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Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Stonerobaba(m): 10:33pm On Dec 22, 2020
What have you done to help him solve the bad dreams problems? I thing he is looking for the solution but in a bmwronf place.
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Impregnablefolk: 10:33pm On Dec 22, 2020
What's ur definition of riches? Is it cars n houses?
Valenciabaddie:


Pls Its clearly stated that I want "Matured" comments .... Not comments from bitter people ... If anyone is a gold digger then the guy is The gold digger because my parents are richer ...
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Bishop(m): 10:33pm On Dec 22, 2020
Valenciabaddie:


Pls Its clearly stated that I want "Matured" comments .... Not comments from bitter people ... If anyone is a gold digger then the guy is The gold digger because my parents are richer ...

It's time to call it quit. You don't need to wait to be pampered first before you know that you are about to get in to bondage.

Run,Run, Run as fast as your leg can.
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by amstamon: 10:34pm On Dec 22, 2020
anochuko01:

Lol
You that went to school but still asking if you should remain with your fetish bf nko? You even claim to be "Pentecostal" but still follow him to his white garment church. Can you see how learned and wise you are?

I repeat without apology, it's greed that's trying to lead you to your early grave. Better tell yourself the truth and move.

Maybe you should table this before your church pastor and parents to hear what they're gonna say
Wise man
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Nobody: 10:35pm On Dec 22, 2020
Mrbenny001:
You claim you attend Pentecostal but already living with someone you didn't get married to yet, nasi them teach you?, You no fear fornication but you fear charm

As in... You hit the nail on the head. You know we are guilty of this as humans. Always disobeying God and then running when things are beyond our control.

I feel she needs to just quit it and go for deliverance. 90% of people are spiritually inclined either for good or bad reasons. One must be careful about sleeping around cos it has strong repercussions.

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Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Bbbwings: 10:35pm On Dec 22, 2020
Kriss216:

Dudu osun is a black soap, I use it also, does it mean I'm into rituals
yes grin
If you use that brown wooden sponge with it
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by humilitypays(m): 10:36pm On Dec 22, 2020
Valenciabaddie:
Hi Guys ..
I need serious matured advice . I have been dating this guy for about a year now ,
When I met him he was jobless but living comfortable due to his parents wealth ,.
I'm 25 and he's 3 years older than me , my problem is that he's too spiritual , he always have bad dreams and because of this he is always going to a celestial church and this makes him bring fetish things home like candles and substances in white container ..

I go to a Pentecostal church but I still continue the relationship and also follow him to his church sometimes.. but lately he brought this black soap home which smells bad and to make matters worse he always wake up at a specific time at night .To have the bath ..

M feeling uncomfortable with him and im beginning to lose interest in him due to these because I don't believe in all this fetish things .What do u guys think ? I'm I overreacting?
Ladies get mind sha, no wonder ritualists and armed robbers, even terrorists still have girlfriends and wives, it is well cry


For your info, celestial is not a Church, its a refined babalawo house, spiritual house where spiritual matters are solved. Same with most white garment churches, they answer church to attract unsuspecting minds to their coven

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Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by yaki84: 10:38pm On Dec 22, 2020
Kriss216:
You can't be uncomfortable with him and still follow him to his Church.

You're not uncomfortable with him. you're just confused..
Money can make a woman to be uncomfortable in love.
Na money dey cause this confusion.
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Nobody: 10:38pm On Dec 22, 2020
Kriss216:

Dudu osun is a black soap, I use it also, does it mean I'm into rituals
shey na celestial you buy your own dudu osun?

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Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by FarahAideed: 10:38pm On Dec 22, 2020
Definitely a SW boy ...stay there till he uses U for something soon
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Neoteny(m): 10:38pm On Dec 22, 2020
You people keep using the word fetish wrong.

Fetish isn't a noun that means a person who's occultic.

An occultist uses fetish, meaning objects they believe to be imbued with occultic powers, to get their heart desires.

So unless your boyfriend is a talisman or totem, or some similar occultic object of fetishism, you're using the word wrong.
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Sagay212: 10:39pm On Dec 22, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:


Does dudu osun smell bad?
Do you routinely wake up at midnight just to bathe with that particular black soap?

If you are ot comfortable, get the puck out and go to your house or are you homeless? He can wake up at any phucking time of the day and bathe with whatever he likes. If he was waking up in the middle of the night to pray and rub olive oil on his head, I'm sure you wouldn't see anything wrong. But because na black soap, e don turn fetish and wahala.

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Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by humilitypays(m): 10:40pm On Dec 22, 2020
Valenciabaddie:


Pls Its clearly stated that I want "Matured" comments .... Not comments from bitter people ... If anyone is a gold digger then the guy is The gold digger because my parents are richer ...
girls from rich family also dig gold..in fact, they have become the highest gold diggers chasing after entertainment stars and yahoo guys, so think again.

You have seen danger yet you are here talking nonsense. You girls really get mind honestly. This is how most of you end up as wife of a ritualist, wife of a kidnapper, wife of an armed robber, wife of a terrorist. Na from clap them De enter dance. E concern mi undecided
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Impregnablefolk: 10:40pm On Dec 22, 2020
Can u give me the WHO definition of madness?If not then, be a spectator n stop spreading stupidity. It's not a must 2 comment.
Fmghewzy:


Madam you are not overreacting ,it is normal to be sceptical.
Moreover it should be expected because it is very rampant in a church like his.
I think you should talk to him about it after all he is your bf.
Or you can carry out your own private investigation lol,it will be sweeter sef,ask elderly people what the ritual could mean.
You can even visit a church like his and ask questions.


Moreover don't mind those stupid comments, many mad people on this forum,only 40%of us are mentally stable.
Sensitive topics like this shouldn't be discussed here.
Were po ni bi.
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Sagay212: 10:41pm On Dec 22, 2020
RealGboy:
True Love endures.. life is a spiritual and very deep... Maybe he's going too far but if u truly love him , sit him down. Talk to him about what he is doing wrong .
Tell him to follow you to your church too and let your pastor pray for him .
. have a mature conversation on the matter with him.. if he loes you he will stop..

What exactly is he doing wrong? Bathing with black soap is something wrong? How does it affect anybody?
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by EBeThings: 10:42pm On Dec 22, 2020
Bola146:
lipsrsealed CCC I don't believe in them, most of their Shepards are asewo and fetish undecided They can use millions to do juju.

For the fact that you don’t believe in them doesn’t mean that you should condemn them. You blame the person not the whole body at large...

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Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by victorazyvictor(m): 10:43pm On Dec 22, 2020
Valenciabaddie:
Hi Guys ..
I need serious matured advice . I have been dating this guy for about a year now ,
When I met him he was jobless but living comfortable due to his parents wealth ,.
I'm 25 and he's 3 years older than me , my problem is that he's too spiritual , he always have bad dreams and because of this he is always going to a celestial church and this makes him bring fetish things home like candles and substances in white container ..

I go to a Pentecostal church but I still continue the relationship and also follow him to his church sometimes.. but lately he brought this black soap home which smells bad and to make matters worse he always wake up at a specific time at night .To have the bath ..

M feeling uncomfortable with him and im beginning to lose interest in him due to these because I don't believe in all this fetish things .What do u guys think ? I'm I overreacting?

Spiritual controls the physical...
He doesn't beat you or chase woman or get drunk or smokes, what is ur prob sis?

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Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by ipobarethieves: 10:43pm On Dec 22, 2020
Fmghewzy:


Madam you are not overreacting ,it is normal to be sceptical.
Moreover it should be expected because it is very rampant in a church like his.
I think you should talk to him about it after all he is your bf.
Or you can carry out your own private investigation lol,it will be sweeter sef,ask elderly people what the ritual could mean.
You can even visit a church like his and ask questions.


Moreover don't mind those stupid comments, many mad people on this forum,only 40%of us are mentally stable.
Sensitive topics like this shouldn't be discussed here.
Were po ni bi.
U are right Nah the werey peepz dey make dis NL sweet.Without the werey peepz,NL go tire u.How do u knw dat it is JuJu dey prepared for him? Ask Ur mum/granny if dem don bath U with Agbo(Herbal mixture).Even the good book says the Lord will light my candle.Dey use palm fronds in d Bible days,(somebody even bath in d River/pool of bethesda,Naaman the commander of Army of Syria bathe 7 times in Jordan,dat one nkoh?)

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Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Reex12(m): 10:44pm On Dec 22, 2020
coughs* lefulefu
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Lenient001: 10:45pm On Dec 22, 2020
In Davido's voice.. Love is sweet When money enter love is sweet
Don't judge the man oo.. Isn't that way he provides for you all your needs. just leave him and everything regarding him.. Lobatan
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by humilitypays(m): 10:48pm On Dec 22, 2020
Any Pastor or acclaimed man of God that asks you to bring soap, or any object for prayer or request for you to bring water from the sea or ocean or to accompany them to waterside or anywhere for special prayer is a babalawo, God Almighty known as Jehovah have no hand in it.


You can talk to God directly from anywhere.


If you need urgent answer from God for any issue you are passing through, all you need to do is to purify your body and mind by abstaining from anything sex, masturbation, porn, kissing, touching, sex chat, etc and focus on God....use 14 days to purify your mind and soul to focus solely on God, and then do some fasting and then tell God your problem after singing some praises.


Do this alone in a quiet secluded area. Try it and see if God won't answer you immediately.


Stop going from Church to Church looking for miracle. God hears you wherever you are. I am a living witness to the wonders of God

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Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by ipobarethieves: 10:49pm On Dec 22, 2020
Valenciabaddie:
Hi Guys ..
I need serious matured advice . I have been dating this guy for about a year now ,
When I met him he was jobless but living comfortable due to his parents wealth ,.
I'm 25 and he's 3 years older than me , my problem is that he's too spiritual , he always have bad dreams and because of this he is always going to a celestial church and this makes him bring fetish things home like candles and substances in white container ..

I go to a Pentecostal church but I still continue the relationship and also follow him to his church sometimes.. but lately he brought this black soap home which smells bad and to make matters worse he always wake up at a specific time at night .To have the bath ..

M feeling uncomfortable with him and im beginning to lose interest in him due to these because I don't believe in all this fetish things .What do u guys think ? I'm I overreacting?
Even Namman the Syrian commander in those days dat bathe 6 times on Jordan River nah evilman,Pipu dat jumped inside pool of Bethesda are Evil ABI? Dnt let anybody deceive u,,this world is dangerous

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Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Eaglesence: 10:49pm On Dec 22, 2020
Kriss216:

Dudu osun is a black soap, I use it also, does it mean I'm into rituals


Dudu ke, correct soap. Na my body Detergent be that na. Who is adding fetish to its name embarassed no let me call thunder for you oo
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Drsnives(m): 10:52pm On Dec 22, 2020
Valenciabaddie:


I'm not but I do spend some weekends

Enough pounding each weekend.. omoh why I no dea get this kind of luck na? Na so so scammers dea look my side

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Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by alizma: 10:53pm On Dec 22, 2020
Valenciabaddie:
Hi Guys ..
I need serious matured advice . I have been dating this guy for about a year now ,
When I met him he was jobless but living comfortable due to his parents wealth ,.
I'm 25 and he's 3 years older than me , my problem is that he's too spiritual , he always have bad dreams and because of this he is always going to a celestial church and this makes him bring fetish things home like candles and substances in white container ..

I go to a Pentecostal church but I still continue the relationship and also follow him to his church sometimes.. but lately he brought this black soap home which smells bad and to make matters worse he always wake up at a specific time at night .To have the bath ..

M feeling uncomfortable with him and im beginning to lose interest in him due to these because I don't believe in all this fetish things .What do u guys think ? I'm I overreacting?
Don't be surprised that those things may not be from church. He may just be using the church as cover but wait o, you guys are not married but you sound like you sleep together every day
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by andyanders: 10:54pm On Dec 22, 2020
anochuko01:
Find a hardworking guy who you can build your life with, na lie. You don see rich in-laws for your mind.

Guy doesn't work but you can stick around because his parents are rich.
Your case be like fowl wey the owner dey give slice bread chop, na inside pot of soup you go end las las
Exactly on point. Same way a guy took his girlfriend to his parents who are white garment church, where they killed the lady, pounded her, and ate part of her for ritual. Op, if you love ur life, walk out of that relationship.

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Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Le2money(m): 10:55pm On Dec 22, 2020
Valenciabaddie:
Hi Guys ..
I need serious matured advice . I have been dating this guy for about a year now ,
When I met him he was jobless but living comfortable due to his parents wealth ,.
I'm 25 and he's 3 years older than me , my problem is that he's too spiritual , he always have bad dreams and because of this he is always going to a celestial church and this makes him bring fetish things home like candles and substances in white container ..

I go to a Pentecostal church but I still continue the relationship and also follow him to his church sometimes.. but lately he brought this black soap home which smells bad and to make matters worse he always wake up at a specific time at night .To have the bath ..

M feeling uncomfortable with him and im beginning to lose interest in him due to these because I don't believe in all this fetish things .What do u guys think ? I'm I overreacting?
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Oluwaleinad14(m): 10:56pm On Dec 22, 2020
You better talk to yourself and run with your legs before he use you for ritual..your man is definitely into something more than you can ever imagine.
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by skillmyman(m): 10:56pm On Dec 22, 2020
envisage urself married to him.
what do you see especially if the olusho ask him to bring you too
and both of you have to wake up at specific time of the night to bath
with the smelly black substance and you need to do fetish stuff even involving your children.

Sister, run for your life. you will be shocked the extent this can get to.
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by AMossley(m): 10:57pm On Dec 22, 2020
if your cohabitation with him all this while isn't wrong in your eyes,if your defiling the bed by sleeping with him all this while isn't wrong in your eyes,then his bathing with black soap in the middle of the night shouldn't be wrong in your eyes either
So keep staying there and keep enjoying all the above
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Liposure: 11:02pm On Dec 22, 2020
Stop coming to his house. You should know better
Re: I Think My Boyfriend Is Fetish by Tajbol4splend(m): 11:03pm On Dec 22, 2020
You are soon going to be his nkan etutu

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