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Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by mathong: 10:12am On Dec 17, 2020 |
eeewise:While dating a woman her actions will tell all not just words. The man knows her better than outsider.... Not every Woman will want to voice out directly coz she knows her man also better than outsider .... Some men will relax, relents and rely once woman promise to do this or that... |
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by Montaque(m): 10:12am On Dec 17, 2020 |
oyinella: With what you wrote in the later part, do you still think she answered the question correctly? |
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by Ricoluv(m): 10:14am On Dec 17, 2020 |
My brother..i beg you in God's name, RUN!!! Do not listen to those you spoke to..listen to your gut instincts..God put it there for a reason. Gone are the days of our parents when it was economically viable for the man to be the sole provider..these days are not so anymore. Please if you can dm me let's talk better bicos I don't want to see a fellow broda make such a lifelong mistake. Biko, Ejoo, Dan Allah...leave that girl and move on. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by Seniormanfeyyie(m): 10:16am On Dec 17, 2020 |
My brother dont mind that thing you call wife to be. Maybe she will be using the money to finance her boyfriend or use the proceeds to buy land and build house for herself or her parents. Dont sponsor her in my humble opinion she doesnt love u. A woman who loves you will be ready to cooperate and support u anytime any day 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by Dnight(m): 10:18am On Dec 17, 2020 |
Well that is the reality of most Nigerian home They mostly offer nothing more than sex 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by futurism: 10:19am On Dec 17, 2020 |
Dliquidmetal:There is nothing to reason there... you even included what I omitted in mine. A lady who love you will sacrifice, no matter how little |
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by Bryan88(m): 10:19am On Dec 17, 2020 |
BABA THIS IS MARRIAGE AND NOT RELATIONSHIP AND THAT'S WHY THERE'S NO HOW A WORKING WIFE & A MOTHER WIL LET HER HUBBY OR CHILDREN SUFFER WHEN THINGS ARE ROUGH FOR THE HUBBY...I WANT YOU TO GET THAT INTO YOUR HEAD BRO AND THAT'S WHY ALL YOU SEEKED THEIR OPINIONS KEPT TELLIN YOU SAME THING. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by Nobody: 10:20am On Dec 17, 2020 |
Alwaysachick:In other words, Men with house wives don’t lose their jobs and men with working class wives don’t build houses. This is dumbest thing I will read today and it’s not yet noon 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by Nobody: 10:21am On Dec 17, 2020 |
Zzor:pls what should he marry her for? pls I want to learn from your side. |
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by mathong: 10:24am On Dec 17, 2020 |
Don't mind the small boy mindset, he will taking advice from the masses that know nothing about marriage. He's still mummy and daddy boy! Better go make money or can Ned tell Regina what will you contribute since I'm going to invest 1.5m in your business Mediocre! valencia25: 1 Like |
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by JordanMichael(m): 10:24am On Dec 17, 2020 |
Zzor:And your EYES fixed on his money is a big turn on? smh |
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by Onowu2020: 10:26am On Dec 17, 2020 |
In that case there is no need to invest in her business..let her sort it out but I know if you Ur smart enough u will be controlling her income. |
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by bepositive11: 10:29am On Dec 17, 2020 |
Invest in yourself before investing in her. It seems that you both may not be compatible though. What else have you both disagreed on? |
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by hottadiva(f): 10:29am On Dec 17, 2020 |
I don't agree with her mindset especially with the investment you're making. Yes it's a man's duty to provide for the home but how he chooses to do that differs. Investing in your wife or providing the right resources/environment for her personal growth so that she can support the family is one of such. In our society today, couples should have shared responsibilities. She can take care of something in the home no matter how little. Have another heart to heart with her and clearly state what you expect her to handle, outlining what you would also handle. If she still disagrees, please don't invest in the business. You would only resent her later and it would be the source of future quarrels. Let her figure out how to raise her own money for herself alone. P.S - strikes me like you both are Igbo 1 Like |
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by MadamExcellency: 10:33am On Dec 17, 2020 |
Zzor: You are too Uncivilised for a marriage. What then becomes your part of the contract that will earn you respect and equality? Your ppussy is never an asset and taking care of the children is equal responsibility. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by oyinella(f): 10:34am On Dec 17, 2020 |
Montaque:Yes! It's the duty of the man to provide for his family, and the duty of the wife to help.. She said she was going to help didnt she? Then again, that's my opinion 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by DonCortino: 10:34am On Dec 17, 2020 |
Anoymus: You are not matured enough for marriage. Better not go into it. Allow the girl go find a more responsible man to marry. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by Georgejeez: 10:36am On Dec 17, 2020 |
Topmaike007: The keke importer has spoken . Case closed . Igbo kwenu!! |
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by Xkale1234(m): 10:38am On Dec 17, 2020 |
Zzor:shut da Bleep up werey, if u don't have something meaningful to say keep off and how dare u ignore the guy bcox you're senseless |
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by Nobody: 10:40am On Dec 17, 2020 |
Xkale1234:yeye |
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by sogud(m): 10:41am On Dec 17, 2020 |
Anoymus: Bro ...to me, u Bleep up by asking her such qtion..u re taking it to b a division of responsibility, whch is very wrong , u re investing on her so dat she cn b independent, asking u for money all d time for her needs will stress u n ur pocket, n nt u investing for her to take sum responsibilities at home......invest for her n allow her to help u willingly wit wat ever she earn n dnt mek it a compulsory tin....u re d head n d man, it is ur full responsibility to provide for d family, even though ur wife is working n earning more dan u, it is stil ur responsibility to provide for d family n tekia of her.. Neva u look at ur wife finance n expect division of responsibility at home...it is wrong, u married her n nt she marrying u...,.... invest for ur wife n let her b financially independent. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by GIdiata(m): 10:42am On Dec 17, 2020 |
Zzor: But she's Marrying him for gains ![]() |
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by 99thEnemy(m): 10:43am On Dec 17, 2020 |
Lordseyad:Zzor will never borrow sense even just long enough to write one short reply. . Imagine calling someone who made it possible to have a source of income a leech. . Zzor I pity the fool wey go wife you this parasitic, materialistic, money monger ![]() ![]() ![]() . Your only contribution in the family will just be your Vagina ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by Nobody: 10:46am On Dec 17, 2020 |
99thEnemy:Being a woman is enough contribution already, let the man take full charge of his responsibilities which is to PROVIDE 1 Like |
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by luvyaself95(m): 10:48am On Dec 17, 2020 |
That girl isn't for you man. These days man and woman take responsibility in the house even if the man is billionaire woman still need to contribute something it can't money always but another thing when necessary but this your girl sound like she is bringing nothing to the table... |
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by VULCAN(m): 10:51am On Dec 17, 2020 |
There is no problem. Invest that money by yourself and ensure the returns come to you. She isn't a wife, she is a staff. Therefore put her on a monthly salary for acting as your wife and the mother of your children. DazAll 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by 99thEnemy(m): 10:54am On Dec 17, 2020 |
Zzor:Then be OK with being a fulltime house wife too. . Awon Feminists are now running away from equal rights abi? You responsibilty now will be to cook, clean, wash, change diapers and watch Zee world. . I bet you prefer this. ![]() |
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by MisterGrace: 10:55am On Dec 17, 2020 |
Shortyy: What do you mean by this? That it is a taboo to support the family? I don't understand. |
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by osomegbe(m): 10:57am On Dec 17, 2020 |
Anoymus:Bros marry her before another guy claim her from you. At least she was bold to tell you that it is your responsibility and you shouldn't make it compulsory for her. That means she is praying for you that you will not lack not to be able to take care of your responsibilities. Let her be doing what she loves doing and don't push her away. Some people will even be paying their wife monthly added with feeding money and the wife is still not faithful. This life no balance. If you no want her please give me her number. I am looking for that kind industrious wife material. Seriously. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by Truthteller2020: 10:58am On Dec 17, 2020 |
Ishilove:Nothing.she is bringing nothing into the table.She is a very selfish girl. |
Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by Olakunleyakub(m): 11:09am On Dec 17, 2020 |
I don't know you in person but instinct is always telling me that you will be a loyal, responsible and blessed wife to whoever that seems it fit to settle down with you based on some of ur comments av been seeing for a while here. No doubt, we are not compatible in terms of religion, age and some little aspect of life but the truth is that I cherish your personality and pls keep it up. The right person that will be a coolness of your eyes will locate you soon. To the op, Pls never settle for less or self woman whou does not have any attributes of a sense of responsibility or else it will end in premium premium tears. Truly, it is a men duty to take care of there family without expecting anything in return but a reasonable and responsible woman should understand that we needs to Help her husband once in a while if there is a need to. I bid you best of luck in your marital journey! Bola146: |
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