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Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by JoeEeL(m): 5:38pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
thesicilian: No mind am. She wan dey wine us. A woman will only say and accuse how her husband is a drunk, a cheat bla bla bla... If u research deep down na, u go see say na the woman don dey cheat before the man discover o. 7 Likes |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by powerkey: 5:38pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Jaqenhghar: Nonsense. Go and get the children for her. 3 Likes |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Ghostmode2two(m): 5:38pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
OP you are not telling us the whole truth. For a man to abscond with his kids without informing you tells a lot. I am sure you weren't receiving another man's cassava and when your husband found out he deviced a master plan to leave you without fighting? Women are something else ooo. I dey wait to hear your James Bond husband's side of the story. 5 Likes |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by November24(f): 5:40pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
AltCtrlDel: I'm a woman. Men are not scum. The man is tired. Thank God he didn't kill himself 15 Likes |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by JBL316: 5:40pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
AltCtrlDel: Na the man wey run for im dear life na im no get mental health abi? make @op start the story from the begining! mental health ko...mental health ni! 6 Likes |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Jaqenhghar: 5:41pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
PedroEastman:Your Dad chose a useless woman, chose to live with her even when it was proven that she was useless. Even living with her thereby putting all of you at risk, but somehow its the woman's fault that your dad made those decisions. SMH 3 Likes |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by simbrixton2: 5:41pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
cletz991:i have help for her |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by JoeEeL(m): 5:41pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Harrykn: So so bad that you can't detect her underlying sarcasm.
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Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by JoeEeL(m): 5:42pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Tools4sale: So even you too couldn't smell the sarcasm? Chai, nawa onto una o. NL men should be smarter than this na.
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Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by cletz991(m): 5:43pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Cool simbrixton2: |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Unpatriotic2: 5:43pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
lagusboyyy: It won't work his family members are aware. |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Jaqenhghar: 5:43pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
powerkey:Typical. No sensible response. I said all she needs to do is go there you are saying I should go. You sabi read at all? |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by humilitypays(m): 5:44pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
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Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by We4all: 5:45pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
If you were my sister, I would have taught that man a lesson he will never forget in his miserable life. As far as he didn't assist you to carry your pregnancy, he had no right to behave that way. But the story doesn't add up. Does your husband have ties to the UK? Is he a citizen? How about his job or is he self employed? If he actually absconded with the kids and he isn't a citizen, then match to the UK embassy and lay a formal complaint that they were kidnapped. Trust me, before you blink an eyelid, they will be back in Nigeria. |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by GhostWisperer: 5:46pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
AltCtrlDel:when you get a Nigerian using "ya'll" you're most times looking at fake ass idiot and a human low in wisdom. When a man parks up with his kids, then something is deep, bozo. 2 Likes |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by BREYZ: 5:46pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
TemiBami2020: From your statement alone, you are a bad wife. Look at how you just washed him in public without keeping somethings private just to appear good. This is the problem, why won't he ascond with your children? You should be more focused on getting your family back together instead of making this slanderous statements against a man you call your husband. 4 Likes |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by PedroEastman: 5:46pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Jaqenhghar: You’re stupid, before he married her did they write it on her face that she was bad? 2 Likes |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by gentle007(m): 5:46pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
GboyegaD: Complain ke? Do you have documentation for your marriage? Go back and check. Maybe he left with the papers. Maybe you guys don't have evidence of marriage. And he may have traveled with another woman as the wife. 2 Likes |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Openbusiness: 5:47pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
cococandy:Sherrup!
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Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by tit(f): 5:48pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
You are a very wicked woman. If he is drunkard, adulterous, wife beater, why are you pursuing him?Just tell them to bring your children's for holidays. 6 Likes |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by kelvinos2002(m): 5:49pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
AltCtrlDel: Which category of men are you? Hope you have a woman under your roof? |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by muonemeleviw: 5:49pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Sharp Man, Search urself imagine a woman telling her husband that she will leave with the kids. 2 Likes |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by muonemeleviw: 5:51pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Sharp Man, Search urself imagine a woman telling her husband that she will leave with the kids.[color=#770077][/color] |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by gentle007(m): 5:51pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
GboyegaD: You just told us the man's bad side. Please tell us your own bad side. That way we can pass a balanced judgement. 2 Likes |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Powerfly(f): 5:52pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
WoundedLamb: The way some nairalanders judge things.. Has made me vow NEVER To bring my private life and matters to table before their awesome and ridiculously astonishing seat of judgement. What if the man is secretly trying to get a foreign woman. See them typing stuffs..as if we're not aware of the extent a human can get wicked and decietful. Dear OP.. Take heart.. Talk to God abov it.. And let's know the outcome.. 5 Likes |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Openbusiness: 5:52pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Mynd44:Abduction and trafficking, do you even hear yourself at all? Abduction and trafficking for children that are his biological children, for a man that is the father of the children. No bloody Jupiter can arrest him anywhere, not in the UK, not the UK government, nobody. Unless, maybe you can go and arrest him yourself na, since you are the Bruce Lee of the wife that wants to charge a man according to your own personal laws that a father taking his children away is abduction. Kikikikiki, you funny oh ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Jaqenhghar: 5:53pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
PedroEastman: Did you not say she misused funds and was spending time with other men in a joint? When you father saw all that why didn't he do something? You are calling me names You are really your father's son. |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by LordKO(m): 5:54pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
As much as I don't hold brief for you; yet, don't allow anyone, here or elsewhere, to automatically guilt trip you to accept that you've been a bad wife to him and that a man cannot just wake up one morning and decide to abscond with the offspring of the union without his wife meting out grievous harms against him like in this your case; it does happen. A thing like this or something similar is likely to happen when a self-absorbing or opportunistic spouse who didn't marry primarily because of mental attraction gains and acquires every other thing important to him/her in a union, this is regardless of whether the other spouse is outright evil or not. If you've been a conscientious wife and mother, go to the British High Commission in Nigeria and lay a formal complaint. |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Toks2008(m): 5:54pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
TemiBami2020: Until we hear his side of the story we just might be able to have a clue of the situation but one thing I know is that no sane man will do what he did if he has a loving wife. 5 Likes |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by JourneytoEL(f): 5:54pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
TemiBami2020:forget nairaland. go to twitter, post a video of you crying and show the pictures of your kids. the entire Nigeria will come and fight for you |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Cutehector(m): 5:55pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
Zzor:wow. This is good. I am impressed by the sense you have started getting. Please keep it up. |
Re: Help!!!! My Husband Absconded With Our Children by Nobody: 5:55pm On Dec 26, 2020 |
TemiBami2020: Truth be told, your husband or do I say ex-husband stopped loving and trusting you a long time ago. He has been exhibiting all the symptoms of a struggling and unhappy married man. How was the home? Did you make things difficult for him emotionally or physically? Did you keep any secret from him that has now been revealed to him? He surely was a married lonely man and you were not his friend. He rather found comfort outside his home, whilst taking his frustrations out on you. Did you try to befriend him? How did it go? Those advising you to go to the British Embassy ain't wrong, but it's a longer thing. How is your relationship with his family members? Solid , lukewarm or dead? Whilst I do not want to believe that a member of his family never knew about his plans, I will only advise you to woo any close family member. That's the best way out. Do you want to consider legal options? Legal option will work, surely it will. Commence a case here in the family court and get your lawyer to liaise with another in the UK who knows exactly what to do, and you will have your kids back. The process could be lengthy and expensive, but it is sure to deliver result if you are sure of your facts. I am certain this will grant you full custody of the kids as long as you are a qualified mother and caregiver. I don't expect you to believe he will love you more for being the brain behind his abrupt stay in UK. So you will have to pursue judicial separation or outright divorce. Warning The only down side is this. If he can disappear with the kids, he can also hunt you down, kill you, and make it look like an accident. Best Option Best bet is to use his family to find out why he did what he did, initiate a reconciliation move for whatever you must have done wrong, even if you believe you were right. You can also involve your family. Forget about the kids at this stage. Just focus on winning him back. If you can win him back, you will have your kids back. Shalom. 4 Likes |
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