@mrex911
having the feeling of shame and regret after the act clearly shows that their is still an element of GOD'S touch in your life. This is the 1st positive point for you. The absolute truth is that you cannot fight this by your physical ability or strength. The devil knows our weak points and constantly attacks us with it. There is something you need to know that JESUS has overcome the world. Because you are his child he is the only one that can set you free.
You have to cry to him from the depths of your being he will hear you. You have to make up your mind entirely to stop the act. You can't hide anything from GOD ALMIGHTY .
Tell JESUS in your prayers sincerely from your heart that you want to stop this act. He will turn the tides before you and you will be surprised.
You don't need anyone to lay hands on you.

yeah my brother its not easy but with God all things are possible , take some time to talk to God to empower you to things you can occupy your mind with, Focus on other things of life, be creative, look for challenges, you can solve dont rest until you fix it, read books, make good friends that can help you not those that will ruin you, you can be more active in singing,playing instruments find your self a favourite one or a good skill you are good in ,never rush into a relationship as i am talking to the writer is also facing some challenges like this but i am proud of you that you shared out your personal experience that alone is a step in overcoming what ever you passing through

@mrex911
The law of input and output is at work.
It's like sowing a seed and reaping the fruit.
What is creating the desire for sex and masturbation?
It's lust.
Lust says I want that thing, love says I have all things.
Lust craves, it's an energy, it like gum in the mind.
Love haves. It's a gum that binds us to God and all good things of life.

This is why the Kingdom of God starts from asking for forgiveness of sins, believing God has forgiven you, walking and working with The Holy Spirit of God to change your thoughts, thinking, and confessions, become a new person free from the control of bad thoughts and feelings.


Having true love and joy in your heart elevates your soul above the control of lust.
Search the Scripture for verses on loving God, loving yourself, and loving people.
Love is the opposite of lust, the greater your word on love and joy through daily meditation, the lesser the power of lust through desire
1 John 4:8
He that loveth not knoweth not God; for God is love.

The spirit of masturbation and sex will increase in power if you fuel it through corrupt films, nude pictures, corrupt sexual lusty songs, desiring sex, all any negative that can fuel your desire for sex, eg having a girlfriend who triggers your desire for sex.
Burn or delete all porn videos.
Loneliness, sadness, depression acts as a lock to pin down anyone in lust.

Check your life, some other things may be boosting your desire for the opposite sex. Nude pics on your phone, sexually arousing conversations, etc
If you can identify those energy sources, note them down and see how you can minimize or destroy them.
Films are serious culprits in this aspect.
You will be thinking �, Sebi it's not a blue film �, it's just a normal film. My dear, once you start enjoying nude scenes in any film, the reward will come when your cup of desire is full.

Some foods, drinks, or fruits can be triggering your desire for sex too, note them to control their intake.


Next, build up your spirit man to rise above the energy of lust in you.
To overcome the negatives in your mind, start fueling your mind with Scriptures upon Scriptures on Galatians 5:22,23 stating from the spirit of love.
Write out all the Scriptures you can find on love, then joy, because without joy, depression can override your meditation.

Your meditation should be like this, I am full of love, I love God, God loves me, I love people, I am a child of love.
I am full of joy, I am joyful, I mean personalize the Scriptures on love, joy, peace, patience, gentleness, faith, meekness, self-control, make them yours.
Write them out in your diary, cardboard, anywhere you can see them easily as a piece of paper to put in your pocket always.

Expose your soul to godly joyful music after your daily meditation. Joy lifts the spirit helping to free it from bad thoughts, and emotions.

Do these daily, you will realize that new power will start building up in you.
Keep at this meditation, by asking The Holy Spirit to help you build up your word bank. Increase the Words you meditate on daily.

The power of lust will start reducing, the power of love for God and joy will be increasing in you.
It's not something you can overcome or override in a month, you have to continue with the new habit of meditation daily to build up the power of God in you.
In case it overwhelms you again, ask for forgiveness from God, forgive yourself, check how it happened, there must be a fueling of lusty desire before it overwhelms you.
Note how it happened, so you can avoid it next time.

Learn to identify the source of lust, remove it or it will take over your mind.

The righteous man falls 7 times and gets up again to face his life.Prob24:16

As you consciously build the spirit of love and joy in you, lust and depressions will fade away.


So shall they fear the name of the LORD from the west and his glory from the rising of the sun? When the enemy shall come in like a flood, the Spirit of the LORD shall lift a standard against him.
Isaiah 59:19
Without the words in you, prayers are powerless in overcoming temptations.

It's the word you remember at the point of temptation that will save you.

Grow in the spirit, build up your spirit on every attribute in Galatian 5:22,23.
You will testify that you busted it.

Mozino007:
The only way out is to get marry!...if u like stay 2yrs for prayer mountain,when u comes back u masturbate.ur libido is high try get marry asap.

Getting married cannot solve it correctly, I know people who are married but still blow hot hot. It require self discipline to the core to achieve such

Mozino007:
Getting marry wil solve ur problem by 95% but u worked out the remaining 5%...i masturbated for more than 20yrs n im out completely,thanks to the succulent punna!

Oluwa ooo....
20 what!

Thattallgirl:
Oops...I didn't type the message. It's from Joseph Prince. I got blessed through it and hoped the Op too will get blessed

You're amazing. For ceding the credit of d write to d original writer. I'm in love with it honesty

I like masturbation than brostitution

Pray To God For help.
Ask the Holy Spirit to Guide U..
Whenever such urge Comes.Pick up ur Bible and read.it will clear off.
This is in addition to avoiding idleness.

Is not an easy road but with determination is possible though challenges test and trial but say no.
Create covenant time with God, one particular time everyday to speak and hear from God and He only God can deliver you.

Pharaoh4rin:


You're amazing. For ceding the credit of d write to d original writer. I'm in love with it honesty

Thank you. He has more of it. You'll only end up falling in love with Jesus

From experience, what can kill masturbation is to be stressed up, make sure you are stressed up all the time through working 7am to 7pm everyday e.g involve yourself in digging the ground, cutting logs of wood, working in block industry, riding bike from morning till night everyday...

mrex911:
Hi Nairalanders, ur advice is seriously needed here. No insults pls.
I've been struggling with Masturbation and pornography addiction for the past 15 years.
I've tried all I could to stop but all to no avail.
I've prayed and fasted so many times with no tangible result. What happens is that;
I'll stop for like six(6) months without endulging in it. But once am down I see myself in the act again.
It has been filled with ups and downs all dis years.
Anytime I endulge in it the aftermath is filled with regrets, guilt, shame and loss of inner power.
I always fill sad and empty afterwards.
I really don't know what to do again, I seriously need help. My relationship with God is as take here.
Pls help a brother.
U advice will be appreciated.

simple, determine it and pray

mrex911:
Hi Nairalanders, ur advice is seriously needed here. No insults pls.
I've been struggling with Masturbation and pornography addiction for the past 15 years.
I've tried all I could to stop but all to no avail.
I've prayed and fasted so many times with no tangible result. What happens is that;
I'll stop for like six(6) months without endulging in it. But once am down I see myself in the act again.
It has been filled with ups and downs all dis years.
Anytime I endulge in it the aftermath is filled with regrets, guilt, shame and loss of inner power.
I always fill sad and empty afterwards.
I really don't know what to do again, I seriously need help. My relationship with God is as take here.
Pls help a brother.
U advice will be appreciated.

My brother get a girlfriend or get a wife

writetopoker2:


Married people also masturbate too, thats the point

What he meant is, Get married to someone whose libido matches your own.

Your guilt has made you innocent.
It'll disappear with time and you won't know how you stopped.
Try the best you could to avoid been alone. Loneliness fuels thoughts of porn and masturbation.
If you stay alone, maybe you should consider having a roommate.
Then adopt the 3-minute bathroom rule.

ayenale1:
From experience, what can kill masturbation is to be stressed up, make sure you are stressed up all the time through working 7am to 7pm everyday e.g involve yourself in digging the ground, cutting logs of wood, working in block industry, riding bike from morning till night everyday...

You can't be trying to survive one thing and kill yourself with another.
Stress is worse for yourself than masturbation

Am still adicted to porn, But i dont watch it everytime. How do i overcome?

Read and meditate on the word of God.
Nature abhors vacuum. Fill your heart with positive thoughts.
Do not watch or read romantic film or novel

It is not good that man should stay alone,. Therefore get companion. You cannot masturbate in the presence of people

My advice for you is simple.
1. You need to develop emotional control
2. If you have porn on your phone with immediate effect delete it
3. Seek God attention whenever you feel masturbating
4. I don't know your age maybe you can go into marriage now or not, I advice you to prepare and get married if you are capable.

Thank.

SenorFax:

What he meant is, Get married to someone whose libido matches your own.

It can not solve the problem. Hardly is one satisfied if one does not have love and contentment within himself.

Greatfullheart:
Am still adicted to porn, But i dont watch it everytime. How do i overcome?

Get addicted to studying the Word of God instead.
True love from God's word will help you overcome.
Lust is selfish.
Love is selfless .

Mike008:


You can't be trying to survive one thing and kill yourself with another.
Stress is worse for yourself than masturbation

When the body is stressed up, the mastubator won't have time to think about anything Bleep cos masturbating is a thing of the mind, once the mind is preoccupied and the body is stressed up, my brother masturbation will be a thing of the past.

Mozino007:
The only way out is to get marry!...if u like stay 2yrs for prayer mountain,when u comes back u masturbate.ur libido is high try get marry asap.

Marriage does not solve it at all. It will only reduce the rate at which u do it. Don't u know that there is a spirit behind this evil acts which had introduced poisons into ur body & it must be cast out.

In short, go for deep deliverance in a Bible believing church. Then, they will teach & guide u other steps to follow. Tks

ayenale1:



When the body is stressed up, the mastubator won't have time to think about anything Bleep cos masturbating is a thing of the mind, once the mind is preoccupied and the body is stressed up, my brother masturbation will be a thing of the past.

And am telling you stress is a killer. It's better you masturbate than undergo stress

mrex911:
Hi Nairalanders, ur advice is seriously needed here. No insults pls.
I've been struggling with Masturbation and pornography addiction for the past 15 years.
I've tried all I could to stop but all to no avail.
I've prayed and fasted so many times with no tangible result. What happens is that;
I'll stop for like six(6) months without endulging in it. But once am down I see myself in the act again.
It has been filled with ups and downs all dis years.
Anytime I endulge in it the aftermath is filled with regrets, guilt, shame and loss of inner power.
I always fill sad and empty afterwards.
I really don't know what to do again, I seriously need help. My relationship with God is as take here.
Pls help a brother.
U advice will be appreciated.

Op I will advise you to check out the website fighthenewdrug.org, you will get a lot of good information that would reset your mind. You are not alone in this situation, many successful people are guilty of this addiction but they later found solutions or help through some organizations like the website I just recommended to you

electhnd:
mayb dey don't live together with their wive ........ just check

That's bogus and you know it.

lomprico:

did he say idleness is a sin?

You implied that it is when it is indeed not a crime, not is it a sin.

FOLLEY20:
Marriage does not solve it at all. It will only reduce the rate at which u do it. Don't u know that there is a spirit behind this evil acts which had introduced poisons into ur body & it must be cast out.

In short, go for deep deliverance in a Bible believing church. Then, they will teach & guide u other steps to follow. Tks

Guy stop spitting trash!,i went to mfm prayer city coz of dis issue all to no avail...infact when d konji hold me i almost sex d food vendor seller pestering around.

gidson12:


Why will u masturbate while you are married.... I thought masturbation is sensual gratification driven by the urge for sex... So why will married person masturbate when sex is just a tap away

You obviously thought wrong! If any of this was all sensual gratification driven by the urge for sex, then why do married people who can obtain all the sex they need from their partners still cheat, watch porn, marry other wives and even masturbate. Obviously it is more than just a need for sexual gratification.

ur prblm is that u masturbate and feel guilty let me tell i morethan half of the people masturbate including those sane looking guys and girls so chill bro there is nothing wrong with it nd u will stop when its time just reduce it if do it more often nd feeling guilty after doing it. its better to be masturbation addict than sex addict if ur not married

I have masturbated for over 10 decades