UjuJoan2:


Even the so-called principled men would still act the way the man did.

I bet even you, in all your 'conscientiousness' would still do the same!

dollytino4real:
some girls sha be thief! why did u go wen u no wan fork? his house na church?

lkillbrokehoes:
Lolz I wonder oh

dollytino4real:
machete small sef n.a. gun him 4 use 4 dat her kpekus so dat she 4 learn in a hard way, d thing dey even vex me more than the guy sef

LordKO:



Lol, Ujujoan, I've got standard. Only unprincipled people keep friendship based on a meaningless bond. So, she wouldn't have had the privilege to pass a night in my house unless she was stranded; while under the circumstance of what transpired between them, If I were in the guy's position, the very moment she said "hope you will not touch me at night" I would've told her that it would be impossible for her to pass the night with me without such and more happening. That's if I fancied her up to that level and weren't committed to anyone. So, we would've reached an understanding - I can't be caught violating a reaching understanding unjustly. Conscientiousness doesn't equate to perfection, by the way.

lkillbrokehoes:

Calmbaby:
I went to see a guy called UC, he is a friend, though I won't call it my boyfriend because there isn't anything special between us.

I was around his house that night that I hang out with my friends. So, I put a call to him telling him I was around his house. He said he will meet me where I was. After the hangout, it was around 10 pm, the guy called me when I was about entering keke to my house, asking me to come over. I had to go to his house instead.

On reaching his house, when I meet him, the first thing, I said to him was "Hope you will not touch me at night"? He smiled.

We got inside the house and we started seeing a movie before I knew it, I have slept off. Thinking my night would go soundly. I balance dey sleep my thing. Only for this guy to wake me up at 2:23 am for sex.

I struggled with this guy, fought him. He torn my pant, gave me a blow on my left eye. I shouted, I started seeing Stars. I was screaming 'Jesus Jesus' while covering my left eye with my hands, and standing up at the same time. This boy did not stop at that, he still went ahead to push me down when I kept resisting him.

I insisted am not going to allow him to have sex with me. And then, he asked me to leave his house by 3 am. I was like, What? How can I leave by that time? He went to bring a belt, that if I don't step out, he will beat me.

He escorted me downstairs to the sitting room. I was like, please, allow me to sleep here, in the sitting room. He refused and insisted I leave the house entirely. At that point, I became mad and shouted to him telling him, I can't leave, he would have to kill me this night, I was saying to him, that you can't force a girl to have sex if she says no.

This guy changed instantly, and he was like, " shebi you wan mad? You are screaming at me abi"? The next thing I knew, he went and brought Cutlass.

Machete Because I refused you sex?? I was damn surprised. Guy, brought out a cutlass and chased me out of the house. I sat down at the front of the house around 3 am, thinking of what to make of that attitude. What should I call it? Simply because I said no to sex. I was been treated like that? Like a trash bag. Choi. Girls have suffer sha. With my swollen left eye, I was crying, reflecting.

Shouldn't a girl have the right to say no? Simply because a girl slept in your house doesn't give you the right to force her to have sex with you. He had to struggle with me, gave me a blow on my eye, slapped me, pushed me down, asked me out of his house, brought out a cutlass on me. All that because I refused and insisted am not going to Bleep him. Choi.. Some Men are Monsters sha.

I still dey battle with my swollen eye sha.. E go better. Na me cause am

PS: the guy is cute, fresh, attractive. And am beautiful too, black and very curvy.

LordKO:



Lol, Ujujoan, I've got standard. Only unprincipled people keep friendship based on a meaningless bond. So, she wouldn't have had the privilege to pass a night in my house, unless she was stranded; while under the circumstance of what transpired between them, If I were in the guy's position, the very moment she said "hope you will not touch me at night" I would've told her that it would be impossible for her to pass the night with me without such and more happening. That's if I fancied her up to that level and weren't committed to anyone. So, we would've reached an understanding - I can't be caught violating an understanding unjustly. Conscientiousness doesn't equate to perfection, by the way.

SweetCunt97:
So you men think with yiur diicks huh? A female ain't safe with you all? No wonder una stupidity and nonsense dey reach to assault babies. Nasty set of fools.

Ahmed0336:


Imaging the comment coming from a Virgina shediot

UjuJoan2:


Good!
Ndo . . . brush it off, pick the lesson therein and move on.
Who knows, maybe this experience will help protect you from a bigger mistake in the future!

Liposure:
I don't believe this. What kind of lady compliment her abuser and herself at the end of an awful story

UjuJoan2:


He chased you with a cutlass and you still entered the house with him?
You get mind oh!!!

Organsmuggler:
this story get k_leg but the funny part is "And am beautiful too, black and very curvy" like we care

UjuJoan2:


When we say 'she should have known' it sounds like we are justifying the man's behaviour.

It's sad that the reality is what you mentioned, that's why I said I would NEVER do it except I'm ready for sex. But is that really right or acceptable behaviour? Why the sense of entitlement on the part of the men?

I don't understand it!