If u want to marry in a western society then u will need redpill and a bit MGTOW to navigate relationships with the female gender there if not u go divorce like mumu and end up broke

The best thing is to marry here, travel abroad for business and not base abroad.

No place like naija

gaius01:
Arrrrrrrh

I will advise you marry first. Make sure you trust her and make sure you both would be sincere to each other before traveling, after sometimes you can proceed her visa.

If am were you!!

IamD18:
Travel out and marry, else you'll end up sending your hard earned money from abroad to Nigeria for a supposed wife who'll be cheating around.




Travel out first bruv.

You'll see classy women that you'll marry there.

Nairaland is not the right place for this kind of discussion, people will always bring different opinion

Go abroad first, then decide to marry later. Its easier getting visa as a young man, also, you're mobile, independent and can rough things alone without being burdened by an extra mouth to cater for.

Also, most of the guys that later became citizens here are guys that were single and their single status was the luck they need to get their documents through relationship with a native, so do not block that route. Many folks I know here also wished they were single, as they can just become citizens in few years when married to a native. Besides, if worse, you can always go back to nigeria and pick a wife, but don't block that option. Be mobile, and flexible, thats your superpower as a potential migrant.

Please please I beg you. Travel n marry over there. I have seen a lot of tragic n heartbroken stories with couples living far from each other. I have seen, not heard. My eyes don see many coro coro

LEAVE THE CORN-TREE NOW. FORGET MARRYING FOR NOW. . . JUST GO!

sweetmelanin:
You are a single guy, this is one of the best positions one can be in when planning to migrate ... why would it even cross your mind tie yourself down at this point?

Marry now and you will have to hustle twice as hard to take care of yourself, whilst also maintaining a woman back home and struggling to bring her over to where you are - of which ..if your plans fail or you're not able to secure your stay on time, she might get antsy and move on without you.

This is an unnecessary burden when you can easily find someone to settle down with abroad... there are lots of decent black British, black American, black Canadian girls of Nigerian heritage you can fall in love and build a future with - who will also be happy to help you secure your stay through marriage.

Mmmh...op pay attention to this...this write up really captivated my interest cos I,m facing a similar circumstances with the op. I,m about to travel out for my 2nd degree in medicine and surgery @ 33. This advice is rich and unquantifiable.

zzor won't like this

sweetmelanin:
You are a single guy, this is one of the best positions one can be in when planning to migrate ... why would it even cross your mind tie yourself down at this point?

Marry now and you will have to hustle twice as hard to take care of yourself, whilst also maintaining a woman back home and struggling to bring her over to where you are - of which ..if your plans fail or you're not able to secure your stay on time, she might get antsy and move on without you.

This is an unnecessary burden when you can easily find someone to settle down with abroad... there are lots of decent black British, black American, black Canadian girls of Nigerian heritage you can fall in love and build a future with - who will also be happy to help you secure your stay through marriage.

hector:

I am 32. I am planning to move overseas- America, Canada, Europe or Australia in that order. But I'm seriously considering settling down before I turn 35 or at most 35. My problem right now is having to decide if getting married before i travel will be a better idea considering how uncertain things might be for a new immigrant.

I can be skeptical towards ladies, very selective and reserved. So I want to hear your suggestions please..

First questions:
1. Do you have a visa already?
2. Do you have a serious girlfriend/relationship?

Or you're just dreaming?

Depends on the type of visa you secure for your travel. If is tourist visa how do you intend to remain in the country? Possibilities are asylum, getting married to a citizen of that country or paying some one to give you documents. Travelling can set you several years behind getting married except you coming for studies or you got sponsorship or job relocation. You have to decide if you will settle down and raise a family in Nigeria or travelling abroad and face the realities you will meet. But marrying before travelling is NOT advisable if you don't have clear time line when you wife will be joining you it only increases pressure on you good luck

Lol

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright...
Tell her to take in na

I mean get her pregnant and do some introduction before you discharge atleast with that she will reduce are whoring

she will reduce. Not as if she will stop it. Chai!

IamD18:
Travel out and marry, else you'll end up sending your hard earned money from abroad to Nigeria for a supposed wife who'll be cheating around.




Travel out first bruv.

You'll see classy women that you'll marry there.

Women are scandalous everywhere.

Why do you think divorce rates are so high in the western world? Why do you think family courts are so busy in the countries that OP listed?

PataAlhajaKeji:
Never!

Don't you ever get married. Never!

Marriage ain't worth it.

The cons far outweigh the pros. Trust me.

How many girls don break your heart

Travel out first if you can, don't give yourself unnecessary burden yet.

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IamD18:
Travel out and marry, else you'll end up sending your hard earned money from abroad to Nigeria for a supposed wife who'll be cheating around.




Travel out first bruv.

You'll see classy women that you'll marry there.

his kids will get citizenship when they are born there sef.

hector, jappa, marry abroad, you a new immigrant, finding your feet would not be easy, depending on the country you choose to go to, and you need all help you need. So go there, and marry, you would even see women who would help you achieve your aim and help you settle in faster. It seems you are single here anyway. Wishing you safe trip.

hector:

I am 32. I am planning to move overseas- America, Canada, Europe or Australia in that order. But I'm seriously considering settling down before I turn 35 or at most 35. My problem right now is having to decide if getting married before i travel will be a better idea considering how uncertain things might be for a new immigrant.

I can be skeptical towards ladies, very selective and reserved. So I want to hear your suggestions please..

Bro truth is most african women will become a bone in your neck when you take them abroad.
They know out there the system works like this
Women n children first
Animals second
Nature third
Man last
African women most times will abuse the privilege n benefit they get out there.
Oga marry a white woman and enjoy peace of mind.

You gonna be in too much pressure marrying and leaving your partner behind. If possible travel and when you settle you marry.

If ur rich or from a rich background, marry here. If not marry there for a good kpali and settle there. But know that if u marry a white, u might not come home eventually with ur kids and wife in the end...most people can't leave with that because he or she will be left alone...u might end up starting all over again when u come back in ur old age...

My advise: Don't marry here and keep her here because of pressure. She will fucçk ur best friend or her best friend eventually. Marry there and waka later after ur kpali is giving to u. Find ur levels after that time. Always keep in mind the girl who loves u here now, especially when ur broke and she is still around u with a smile. That's the kind u will need eventually when u become rich or ready. Be wise. We rise!!!

It's your choice but my own be say you should change that order to: America, Australia, Canada and lastly Europe. Language barrier wahala is real in Europe and you can just avoid that jejelely.

Unfortunately, people living in Europe might be hesitant to give you advises here because Nairaland is full of kiddo that can insult commenters anyhow

hector:

I am 32. I am planning to move overseas- America, Canada, Europe or Australia in that order. But I'm seriously considering settling down before I turn 35 or at most 35. My problem right now is having to decide if getting married before i travel will be a better idea considering how uncertain things might be for a new immigrant.

I can be skeptical towards ladies, very selective and reserved. So I want to hear your suggestions please..

hector:

I am 32. I am planning to move overseas- America, Canada, Europe or Australia in that order. But I'm seriously considering settling down before I turn 35 or at most 35. My problem right now is having to decide if getting married before i travel will be a better idea considering how uncertain things might be for a new immigrant.

I can be skeptical towards ladies, very selective and reserved. So I want to hear your suggestions please..

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Marry before you travel to lands of uncertainties?

To the people who still don't believe in village people...here is the evidence.

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hector:

I am 32. I am planning to move overseas- America, Canada, Europe or Australia in that order. But I'm seriously considering settling down before I turn 35 or at most 35. My problem right now is having to decide if getting married before i travel will be a better idea considering how uncertain things might be for a new immigrant.

I can be skeptical towards ladies, very selective and reserved. So I want to hear your suggestions please..

If your travelling will not be too far, pls marry abroad. It pays to get married there. All the best!

hector:

I am 32. I am planning to move overseas- America, Canada, Europe or Australia in that order. But I'm seriously considering settling down before I turn 35 or at most 35. My problem right now is having to decide if getting married before i travel will be a better idea considering how uncertain things might be for a new immigrant.

I can be skeptical towards ladies, very selective and reserved. So I want to hear your suggestions please..

oga Collect visa first before u start disturbing nairalander...

My brother just read this thread(link below) and advice yourself by yourself. I rest my case
https://www.nairaland.com/5700498/sister-want-expose-secret-life

My brother just read this thread(link below) and advice yourself by yourself. I rest my case
https://www.nairaland.com/5700498/sister-want-expose-secret-life

gaius01:
Arrrrrrrh

I will advise you marry first. Make sure you trust her and make sure you both would be sincere to each other before traveling, after sometimes you can proceed her visa.

If am were you!!

You sound dumb here bro!
Sorry to say.
How will he make sure she is sincere?

sweetmelanin:
You are a single guy, this is one of the best positions one can be in when planning to migrate ... why would it even cross your mind tie yourself down at this point?

Marry now and you will have to hustle twice as hard to take care of yourself, whilst also maintaining a woman back home and struggling to bring her over to where you are - of which ..if your plans fail or you're not able to secure your stay on time, she might get antsy and move on without you.

This is an unnecessary burden when you can easily find someone to settle down with abroad... there are lots of decent black British, black American, black Canadian girls of Nigerian heritage you can fall in love and build a future with - who will also be happy to help you secure your stay through marriage.

What a woman indeed

hector:

I am 32. I am planning to move overseas- America, Canada, Europe or Australia in that order. But I'm seriously considering settling down before I turn 35 or at most 35. My problem right now is having to decide if getting married before i travel will be a better idea considering how uncertain things might be for a new immigrant.

I can be skeptical towards ladies, very selective and reserved. So I want to hear your suggestions please..

If there is a relationship in view and she is wifeable, why not marry her before relocating? You can then make arrangement for her to join you after settling down in your new country. That has always proven to be progressive.

babakb:


Who is this again, can't a lady express her opinion in peace again? Why all these hate for women here.

She gave the OP a candid advice and you are turning it against her, pull your skirt down Niggga.

thats wat nairaland has turned into

babakb:


Who is this again, can't a lady express her opinion in peace again? Why all these hate for women here.

She gave the OP a candid advice and you are turning it against her, pull your skirt down Niggga.

Women are endangered species here sadly

If traveling out would add value to your life, I suggest you travel but if you are already comfortable I think you should marry then travel out occasionally with your wife.