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How Problems Start In Marriage? by Oyinola22(f): 1:31pm On Dec 01, 2020
When you first met your wife, she was the most beautiful woman. You called her your Queen, your darling, your baby, your sweet heart. Soon, you got married, life was good. You loved each other so much. Then sudden he got pregnant, sudden her looks began to change, from a beauty queen to something else. Her face and legs swelled. She loses her shape and figures. After she put to bed, she started to breastfeed your child, her tummy protrudes. She looks like she is in her 60s or 70s.

Now, Instead of you to help her repair herself body, improve her beauty, get rid of that tummy and swelling, you simply abandon her. You dislike her looks. You some times hate to see her. Suddenly your darling become get out of my face, or I don’t want to see you. So problems starts. You start to creates problems that don’t exist. You make every thing a big dead. Then you start to see other women.

Brother look, a woman is like a Car. When you purchase a Car, after sometimes, you need to repair it, sometimes you service the engine, sometimes you change some parts with new parts. All in order to enjoy driving it and to live longer.

Likewise a woman. She cooked for you for years, dresses you for years, conceive for you for years, breastfeed your child until her beautiful breasts collapse. Now both you and your children have drained and exhausted her. So what should you do? You repair her. Take her to place where people are fixed after their delivery. Give her money to collect those post pregnancy therapies. Buy good cosmetics and body creams for her. Buy new jewelries, buy new cloths. Make her comfortable. Take her out time to time. That's how you fix her.

BUT Instead, as soon as she begin to get tired, most men would start to fornicate or want to marry again.

Brother, the problem is not your wife, the problem is you. Even if you marry 100 women, they will also deteriorate because that's the nature of life. Everything deteriorates with time. I’m sure if many men were to take good care of their wives, their wives will last longer, their body and shape will remain intact.

Brothers, Make sure she is the happiest woman. Make sure she gets what she wants. Try to make sure she is not depressed. Because depression and sadness can destroy women. She deserves to be pampered because you took her away from her parents. You took over that responsibility the very day you married her from them.

Please guys, be just in your house. And Take care of your wives. They need it. May Allah bless all our marriages. Ameen

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Re: How Problems Start In Marriage? by Olunmercy56(f): 1:34pm On Dec 01, 2020
Amen
Re: How Problems Start In Marriage? by godforus(m): 1:53pm On Dec 01, 2020
True
Re: How Problems Start In Marriage? by mosdii(m): 2:07pm On Dec 01, 2020
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Re: How Problems Start In Marriage? by Nobody: 2:15pm On Dec 01, 2020
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Re: How Problems Start In Marriage? by YourCoffin: 2:50pm On Dec 01, 2020
This your comparison of a woman to a car no follow at all. Cars that are constantly being repaired are death traps and new cars are always preferred to old ones. Are you saying these scenarios should be applied to women?

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Re: How Problems Start In Marriage? by Quirekoon: 7:55pm On Dec 01, 2020
Well marriage is just a construct.

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