[size=14pt]She brags her ex was a better lover[/size]
Dear Bunmi Thursday, March 24, 2011


Dear Bunmi,


I've been with my current girlfriend for two years and she told me a few days ago that she often had multiple orgasms with a man she used to date before we met. With me she only orgasms once. She was almost bragging about this comparison and I felt really hurt. I don't understand why she had them with this ex and not with me.




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If she's capable of having multiple orgasms, with her ex, why isn't it happening with us as well? I'm sure I'm a good lover and I must be doing something right to make her orgasm in the first place.

I've asked her what he did to make her have more than one orgasm and she became flippant about it and said she wished she hadn't told me because I was clearly uptight about it. Well, I am! I don't think its fair to compare us both to my face. I don't tell her about past lovers and how good they were in bed. I particularly don't think it's fair to tell me and then not let me in on the secret. Is there something I can do to make her orgasm more or is it something that just happens on its own?

Yusuf,

http://odili.net/news/source/2011/mar/24/320.html

well, if she had more heavenly feelings with her ex and only about one or two heavenly feelings with the current one, na wahala be that o.

since we're counting.

That chic will soon cheat on his a.rse with that ex, but the gal no try at all.

personally I would get pissed and start planning a replacement with a less expectant individual.

I guess this explains why some guys prefer virgins. Sexual exposure isn't so good for most women. No matter how 'good in bed' a man thinks he is, he can never be sure if any of the woman's several ex(s) wasn't better.

The guy should be grateful she told him so he'll know better than marry her sex-freaked a.r.s.e. Most women would just keep quiet about it and go cheat relentlessly with the ex(s) and other men. Anyway, thank god say na girlfriend matter. It's often advisable to marry a woman with a much lower sex drive than oneself.

@ op , the ex should be contacted for an advice.

kodewrita:

personally I would get pissed and start planning a replacement with a less expectant individual.

How will you determine that?.

aloy/emeka:

How will you determine that?.

mon frere, there are ways. Bleep(I wrote that not the crazy bot) a few and sample ze reactions. lol

@ op
If after 2 years with you, she is still remembering how good her ex was there must really be a problem and it is scary. You cannot give what you don't have so be careful with that woman of your's.

She's only a girlfriend, you too chop, clean mouth, make she commot dey go --- continue smashing her but do NOT marry her. When she's 33 and every boyfriend she's had, has had a taste of her toto, there will be nothing to brag about anymore.

alagha:

@ op , the ex should be contacted for an advice.

hunh?

that guy dey fall hand well. See insult from a girl.

@OP
Also maybe you are passionate while making love to her, some gals love it when you take them like a bull and shaaag them like wh.ore

Dude, Try opa-eyin

Heavenly feelings?does it cum frm God

She should just go back to her ex and u also get a new and younger one who is not so wordly wise. You can't manage her,she will leave.

Poster step up ya game or go for a gal who is yet to experience heavenly feeling
Hate d game dnt hate d player


Hate d ex

annawhite:

Poster step up ya game or go for a gal who is yet to experience heavenly feeling
Hate d game dnt hate d player


Hate d ex

i said it that the poster ain't representing the guys well.

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It just goes to show how this world is driven by greed. It shouldn't even matter how good anyone's ex was in bed. They're an ex for a reason. Now if they all of a sudden reminisce about how good the sex was, then I think it's about time to move on and leave his/her dilemma to deal with themselves. Chances are, cheating is not far from the mind.

He needs to run from this woman. If it were the other way around she would be cursing him to high heaven.

Men hate it so much when women let them know they suck in bed.

wow that sucks big time.

Yep

Spclst900:

i said it that the poster ain't representing the guys well.

ete ekid

aloy/emeka:

Men hate it so much when women let them know they suck in bed.

Her statement might have been borne outta malicious intent, who knows?
As 4 urs truly, I've made babes see stars and speak in tongue, so any babe that comes 2 me with the kinda insult will simply be shown the door!

Spiritually the more a man releases his sperm the more he reduces his Energy and life,the more a woman want you to release sperm the more she wants you dead. Thats tells you that the so called love in nothing but EXPLOITATION.

But if your hurt by her words,get in touch withthe Master,there is some tantric Mantras which when chanted will keep you up for 3 hours even though you release sperm 10 times your manhood won't fall down,but will remain awake and alert to the Glory of her satisfaction,then later you will ask her how she feels that may be the next day as she will never be able to tell what befalls her.

@poster
Here is what you should have replied to your woman:" BI.TCH, IF YOUR EX WAS THAT GOOD, YOU WOULD STILL BE WITH HIS SORRY SO SHUT THE FUKC UP BEFORE I PERSONALLY CANCEL YOUR MEMBERSHIP AND DEPORT YOU BACK TO HIM!"