post.You think you can just make a joke out of everything. There's no idle words. Think about the consequences of your words before you write. To whom brain is given, sense is expected
He's not wrong. It's a possibility.

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Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by mrksquare: 12:50pm On Dec 01, 2020
TheRealProphet:
Happy new month Nlers.

I told my wife that I don't wish to have another baby, because 3 is okay by me, but she insisted that she wants another baby, she has been on my neck for the past few days because of this issue.

We have 3 (three) beautiful babies already - 2 boys and a girl, which is ok for me. I ain't financially strong, and I don't want to bring any child into this world to suffer.


Is your wife lettered? You better learn from the ways of the elite that only have a manageable number of children. The present reality in Nigeria is a enough reason why you shouldnt hearken to your wife's plea. The population growth in Nigeria doesn't match our level of productive. The opportunities in Nigeria is minimal. So you will be doing a disservice to the unborn child should you and your wife go ahead and make the baby. Use your energy and money to give the existing three children the best of everything. Mind you is not quantity that counts but quality. Use your tongue go count your teeth.

married and matured folks please help me out. Thanks

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Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by Roon9(m): 12:51pm On Dec 01, 2020
TheRealProphet:
she is doing her best in respect to helping our family. I might try vasectomy.


Please I want to know the outcome. Considering one myself
Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by Farki: 12:51pm On Dec 01, 2020
Prettychild:

If she insists on having another baby, tell her the nature of your finances, if she still insists, then tell her that she would foot the bill of the incoming baby!

That's how she will say yes she will pay for it but when reality hits the man will always be put in a situation where he has to take care of the child.

If he doesn't he will be called irresponsible, she will not hear "Is it not you that wanted the baby?".
Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by mrksquare: 12:52pm On Dec 01, 2020
Is your wife lettered? You better learn from the ways of the elite that only have a manageable number of children. The present reality in Nigeria is a enough reason why you shouldnt hearken to your wife's suggestion. The population growth in Nigeria doesn't match our level of productive. The opportunities in Nigeria is minimal. So you will be doing a disservice to the unborn child should you and your wife go ahead and make the baby. Use your energy and money to give the existing three children the best of everything. Mind you is not quantity that counts but quality. Use your tongue go count your teeth

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Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by Godsown0: 12:53pm On Dec 01, 2020
gift2xl:
Wow! so people can still get erection at this season.
Aje! grin

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Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by Tloc(m): 12:53pm On Dec 01, 2020
TheRealProphet:
Condom undecided sorry, I don't use that with my WIFE.

Withdrawal - I do that often.

Vasectomy - will try that if she don't calm down.

If you go for Vasectomy and it is not reversible, so you are permanently sterile at middle age? Think bro.

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Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by Oluwaseun2020(m): 12:54pm On Dec 01, 2020
the devil wants to use her to temp you...and drag you and your family into poverty...i prescribe you 25 days 6-6. fasting. .God will touch her heart..because God has power to do that.
Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by Franktom247(m): 12:55pm On Dec 01, 2020
Threaten to divorce or return her to her fathers house and collect your bride price her something go cool down
Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by MightySparrow: 12:59pm On Dec 01, 2020
TheRealProphet:
Happy new month Nlers.

I told my wife that I don't wish to have another baby, because 3 is okay by me, but she insisted that she wants another baby, she has been on my neck for the past few days because of this issue.

We have 3 (three) beautiful babies already - 2 boys and a girl, which is ok for me. I ain't financially strong, and I don't want to bring any child into this world to suffer.

married and matured folks please help me out. Thanks
Give her na! Women are smart, if you don't, she will get it without your consent. You no go Bleep her again ni?

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