Hello nairalanders, please I need help with the explanation of love and obsession cause I'm damn confused.
There's this girl I've dated twice, I said twice because we've dated and broken up two times. The issue now is I find it very hard to get her off my head as I can't do without the thought of her in a day, even the first time we dated and break up, the same thing happened, I couldn't get her off my head for a year before we later reconnected and started dating again.
As of now we've parted ways again but it's still the same problem with me, and this time I said to myself that I won't go back to her at all cost, but the issue is I still can't stop thinking about her.
Please I want to know if it's love or obsession, as I'm very confused.
Note: I've dated other girls and i wasn't with me like this.

Blue eye bead and kayamata at work on your matter

dawnomike:
Blue eye bead and kayamata at work on your matter

Lol I've never even had sex with her throughout the relationship

Scarcity mentality is your problem. You've put this girl on such a high pedestal that you think no other girl can match. But guess what? This girl you think is so special, isn't special. There are many other girls like her, and lots of other better ones.

Go out and meet other women. Make new female friends. Have sex with new women. After a while you'll have so much abundance of girls that you won't have time to think about lost pussy.

The sad part of this is that the girl in question isn't even thinking about you let alone obsessed with you. She's probably being fuçked by some guy who doesn't even care about her while you are here making posts about her. This life no balance sha.

Jasbi:


Lol I've never even had sex with her throughout the relationship

And you are proud of this? You dated a girl twice and you didn't have sex with her and you are here writing about your love and obsession for her.

You Simps sha.

SimpDetector:
Scarcity mentality is your problem. You've put this girl on such a high pedestal that you think no other girl can match. But guess what? This girl you think is so special, isn't special. There a many other girls like her lots of other better ones

Go out and meet other women. Make new female friends. Have sex with new women. After a while you'll have so much abundance of girls that you won't have time to think about lost pussy.

The sad part of his that the girl in question Isn't even thinking about you let alone obsessed with you. She's probably being bleeped by some guy who doesn't even care about her while you are hear making posts about her. This life no balance sha.

Thanks a lot, I've never had problems meeting other girls really, and I also have a lot of female friends, but dnt just know why I be like that on top her matter

Jasbi:


Lol I've never even had sex with her throughout the relationship

Oh! Good... Then channel the energy into something better

SimpDetector:


And you are proud of this? You dated a girl twice and you didn't have sex with her and you are here writing about your love and obsession for her.

You Simps sha.

Yes, I didn't have sex with her cause I don't believe in pre marital sex, plus this generation of girls dey fear me to bleep

dawnomike:
Oh! Good... Then channel the energy into something better

Alright, will do that. Thanks a lot

Jasbi:

Lol I've never even had sex with her throughout the relationship

bloody simp

SmellySperm:

bloody simp

That's not the issue here baba, either sex or not, I decided not to have sex with her for my own good. E get why, and that doesn't make me a simp

Jasbi:
Hello nairalanders, please I need help with the explanation of love and obsession cause I'm damn confused.
There's this girl I've dated twice, I said twice because we've dated and broken up two times. The issue now is I find it very hard to get her off my head as I can't do without the thought of her in a day, even the first time we dated and break up, the same thing happened, I couldn't get her off my head for a year before we later reconnected and started dating again.
As of now we've parted ways again but it's still the same problem with me, and this time I said to myself that I won't go back to her at all cost, but the issue is I still can't stop thinking about her.
Please I want to know if it's love or obsession, as I'm very confused.
Note: I've dated other girls and i wasn't with me like this.

I will go straight to the point. Its either u r jobless or too poor to think. Just get busy or pursue money. Its the sweetest thing u can pursue. You will love ursef more if u do so. I dont mean to be rude though. Its annoying seeing a Bro acting like SISI. There is more to life (OPOR).

Blue eye bead and kayamata at work on your matter