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Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by sleekman(m): 5:25pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Kobicove: She was caught red-handed by the neighbours you dey here dey preach what exactly? Abeg if na alcohol u need this evening you better get one fast. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by DukeNija(m): 5:26pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Notatribalist: Mumu man. Because HIV will wait at the door for them to reconcile. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by malvisguy212: 5:27pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Jazzafizzy:am not igala, but am suprise , you hardly here this type of complain about igala women. |
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by bizhop01: 5:28pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
bestman09:What's if he's not the true father of the child? |
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by toye440: 5:29pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
I love the fact that u admit to starving ur wife sexually, but her committing adultery is unacceptable. Man if dowry is ur reason for bringing her back then u have no reason as u might choke her in sleep one night if she ever offends u. Its like buying a spoilt bread and still want to eat it because it cost u an arm and leg. Man U know ur heart better than anyone here, if u love ur wife and u are sure she regrets the shameful act, pls hold this family talk to settle, but if like i said the dowry is ur reason, pls get a good lawyer and claim custody of ur children, and u might want to try or do a paternity test. An adultrous woman can never raise morally sound children. |
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by sleekman(m): 5:30pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
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Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by BluntTheApostle(m): 5:30pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
DrFunmisticGlow: You don't know me, so don't jump into conclusion. I don't condone cheating, irrespective of the gender guilty. When I was serving as a pastor, I always tell couples that love and trust are yvery important in every relationship. Take these two away, and you can never have rest of mind in that relationship. If someone cheats, and their spouse catches them, trust would start diminishing. And when trust dies totally, love will never be enough to salvage that relationship. So, it is better not to cheat. I tell this to both men and women. If there is no trust, the distrustful partner will be extremely suspicious of the activities of their spouse. Their rest of mind will disappear. The person being suspected too would not have rest of mind because they will now have to be dealing with an extremely suspicious spouse. In summary, once cheating creeps into a relationship, it can never be the same except through serious praying, fasting and counselling. And for all this to happen, the person who cheated has to first realize that no one but themselves are to blame for their actions. She/he willingly chose to cheat. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by smasher1(m): 5:30pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Sebastine1994: Is the bride price up to N1billion naira? Do you like your life? 1 Like |
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by Skypeaceconsult: 5:32pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
E go shock you las las. I have heard and seen enough. Marriage is really funny sometimes. It has ups and downs. People make sacrifices in marriage before you know it while attending to all issues in a marriage ,one waste dreams. I don't contest his decision of bring her back and Pay huge amount on bride price. I guess he is being imprisoned by the child. Men make more sacrifices to get the family financially okay but few women take advantage of that to mess a home. E no go easy. |
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by Amotekun777: 5:33pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
bestman09: Typical Okoro mentality... It's all abt the money spent. ![]() |
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by 99thEnemy(m): 5:35pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
And someone said ![]() CrookedMind: |
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by Xantel(f): 5:38pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
God make me a virtuous woman |
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by tega2luv(m): 5:40pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
I believe the bible also said on the ground of adultry one can seek for divorce, well that's your decision to make because
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Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by calcal: 5:41pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
bestman09: BEST ONE SO FAR |
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by Dollanaira: 5:45pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
No |
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by feejay70: 5:48pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Are you a christian? If yes then i don't see any reason for you to let her go, she's still your wife even if u let go..as a man of God, just forgive her and take her back, beat her with words, let her cry like never before. And also pray for her to change...are you not cheating on Jesus? how many times did JESUS forgiven your sins? 1 Like |
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by Bestinstinct(m): 5:50pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
princefrank76: Flee if you want to live long..... 1 Like |
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by Praktikals(m): 5:50pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Notatribalist:See who is accusing someone of giving a useless advice. smh |
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by Kalatium(m): 5:54pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Its high time we start telling each other the truth. Inter-tribal marriage is among the major causes of a dysfunctional marriage. Sebastine1994: |
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by cicikhemy(f): 5:58pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Charleys: Tis well for your kind of Christianity bro |
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by sexy74(m): 6:00pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Sebastine1994:My brother let’s thank God and have a thanks giving service that she left at her own will. Your problem is half solved, as per your child when it’s time pickin go find him papa. Go to her people and tell them what transpired. Be very blunt and tell th you are not taking her back. The essence is for them not to insinuate that you used their daughter for anything . When Gm going go with some elders in your family. Start a new life and make yourself happy. |
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by NegeduGrace(f): 6:03pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Jazzafizzy:God bless you for that question because igala women are not known to be promiscuous unless there's something op is not telling us.. I am proudly an igala girl and our tradition concerning cheating is deep that you will have to think twice oo.. |
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by SojiVibe: 6:05pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
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Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by MrRegret: 6:10pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Let me play ur card well 4 u 1. U v already forgiven her, it's obvious, very nice , it's nice freeing URSELF from hate, it's good for the soul 2. U still love her, Love they say covers many things, ur love make u forgave her, and u r given excuse to bring her back, but NOTE love is not Blind 3. U and ur wife are completely different persons, u are a GOOD man, u neighbors know this and don't want u to suffer from her 3 Why did she run? She knew u were a good husband and felt bad for u OR She has been taking advantage of u, taking ur child away from u so that u can feel lonely. Don't beg her Don't even look for the child When she comes, cause she will, do test on the child if it is urs, ask her why she took ur child Love can make u do many things but don't let anybody take advantage of ur goodness For me accepting her depends whether she takes u for a fool or made a mistake. Remember God always forgive as sinner's, but the unrepentant willfull sinner's God don't forgive Don't let u good blind u from seeing the fact. |
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by Camelot65: 6:11pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
cicikhemy:Na wao..... You should read more on the biblical stance on divorce and adultery |
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by Halo22: 6:12pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
It's always painful to have ur spouse cheat on you especially when it is coming from the side of the woman. However, since u counted urself on the blame side, I suggest u learn ur lesson never to starve ur spouse of her matrimonial right to sexual satisfaction. More so, u may still consider her and give her a second chance even as u are careful with her. |
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by NOETHNICITY(m): 6:13pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
hashtagged:Put her in jail for what? |
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by uuzba(m): 6:15pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
sleekman:People wasting stupid money on bride price and yet the woman is useless. OP is there shouting about "Expensive" bride price as if we could down to him . Idiot. We that paid cheap bride price, our wife is still better than your own . |
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by Ugo4hotish(m): 6:18pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
i926: How are you sure it's his child? |
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by TheKingIsHere: 6:22pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
Psych412: Wtf is wrong with you?!! Don't we have men that are currently at home while their wives are the bread winners? So, you don't know that sex plays an important part in marriage abi? You think marriage is all about just money and that's it? If you think everything is about money, then get married to a log of wood!! |
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by Psych412(f): 6:29pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
TheKingIsHere:then, why didn't she complain to her husband. if she was sex starved, she should have talked to her husband. sleeping with another man because her husband starving her of sex is bad. communication is most important in marriage. |
Re: Should I Take Back An Adulterous Wife Because Of The Expensive Bride Price? by dalass(f): 6:30pm On Dec 12, 2020 |
hopeforcharles: Na Igbo man... The bride cost is importanter than other stuff ![]() To marry another, money again! If he chooses to take her back, let him.. Maybe he himself too is playing away match that is why the only priority is the money he spent as the bride price |
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