A lot of people would fantasize about that guy or lady they crush on and what could happen if they were to be in a relationship with them but as it happens these crushes may not feel the same way which shows they can be very dangerous to fall in love with as falling in love with someone who doesn't love you would definitely bring heartbreaks. Veritably, If the crush on someone lasts more than 4 months, it is considered as love.

Bluntly, love hurts and loving the wrong person is just excruciating. It's just like being burned in flames then thrown into to hot pepper. Your emotions will change from sad to sorrowful and on to the next. It will not allow you to sleep. Indeed, falling in love with someone who doesn't love you is just like dying without cure.

I would be emphasizing on this and I would be concise as usual:

As people, we tend to go after things we can't have rather than things we can. This practice is not exactly wrong but it doesn't turn out positive in some cases as life doesn't really give us what we chase after and this triggers heartbreak.

It would be terrible to fall in love with someone who doesn't love you as love is driven by emotions and when you get emotional, your logical reasoning gets thrown out the window. You would start giving more of yourself to someone who doesn't deserve you only to get nothing but pain which may eventually lead to depression. As it happens, due to your ill love, you would find it hard to get over from that relationship of pain. Some of us can relate to this especially the ladies. The major reason we should be wary who we fall in love with. Don't get in a serious relationship with someone who doesn't indicate genuine interest in you even if your mind tells you to go for it. It will end in tears.

I'm going to tell you a secret: You don't have to believe every thought that pops into your head.

The wrong person makes you beg for attention, affection, love and commitment. The right person gives you these things easily because they love you. As a wise and kind person don't play with their emotions rather reciprocate the love and if you can't, then simply cut them off. Don't exploit them as you may feel nothing for them but to them they feel everything and it means a lot more to them. Getting them used up would be disastrous.

Apparently, most of the time, guys make the first move. But, if a girl does it then, believe me, no one can love you more than that girl. Lol. Sometimes give that person who love you a chance, you may be surprised that they were all you ever needed, sincerely speaking.

Lastly, a healthy relationship will never require you to sacrifice your friends, your dreams or your dignity. Be yourself and invest in yourself more and the right people would come around you. Cutting people from your life doesn't mean you hate them, it simply means you respect yourself. Be strong enough to let go of people who are different from you even if you admire them. This is social wisdom. It's painful to say goodbye to someone you don't want to let go, but more painful to ask someone to stay when you know they want to leave.




#If you don't love yourself, you would always be chasing people who don't love you either




Courtesy: MIKE'S ROMANCE TRUTHS by CuteMike01





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mike aswear orí é kuu gan
i don't read the epistles but that your topic is really disgusting

nonsense

Bro's love only exist in utopia

Wahala for who never loved his/herself.

SILENTandSMART2:
mike aswear orí é kuu gan

i don't read the epistles but that your topic is really disgusting


nonsense

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Molahnelson:
Bro's love only exist in utopia

Love exist everywhere we are

CuteMike01:
You're worthless just like your comment

oyaaa Mike mumu on the beat

wetin i do you to say dat I'm worthless ?

whala dey nairaland oo

all is well sir

SILENTandSMART2:
oyaaa eleribuu Mike dey vex grin mumu boy,cheesy tongue , wetin i do you werey ? i offended you before undecided

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SILENTandSMART2:



oyaaa Mike mumu on the beat


wetin i do you to say dat I'm worthless ?


whala dey nairaland oo


all is well sir

Oh, sorry Sir Just found out the meaning of Ori e ku gaan. I thought you implied my head was dead. A thousand apologies. No vex o. I bi Edo boy. Please accept this plate as my show of apology. Please no vex o. SILENTandSMART2

CuteMike01:

Oh, sorry Sir Just found out the meaning of Ori e ku gaan. I thought you implied my head was dead. A thousand apologies. No vex o. I bi Edo boy. Please accept this plate as my show of apology

though i don't eat those type of food


"ori e kuu gan" is not a curse or me tryin'yo abuse you


all is well sir

SILENTandSMART2:


though i don't eat those type of food


"ori e kuu gan" is not a curse or me tryin'yo abuse you


all is well sir

I'm sorry Sir. Thanks for understanding





#Peace

Wahala for men that are still searching for love. Love me ke? Nowadays when I hear that word from any lady, I just run for my dear life.

PUNAengineOIL:
Wahala for men that are still searching for love. Love me ke? Nowadays when I hear that word from any lady, I just run for my dear life.

<smiles> You aren't afraid of love... You're just afraid falling in love with the wrong person