Give the lady a breathing space and you will enjoy your life

travis365:
...I just feel I'm been to nice to her...she'd always take me for granted..whenever we've issue she'd say I shouldn't let her change to me and do what she doesn't wanna do...she'd say she can't tolerate me anymore...she'd read meaning to meaningless stuffs...and I'd end up begging her...she'd even block my number..lol..,I'll have to beg her to unblock me...I actually provide every of her needs...i haven't missed any before... If I don't have I'll definitely promise her and I'd do it...I even send her money even without her asking,she'd say I'm insulting her with money all because I sent her money and not replying to her messages immediately,.but she will never appreciate the next day....so on Thursday she called me on phone and she actually told me she's having infection...I then said on Saturday I'd definitely send her some money so she can treat it...so on Saturday I actually sent her some money..it's much though....so suddenly this morning she just messaged me giving me attitude...even without appreciating what i did yesterday.. so i just have to let her be..she then start sending me different kind of messages that she can't tolerate me ignoring her and treating her bad all because I'm providing her needs....how the hell I'm i treating you bad??she just start saying different kind of thing... uploading different kind of status"a girl can love you stupidly and stop talking to you"....she'd just start ignoring my messages won't read it and she'd be online,she doesn't even call like before...but I'm always scared when we have issue that another guy will have her..�have tried alot for her...even at the point of paying her rent..�please advice me nairalanders...I really need your advice about this....and please no insult... Sorry for the bad grammers.

Bros, the babe no like you. She dey use you and you dey mugu. Once you get to s certain age,walking away from unwarranted dreams shall be second nature to you. If you don't have anything to do with money, invest it in bonds or keep it in the bank.

Also, it is not wise to beg a woman to love you or be with you. At some point in your life, you shall experience heartbreak, why not experience it now so you can get your priorities right and be wiser when you are truly prepared for a relationship?

Give the lady a breathing space and you will enjoy your life

majemuoluwa28869:
Give the lady a breathing space and you will enjoy your life

there was a day we both went to an Alfa...and the Alfa asked me who my fiancée was...I then tell him she's the one....the Alfa then said I must not leave her...that if I leave her that things will go rough for me...since then she have being reacting anyhow so i can just apologize everytime.

travis365:
there was a day we both went to an Alfa...and the Alfa asked me who my fiancée was...I then tell him she's the one....the Alfa then said I must not leave her...that if I leave her that things will go rough for me...since then she have being reacting anyhow so i can just apologize everytime.

You sound like the dumbest thing alive on this planet
Bruv you've ruined my mood with this sh!t.

virginprincess:
I shouldn't quote you back after writing nonsense to me , yes he should apologize to her, because they might be something he is doing that the girl doesn't like, so he should ask then apologize.

Mumu

iPrevail:


You sound like the dumbest thing alive on this planet
Bruv you've ruined my mood with this sh!t.

so ever since then have just being scared it doesn't ruin my business if i leave her..

It's better you start putting your mind away from that girl because there is another man, I can assure you. Either that or she has a very bad character

travis365:
Good evening nairalanders...I really need your advice...there's this girl we've being dating for more than a year now...I just feel I'm been to nice to her...she'd always take me for granted..whenever we've issue she'd say I shouldn't let her change to me and do what she doesn't wanna do...she'd say she can't tolerate me anymore...she'd read meaning to meaningless stuffs...and I'd end up begging her...she'd even block my number..lol..,I'll have to beg her to unblock me...I actually provide every of her needs...i haven't missed any before... If I don't have I'll definitely promise her and I'd do it...I even send her money even without her asking,she'd say I'm insulting her with money all because I sent her money and not replying to her messages immediately,.but she will never appreciate the next day....so on Thursday she called me on phone and she actually told me she's having infection...I then said on Saturday I'd definitely send her some money so she can treat it...so on Saturday I actually sent her some money..it's much though....so suddenly this morning she just messaged me giving me attitude...even without appreciating what i did yesterday.. so i just have to let her be..she then start sending me different kind of messages that she can't tolerate me ignoring her and treating her bad all because I'm providing her needs....how the hell I'm i treating you bad??she just start saying different kind of thing... uploading different kind of status"a girl can love you stupidly and stop talking to you"....she'd just start ignoring my messages won't read it and she'd be online,she doesn't even call like before...but I'm always scared when we have issue that another guy will have her..�have tried alot for her...even at the point of paying her rent..�please advice me nairalanders...I really need your advice about this....and please no insult... Sorry for the bad grammers.

You're a fool .
Honestly if you end up with this lady , it'll be your greatest regret, are you not seeing the handwriting on the wall. Whatever you do she won't appreciate it, some people are like that.my only advice to you is to let her go., But if you wanna stick around, no yawa but.... "I for " na em dey pain Las

virginprincess:
Op i think you should invite her to a cool place where you guys can sort things out, if you truely love her like you claim then apologise to her, but if she refuses to listen then i think you should call it a quit.

Apologize for what exactly? I still don't understand why people of your gender feel guys have wronged them even when it is all written everywhere that they are the bad ones.

Women= Devil

Abobi, abeg make we dey try love with our brain naa, most guys find themselves in this kinda situation cos they want a trophy girlfriend, you will always be on your toes trying to please her in order to take her attention off other guys, bro its not worth it.
Fershe her joor, babes dey yarn for your attention, get an average looking girl that's into you and enjoy your life.

Guy u be MUMU, hakwanu a VAGYNA person go dey do u like this na


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lqzg_Pwrlcs

Akhigbeblog:

Guys your girl loves you so much and she likes your attention...... Just take your time and understand her needs, don't let go of her. All wetin you dey talk na so my girl dey even worse but I later got to understand why she's like that.

Follow this guy's advice at your own peril, a lady's using you as a door mat and you keep pleasing her, she told you she's got infection that alone should tell you she's bleeping another guy. I don't know why guys see some girls as the trophy whereas you as the guy should be the trophy. Ask yourself what have you gained from the relationship? Keep wasting money on a bitch while there are so many cool girls around.

travis365 you are fueling this relationship with money alone can you stop it already and try the real dating atleast for a month. You guys can work out you differences and perhaps apply pull and push, give her attention and also reduce it too. But you need a side girlfriend that will calm you down that's what any sensible guy does when pussy sweetness want to make you a simp.

[quote author=mardis post=96805006]How can a man just be mumu like this ehn... A girl is using you to play ludo you are seeking for advice. Which advice do you want us to give you now. Oya go and beg her, continue begging her till she agree since you've subjected yourself to beggar.
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My brother, I don't know whether their population is increasing or decreasing. Even without the red pill knowledge, can't his logic or common sense tell him that he is in a relationship with himself and not the girl?

The moment a lady senses you have no other option then she begins to misbehave.

Akhigbeblog:

Guys your girl loves you so much and she likes your attention...... Just take your time and understand her needs, don't let go of her. All wetin you dey talk na so my girl dey even worse but I later got to understand why she's like that.

I'm sorry to say but you are a very stupid Person.
The girl is clearly Using him as a Doormat for validation,and as an Atm where she can extract resources from

travis365:
Good evening nairalanders...I really need your advice...there's this girl we've being dating for more than a year now...I just feel I'm been to nice to her...she'd always take me for granted..whenever we've issue she'd say I shouldn't let her change to me and do what she doesn't wanna do...she'd say she can't tolerate me anymore...she'd read meaning to meaningless stuffs...and I'd end up begging her...she'd even block my number..lol..,I'll have to beg her to unblock me...I actually provide every of her needs...i haven't missed any before... If I don't have I'll definitely promise her and I'd do it...I even send her money even without her asking,she'd say I'm insulting her with money all because I sent her money and not replying to her messages immediately,.but she will never appreciate the next day....so on Thursday she called me on phone and she actually told me she's having infection...I then said on Saturday I'd definitely send her some money so she can treat it...so on Saturday I actually sent her some money..it's much though....so suddenly this morning she just messaged me giving me attitude...even without appreciating what i did yesterday.. so i just have to let her be..she then start sending me different kind of messages that she can't tolerate me ignoring her and treating her bad all because I'm providing her needs....how the hell I'm i treating you bad??she just start saying different kind of thing... uploading different kind of status"a girl can love you stupidly and stop talking to you"....she'd just start ignoring my messages won't read it and she'd be online,she doesn't even call like before...but I'm always scared when we have issue that another guy will have her..�have tried alot for her...even at the point of paying her rent..�please advice me nairalanders...I really need your advice about this....and please no insult... Sorry for the bad grammers.

You are a Simp
A big Simp

One day,you'll give her your kidney to please her.Even feeling entitiled to those things.i don't blame her,i blame you.the earlier you start getting used to her leaving you,the better for your heart and health.Eventually,someone more richer than you might come around,and when he does,if what you just explained to us is what your bsbe is,them go carry am go inside tinted benz pass you.
Even if she loves you,its mostly because of the goodies you get her

travis365:
so ever since then have just being scared it doesn't ruin my business if i leave her..

what kind of business do u do

I'm a woman and I must tell you the truth. I need you to read and understand clearly what I'm about to write.

Any lady or woman on earth who frequently demands for money or material things from you does not have any atom of love for you and the worst part is that she collects these things from you and still does not even pretend to love you at least for the things you are doing for her .

The right word to describe how she feels about you is "disgust" You disgust her and believe me , you are her side dude and not the main G.

She might even be giving her main guy all the money you've sending to her while still petting and begging him to be affectionate towards her .


Any woman that loves you will do anything to make you happy whether there is money or not and as a matter of fact , she will even be the one to cook food and bring for you , wash your clothes and possibly come through for you in financial needs .

Even when you are rich , a woman that loves you wouldn't want you to spend on her unnecessarily , she would suggest investments or reasonable things that would add value to your life that you could do with such money .


Stop buying love with money ! She is taking you for a fool . Man up and the right one will come along . Save up that money you are spending stupidly cuz she will still leave you for someone else . You have a future to build or at least remember your mother and siblings than wasting money .

travis365:
Good evening nairalanders...I really need your advice...there's this girl we've being dating for more than a year now...I just feel I'm been to nice to her...she'd always take me for granted..whenever we've issue she'd say I shouldn't let her change to me and do what she doesn't wanna do...she'd say she can't tolerate me anymore...she'd read meaning to meaningless stuffs...and I'd end up begging her...she'd even block my number..lol..,I'll have to beg her to unblock me...I actually provide every of her needs...i haven't missed any before... If I don't have I'll definitely promise her and I'd do it...I even send her money even without her asking,she'd say I'm insulting her with money all because I sent her money and not replying to her messages immediately,.but she will never appreciate the next day....so on Thursday she called me on phone and she actually told me she's having infection...I then said on Saturday I'd definitely send her some money so she can treat it...so on Saturday I actually sent her some money..it's much though....so suddenly this morning she just messaged me giving me attitude...even without appreciating what i did yesterday.. so i just have to let her be..she then start sending me different kind of messages that she can't tolerate me ignoring her and treating her bad all because I'm providing her needs....how the hell I'm i treating you bad??she just start saying different kind of thing... uploading different kind of status"a girl can love you stupidly and stop talking to you"....she'd just start ignoring my messages won't read it and she'd be online,she doesn't even call like before...but I'm always scared when we have issue that another guy will have her..�have tried alot for her...even at the point of paying her rent..�please advice me nairalanders...I really need your advice about this....and please no insult... Sorry for the bad grammers.

So this kinda shit still happens.... Make sure to commit suicide when she eventually breaks up with you.. you worthless piece of sh*t

Classyuniquebae:
I'm a woman and I must tell you the truth. I need you to read and understand clearly what I'm about to write.

Any lady or woman on earth who frequently demands for money or material things from you does not have any atom of love for you and the worst part is that she collects these things from you and still does not even pretend to love you at least for the things you are doing for her .

The right word to describe how she feels about you is "disgust" You disgust her and believe me , you are her side dude and not the main G.

She might even be giving her main guy all the money you've sending to her while still petting and begging him to be affectionate towards her .


Any woman that loves you will do anything to make you happy whether there is money or not and as a matter of fact , she will even be the one to cook food and bring for you , wash your clothes and possibly come through for you in financial needs .

Even when you are rich , a woman that loves you wouldn't want you to spend on her unnecessarily , she would suggest investments or reasonable things that would add value to your life that you could do with such money .


Stop buying love with money ! She is taking you for a fool . Man up and the right one will come along . Save up that money you are spending stupidly cuz she will still leave you for someone else . You have a future to build or at least remember your mother and siblings than wasting money .

This should be common sense, sadly it's only on Nl i'm shocked to see this. he won't listen, many men don't know how to dicepher good women from time-wasters and it's because they like a woman so much they do not want to lose her, so they resort to pleasing her. o ma se

Ur Problems & My Advice 4 U:
1. U Are Too Nice.
2. U Acted Cowardly.
3. U Should Av Had Plan B ( Anoda Girl As Subtituue).
4. U Shouldn't Be Scared To Lose Any Girl, Especially If She Behaves As If She Is Too Beautiful.
5. Don't Relationship With Girls Too Serious. Yes. Except She Is A Virgin.

travis365:
Good evening nairalanders...I really need your advice...there's this girl we've being dating for more than a year now...I just feel I'm been to nice to her...she'd always take me for granted..whenever we've issue she'd say I shouldn't let her change to me and do what she doesn't wanna do...she'd say she can't tolerate me anymore...she'd read meaning to meaningless stuffs...and I'd end up begging her...she'd even block my number..lol..,I'll have to beg her to unblock me...I actually provide every of her needs...i haven't missed any before... If I don't have I'll definitely promise her and I'd do it...I even send her money even without her asking,she'd say I'm insulting her with money all because I sent her money and not replying to her messages immediately,.but she will never appreciate the next day....so on Thursday she called me on phone and she actually told me she's having infection...I then said on Saturday I'd definitely send her some money so she can treat it...so on Saturday I actually sent her some money..it's much though....so suddenly this morning she just messaged me giving me attitude...even without appreciating what i did yesterday.. so i just have to let her be..she then start sending me different kind of messages that she can't tolerate me ignoring her and treating her bad all because I'm providing her needs....how the hell I'm i treating you bad??she just start saying different kind of thing... uploading different kind of status"a girl can love you stupidly and stop talking to you"....she'd just start ignoring my messages won't read it and she'd be online,she doesn't even call like before...but I'm always scared when we have issue that another guy will have her..�have tried alot for her...even at the point of paying her rent..�please advice me nairalanders...I really need your advice about this....and please no insult... Sorry for the bad grammers.

Na the girl hypertension make she no go date another guy go kill you Why you go dey spend too much for just Girl no be your wife nah x na just your time ..soon another niggar we have her pussy All this girls are just a holes

It was an investment so you will be scared to lose your investments... Next time invest wisely!!

Guy, my optimal advice is that, you should not keep one girlfriend. Keep two or three. With that you won't be scared of her jilting you.
It is happening to me now sef.
Give yourself peace of mind. Find another babe. She will respect you.