Descortes:
this is why I don't support the redpill; fullblown hypocrisy!!

Saying all women do not love, you redpillers insinuate that all men do not love also.
If men don't love, they shouldn't complain that women do not love.
If you can't give, don't take. Capische

I think I have to agree with your point a bit.

CalliDora1:
Imagine the people you too mentioned. Why not go for your level?

What I see in Nigerian ladies is they go for their level but the guys want to go for ladies above their levels and ko le werk!

What happened to sikira the pepper seller?

Whatever happened to Chichi the orange girl.

What of onome the plantain seller. Rather you chose to mention high class babes who you can't leave their mansions and come and be living with you in your 1 bedroom flat. Wake up!

Stop comparing us to those American babes cos our system doesn't favor us like theirs do to them over there. You follow a guy below your level, you wreck. And govt ain't gat your back. Ask Tiwa why she jakpa.

lol. This is bullcrap.

"Nigerian ladies go for their level".. You kiddin' me?
Dont be stupidly blind, the females in this country go for men above their levels.
Even the broke girl on the street wants a big boy.
And who's talking about dating or marrying a poor man? Are every average man in Nigeria poor and living in one bedroom apartment? Read my main post this time slowly and make use of your brain.

Darlingme:
@op, where do you get this idea from?
Why would any sensible man wants to date/marry a successful lady without him being or trying to be successful? Those
Guys you mentioned, don't have Nigerian mentality.

Recently, it's like all broke guys in Nigerian want a successful lady. But why? Is that because of love?

I'm not talking about broke here. Jesus christ!
So in Nigeria a man who isn't stinkingly rich is broke?

Op is right to some points sha..

Descortes:
I'm not talking about broke here. Jesus christ!
So in Nigeria a man who isn't stinkingly rich is broke?

who is talking about stinkingly rich here? Read my comment again.

Descortes:
lol. This is bullcrap.

"Nigerian ladies go for their level".. You kiddin' me?
Dont be stupidly blind, the females in this country go for men above their levels.
Even the broke girl on the street wants a big boy.
And who's talking about dating or marrying a poor man? Are every average man in Nigeria poor and living in one bedroom apartment? Read my main post this time slowly and make use of your brain.

The truth is bitter. See how difficult it is for you to swallow and you had to resort to using abusive words.

Good day!

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Descortes:
This isn't meant to be a woman bashing thread o and I'm not a redpiller or woman hater, but I couldn't just resist...

Nowadays, If you are looking for true love from a Nigerian woman, you go old!! There Is no real love here.

I just saw a news about ariana grande's engagement to dalton gomez, i was like 'who the fvck is dalton gomez??!' The guy is literally a nobody.
Mehn I was shocked. This dalton gomez guy is just a random real estate agent. With about 4k followers on IG. But he's about to get married to a world wide superstar. He no get level for where she dey.
I also noticed same thing about other female superstars; Niki minaj is married to a literally broke ex convict!!
Rihanna nkor? She's dating asap rocky who is not half as successful as her.
Taylor swift is engaged to a virtually unknown upcoming actor.
Na love be that na. This one you go know say the woman love you for who you are.

But come over here in Africa, Nigeria precisely, the very successful women are only after the extremely successful men, if you are just successful alone them no go look your face, your success has to be extreme. That's why very successful women like Genevieve( who was even involved with Atiku lol) , Linda ikeji, tiwa savage are still single. Once a Nigerian woman moves up the ladder in terms of success, she has no love for any man equal or below her.

Let me give you one instance. Who sabi chef Chioma before? Chioma was a nobody compared to almighty davido but he fell in love with her, made a song for her, she's now very famous courtesy of him.
But if reverse was the case (chioma was the superstar) do you think she for look davido face or any guy who's a nobody compared to her? No she won't!! She'll just be food for the toppest men.

Nigerian women don't love you for who you are, they choose to love you for what you are/what you have, and what you have must be more than what they have for them to consider you.

No matter how big they are or how much they have, they will only consider bigger or wealthier men. And if they get bigger/wealthier, they'll only consider the biggest/wealthiest men. That's how it works over here.

There is no true love in this Jungle. I rest my case.


P.S- I honestly didn't create this thread to ignite the 'Nigerian women bashing' on here, I'm just spittin' facts.

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Darlingme:
who is talking about stinkingly rich here? Read my comment again.

I'm not against women choosing to love men who aren't broke. Heck a lady in this shithole who dates or marries an ambitionless broke man is a foolish woman . No one wants to suffer.

What I'm saying in a nutshell is, you'll have to be bigger than a Nigerian woman to attain her love(false love), she's not loving you cuz of who you are, not cuz you are physically attractive, not cuz you are ambitious or hardworking, not cuz you are a good kind-hearted sweetheart who makes his money legit, but because you are bigger than her. You get me now?

Best thing i have come across today

It is everywhere bros. Just that it is more concentrated here because of some reason I don't know. In the animal kingdom, many female animals goes for the stronger males for mating. Natural selection is in our DNA, there is nothing we can do about it.

Descortes:
I'm not against women choosing to love men who aren't broke. Heck a lady in this shithole who dates or marries an ambitionless broke man is a foolish woman . No one wants to suffer.

What I'm saying in a nutshell is, you'll have to be bigger than a Nigerian woman to attain her love(false love), she's not loving you cuz of who you are, not cuz you are physically attractive, not cuz you are ambitious or hardworking, not cuz you are a good kind-hearted sweetheart who makes his money legit, but because you are bigger than her. You get me now?

Normal, man is man to be bigger than woman. That's why the man is the head of the home. Not really in the case of finance alone but all round. Women tends to respect and obey men who are bigger than them. Men are created to be in charge.

Every man should be with a woman, who he can successful excerse his authority Over.

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narit:
Nairaland is full of deranged people, psychopaths, mindless individuals. People whom their specialty lies in cooking up stories, that gradually eat up the sanity of the Normal man. Any sane man who comes here very often will no doubt lose is sanity, he won't even noticed when he has become one of them. Sincerely, I feel for the man who as gotten addicted to visiting Nairaland on a regular basis, especially this Romance section. His life would have been so easy if he as never come across it at all. As much as laughable this forum might be, this site should be eradicated, the damages it does as no Remedy, no offense!

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so true

Darlingme:
Normal, man is man to be bigger than woman. That's why the man is the head of the home. Not really in the case of finance alone but all round. Women tends to respect and obey men who are bigger than them. Men are created to be in charge.

Every man should be with a woman, who he can successful excerse his authority Over.

so are you saying average earning unpopular men cannot have a strong character and possess leadership qualities?

if a woman is bigger than a Man she won't respect him? is that now the basis for mutual respect in our society?

So when the chips are down and this bigger man is no longer as big, she'll lose respect for him and dump him cuz he has lost what truly attracted her right? Wow. Tell me something

As if men love women truly for who they are too. Infact, men started the shit. Most Nigerian men asks a lady out or date her for her looks ( facial beauty, breast and ass size, curvy body shape) and generally because of sex and you expect women to love you truly ignoring your pocket size? It's human nature to seek for the best in everything, I'm sure op himself won't intensionally choose an ugly unattractive woman amongst very beautiful sexy clean ladies for dating or marriage so why will you think a young lady will choose a broke or poor man for marriage amongst rich successful men that are asking her out Abi who no want better thing? Lol...the bitter truth is that many people date or get married for selfish reasons.

Descortes:

so are you saying average earning unpopular men cannot have a strong character and possess leadership qualities?

if a woman is bigger than a Man she won't respect him? is that now the basis for mutual respect in our society?

So when the chips are down and this bigger man is no longer as big, she'll lose respect for him and dump him cuz he has lost what truly attracted her right? Wow. Tell me something

Oga, There's how it is. Argument online can not solve it. Just make sure you marry a lady who sees you as her hero in all round and thank me later.
A woman who feels bigger than you, can not totally respect you. Even if she try at the initial stage, it can't last. Except if you her man decided to overlook all her misbehaviour.