Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,201,510 members, 7,978,700 topics. Date: Friday, 18 October 2024 at 12:41 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote (26466 Views)
Poll: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?Yes: 38% (19 votes)No: 61% (30 votes) This poll has ended |
Things To Know Before Dating African Men / Chinese Men Marrying African Women, A New Trend? / Why Are Naija Men Marrying Zimbabwean Women For Papers? (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) ... (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (11) ... (13) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by MissyB3(f): 2:37pm On Mar 28, 2011 |
Mrs.Chima:For the length of time Mrs Chima has been on NL, this is her only post [ I can remember] that makes not just absolute sense, but is neatly put. Void of swear words and childish tantrum . . . . Clear and concise. Didn't go through the thread but I like this comment. MOBO44, where are you? |
Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by Nobody: 2:40pm On Mar 28, 2011 |
it's a mental disease when it gets to that level. desperately unhappy people, because if they were happy with their lives, they wouldnt spend so much time griping over women who they say they dont even meet? seems like a lot of mental energy to expend on another person who you say you're not with. So the one you are with, how much percentage of your attention do you give her, since you're always thinking about others. probably even when having sex. |
Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by debosky(m): 2:48pm On Mar 28, 2011 |
tpiah!: While that is true, no one can deny that there are infinitely more gangsta binshes around now than in the past because family units have broken down.
I disagree - most of the mothers of this generation are not gangsta binshes so they are not the same. I don't advocate disrespect, but to claim equality with this generation's mothers is a travesty. The only equality that exists is anatomical and not behavioural. Anyone who is unable to distinguish between the very different upbringing of mothers of 50+ years and the young ladies of today is severely lacking in logical reasoning skills.
It is intellectually shallow to consider any attack on women as an attack on your mother. Your mother and the women being described here have been brought up under different social and economical circumstances such that they CANNOT be regarded as the same in any guise, beyond their anatomical similarities. To simplify, if the 'attack' was that women are too hairy or have fat lips, then you can say you are insulting your mother. If behavioural characteristics are being attacked, you will do well to recognise the stark differences that exist between young women of today and those of past generations. |
Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by Nobody: 2:58pm On Mar 28, 2011 |
debosky: well, learn to take responsibility for your lifestyle. you cant glorify the video vixens on tv and in strip clubs, lose your senses (and wallet) everytime you see a butt or bosom, glorify drugs, then turn around to castigate gansta binches for typifying your choices. They are only dancing to the tune you set. I disagree - most of the mothers of this generation are not gangsta binshes so they are not the same. I don't advocate disrespect, but to claim equality with this generation's mothers is a travesty. The only equality that exists is anatomical and not behavioural. my answer is the same as above. may i add that you do not know what happened in the past. Is it not the same environment where women were killing and destroying themselves in polygamous or womanizing households? is that so much different from gansta binches who will also grow up and then have a veneer of respectability with time. I'm not condoning any wild behaviour, but the narrow pov. Anyone who is unable to distinguish between the very different upbringing of mothers of 50+ years and the young ladies of today is severely lacking in logical reasoning skills. see my answer above. It is intellectually shallow to consider any attack on women as an attack on your mother. Your mother and the women being described here have been brought up under different social and economical circumstances such that they CANNOT be regarded as the same in any guise, beyond their anatomical similarities. it is what it is. if you make a habit of attacking black women simply because you got a visa, then you must be forgetting your mother or grandmother is also one. if you cant respect your mother, then you cant respect any woman, period. bad character. |
Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by debosky(m): 3:16pm On Mar 28, 2011 |
tpiah!: Only an irresponsible woman or one who is not well brought up will typify such choices. Whores and prostitutes have existed since the dawn of mankind - any woman that takes that as an excuse to be a gangsta binsh is not worthy of womanhood. Let's take it to an individual level - will you become a stripper or video vixen because some men glorify it? Are you saying women are so gullible that they can only become what men 'glorify' and can't think for themselves?
I am not saying there were no ills in the previous environment. What I am saying is that, when all factors are considered, the women of yore were more dignified, self-respecting and honour deserving than many of today's women. The past environment was not perfect, but it produced better products than the current one.
Hardly - most gangsta binshes never get a veneer of respectability, unless they snag a mugu. Most turn into bitter old women, or try to reform when it is too late and hold on to the 'I chose to be independent' moniker.
I disagree - the 'blackness' isn't what is being dissed, it is the reprehensible behaviour and traits that have become synonymous with many (not all) black women. If you can't make this important distinction, then there is no way the problem can be solved. It is foolishness to lump all black women together when they are not all brought up in the same fashion. Surely you as an intelligent woman can appreciate that? Anyone abusing anyone else because he/she has a visa is a simpleton.
Most people's mums wouldn't do the type of things many young women are doing these days, so the respect issue doesn't come in. As far as I know, most mums were not video vixens or strippers, or even if some were, there is a far greater proportion today than in the past. Again, I am sure the majority of people here respect their mums, but that respect doesn't automatically apply to other women who don't hold the same values or behave in a self-respecting fashion. |
Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by Nobody: 3:32pm On Mar 28, 2011 |
debosky: it's human nature to want to be admired. If all the men in your environment tell you a woman is only desirable if she displays gansta traits, then most women in that locality will do so either out of genuine conviction, gullibility or because their choices are limited. of course i wouldnt become a stripper if i had strict religious convictions, all things being equal. if i didnt, and had no role model to tell me otherwise, then stripping/video vixen would of course be an option for me. Are you saying women are so gullible that they can only become what men 'glorify' and can't think for themselves? whatever opens the cash flow or keeps the compliments coming. same way men become drug couriers, corruption czars or armed robbers since it brings them money and attention. would you rather be poor and hungry but with convictions, or rich and pampered without any. How many humans not to talk of women, can choose the first option without being religious? I am not saying there were no ills in the previous environment. What I am saying is that, when all factors are considered, the women of yore were more dignified, self-respecting and honour deserving than many of today's women. The past environment was not perfect, but it produced better products than the current one. aye ti laju and even then, past generations were replete with stories of witches, mammy water and whatnot. the men are also not blameless, like i mentioned before. our lifestyles have consequences. If you turn women into a commodity, then that's what they'll be. Hardly - most gangsta binshes never get a veneer of respectability, unless they snag a mugu. Most turn into bitter old women, or try to reform when it is too late and hold on to the 'I chose to be independent' moniker. history is forgiving, and you anyway cant know until the time comes. even many former love-peddlers are married and settled now- that alone pours cold water on your statement. I disagree - the 'blackness' isn't what is being dissed, it is the reprehensible behaviour and traits that have become synonymous with many (not all) black women. If you can't make this important distinction, then there is no way the problem can be solved. it is also reprehensible behaviour for a black man to spend all his time dissing black women. There are many traits black men exhibit nowadays which are just horrible and disgusting. so no saint here. It is foolishness to lump all black women together when they are not all brought up in the same fashion. Surely you as an intelligent woman can appreciate that? so preach to your brothers who lump all black women together because they had a couple of experiences with a hooker. Anyone abusing anyone else because he/she has a visa is a simpleton. my point was ara oko wo'lu therefore person no go hear word again. Most people's mums wouldn't do the type of things many young women are doing these days, so the respect issue doesn't come in. As far as I know, most mums were not video vixens or strippers, or even if some were, there is a far greater proportion today than in the past. respect does not have to be earned before it's given. and it's men who enjoy video vixens and strippers. when fashola tried to close down lagos strip clubs, the backlash almost cost him his job. so, preach to your brothers who cant do without these? |
Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by Nobody: 3:36pm On Mar 28, 2011 |
I'm in no way glorifying gansterism and alternative lifestyles, but blacks like mobo444 and his cronies, are way out of line with their crude views and nasty attitudes. they are not better than the hookers they hang out with. and yes, if you respect your mother, you will respect black women. every human knows the type of company that matches their lifestyle. if you werent part and parcel of the things you're shouting about, you wouldnt be there. |
Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by Freiburger(m): 3:37pm On Mar 28, 2011 |
Here we go again. |
Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by Nobody: 3:40pm On Mar 28, 2011 |
if the hunter learns to shoot without missing, then the bird also learns to fly without perching. nobody has to sit down and take continuous misrepresentation and intentional maligning by ill mannered, uncouth people. |
Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by Freiburger(m): 3:47pm On Mar 28, 2011 |
My own mother don't even care when someone says, ''white women are better than black women in bed'' but i see most ladies out here getting mad you can even sense thir fraustrations. funny |
Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by Nobody: 3:48pm On Mar 28, 2011 |
you sound senseless. do i really need to ask where you're from. ma wo aye e: Freiburger: |
Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by Mamken(f): 3:54pm On Mar 28, 2011 |
Freiburger: u sound sensefull. . . |
Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by Freiburger(m): 3:57pm On Mar 28, 2011 |
tpiah!:quoting what i said months ago,get a job. your inferiority is distgusting |
Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by Freiburger(m): 4:10pm On Mar 28, 2011 |
well i haven't got your time now coz i know retarded ppls like you going arroung abusing every white lady they see with a black man keep your inferiority complex to yourself it's distgusting and even kills my appettite for black ladies with your mentality. |
Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by Nobody: 4:12pm On Mar 28, 2011 |
at least you got your visa, lets thank whoever gave it to you. are you mamakent btw, because your nigerian english is of the village variety. dont know why some nigerian men like pretending to be white women. |
Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by Freiburger(m): 4:18pm On Mar 28, 2011 |
^^^ I'll get get back to u. |
Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by Nobody: 4:22pm On Mar 28, 2011 |
you do that. |
Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by Nobody: 4:29pm On Mar 28, 2011 |
see the type of person wey debosky dey defend for here. A cross dressing transexual (doesnt mean I'm knocking them) with low IQ to boot. much better to have kept quiet!! make you no receive stupidity by association! |
Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by debosky(m): 4:36pm On Mar 28, 2011 |
tpiah!: God forbid. You should know me by now - I addressed the issues and not any misguided personalities here. There is an issue with an increasing number black women, no amount of referring to mothers can detract from that - it simply serves as a distraction and doesn't address the root cause of the problem. |
Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by Nobody: 4:42pm On Mar 28, 2011 |
^^well, I hope you have no problem with the company you're keeping. eg friedburger and mobo444. |
Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by debosky(m): 5:18pm On Mar 28, 2011 |
I'm not keeping anyone's company, especially not loonies who need urgent psychological assessment. |
Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by dayokanu(m): 5:19pm On Mar 28, 2011 |
Missy ★ B: So when women folks say some degrading things about young men, Can we refer them to their fathers? E.g For everytime women say or insinuate that blackmen are lazy, irresponsible, jailbirds, smal dicked, dropouts etc Are we allowed to redirect you to an image of your dad? |
Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by Nobody: 5:21pm On Mar 28, 2011 |
dayokanu: nobody is preventing you from doing so. if you abuse black women and we remind you your mothers are black, then by all means return the favour whenever you see unwarranted generalizations and maligning of black males. |
Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by armyofone(m): 5:22pm On Mar 28, 2011 |
Interesting topic, brb |
Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by dayokanu(m): 5:23pm On Mar 28, 2011 |
armyofone: Hauwa, Are you white? Like white like snow? |
Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by Nobody: 5:24pm On Mar 28, 2011 |
dayokanu is very weird today. |
Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by dayokanu(m): 5:29pm On Mar 28, 2011 |
tpiah!: How am I weird Tope. Kini mo se. |
Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by debosky(m): 5:29pm On Mar 28, 2011 |
tpiah!: Men generally don't do so because it is illogical and unreasonable. It is an abdication of personal responsibility to want to use someone's parents (mother or father) to explain away or deflect individual criticism. Besides, it is poorly cultured and very disrespectful to refer to other's parents. . . . .is this not another sign of the behavioural issues affecting many today's women? |
Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by Tosinville(m): 5:30pm On Mar 28, 2011 |
Tpiah loves topic like this, she dislike whenever you're against black women but i haven't done that yet cos never would be against one but for these nigerian modern girls. Back to topic, i'll do that whenever i try a white lady compare to my black lady but let the nigerian guys abroad on here keep confessing about their experience with the white chicks. |
Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by Nobody: 5:31pm On Mar 28, 2011 |
~*Mamken*~: OK Mamken I never had a problem with you and I still don't but remember this is MzDarkSkin you are talking to hun. First of all you said "white ladies never lose temper" you and I BOTH know that is a goddamn lie so no need to even further explain it more so than you are here talking about how you are the target and blsey blsey but yet you are the one getting defensive and posting with a hint of sarcasm and YES even stereotype. I don't know what you meant by the highlighted line but let me tell you, some white women here in the states practically DRAW their own facial expressions with the eye liners, mascara on deck and applied so heavy it looks like a weave track, lip stick over done and they smell like they marinated in body spray. Let's not get started on how much they dress up JUST to attract a dude and to be considered competition to blk/ latina chicks. Please let's not go there so I won't have to explain how many times I have to leave a damn nail salon in search of another one cause the line is full, 90 percent of the clients being white. ok? I am Jamo and I know there are Africans, African Americans and even non black men who go gaga for some jerk but NEVER ONCE HAVE OR WOULD I SAY/SAID that I am better than the women who belong to their ethnicity. Not only would I be kidding my self but I would that day be deluded. Whites cry "reverse racism" at the drop of a dime nowadays! and if a group of black chicks look at a white girl and her black bf she swears its because she is white when GOD knows what is on those girls mind. I say if you are not comfortable enough to be proud of your relationship and are too timid to enjoy yourself in public with your partner who is not the same race as you and worry about what others think, then what was the point in hooking up? as for the last line "btw, my mans experiment last for the past 15 years now. . . " there are couples who are together for 35 years and the woman or man is too daft to realize that an affair has been going on right under their nose for 25 of those years don't flatter yourself. It makes you look bad. |
Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by dayokanu(m): 5:33pm On Mar 28, 2011 |
Thats the difference between a man and a woman. When a man is attacking you, hardly would he refer to a girls dad. But women before they say 3 sentences, they already bring your mom into the fray. Also read back Tope lemme ask you, Are you saying on the average the moral value of the generation of our parents is the same as for today? If not then it makes no sense comparing the average girl of today to your moms generation same with for men |
Re: Are African Men Marrying More White Women Because They Are Better In Bed?:vote by Nobody: 5:38pm On Mar 28, 2011 |
dayokanu: because your mum was your first point of contact with the female species. so, your not liking your fellow females, has a lot to do with the females around you when you were growing up, or the ones you surround yourself with presently. bringing your mum into the conversation is supposed to remind normal men that the women they're talking to or about, also includes their mum. if you dont get it, then no problem, Also read back Tope lemme ask you, Are you saying on the average the moral value of the generation of our parents is the same as for today? If not then it makes no sense comparing the average girl of today to your moms generation same with for men debosky said that, not me. |
(1) (2) (3) ... (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (11) ... (13) (Reply)
What Is The Right Age For A Lady To Get Married? / She Has Never Received Anything From Me !! Could This Be Love? / Singles: What Are The Habits/Lifestyle You Won't Abandon After Marriage?
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 89 |