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Help! I Don't Feel Sexually Attracted To My Fiancée / I Have A Boyfriend But I'm Sexually Attracted To Someone Else. / I Am no longer sexually Attracted To My Girlfriend (2) (3) (4)
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Re: . by Rayfield: 1:41am On Dec 28, 2020 |
MEGA4BILLION:Thank you. |
Re: . by Gokoyer0(m): 2:00am On Dec 28, 2020 |
What did you mean by you just decided to marry her? Don't you love her at all in the first place? Your libido may be very low right now. Another question is that, are you into pornography at all? drexx: |
Re: . by rtdCivilservant: 2:27am On Dec 28, 2020 |
ukaface:U don spoil finish, see wetin de comot for ur mouth. |
Re: . by WallStreetfx(m): 2:55am On Dec 28, 2020 |
Zzor: I swear you no lie, very stupid man, na his wife I pity. This sex of a thing have turn some people to full time mumu. 2 Likes |
Re: . by drexx(m): 4:09am On Dec 28, 2020 |
Gokoyer0:Sir please my libido is not low as I can have sex with other ladies especially this my preferred body type. I am not into porn Sir. Tried relating this truth to my wife yesterday. I really want to separate. If it's too hard, we might just stay married but stay differently so I can move on with my life |
Re: . by ruggedtimi(m): 5:29am On Dec 28, 2020 |
drexx:this when you marry out of pity and you probably didn't have frequent sex with your wife before marriage. Sex is a very important tool in marriage |
Re: . by mattmogan88: 6:41am On Dec 28, 2020 |
[s] drexx:[/s] Shame on you. No Dy disgrace men,! 1 Like
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Re: . by Nobody: 6:50am On Dec 28, 2020 |
hashtagged:SECOND WIFE can solve all these. AFRICANS need to wake up. When we married in POLYGAMOUS SETTINGS, DIVORCE wasn't there. Since we started this MONOGAMOUS pattern, every where na Divorce. I hate DIVORCE. Talk to her and bring in another Lady. MARRIAGE goes on. |
Re: . by Nobody: 6:52am On Dec 28, 2020 |
scottyoloye:THUNDER doesn't need to Fire him. GOD doesn't operate that way. That his Wife also needs a happier husband too. He aired his opinion openly. Many are suffering. ADVICE him and withdraw the Thunder. It's natural. All WOMEN and MEN are not the same. I can't stay with someone that has body odour. Some can manage dat situation throughout dia lifetime. So everything differs. |
Re: . by braimeddy: 7:31am On Dec 28, 2020 |
I believe apart from sex there's something you love about her. Why not sit her down and talk to her so that she can work on herself. Divorce is not an option and please for now stop looking outside. drexx: |
Re: . by femi4: 7:39am On Dec 28, 2020 |
drexx:Don't worry, you ll still find out that so many things are wrong with you before jumping into marriage 1 Like |
Re: . by Nobody: 7:40am On Dec 28, 2020 |
drexx: This issue doesn't need NL palava. Marriage is a contract, not a lifetime sentence. If it's not working for you, divorce amicably (especially for the sake of the child) and marry your spec. Open your eye well this time. Make sure you adequately fulfill your responsibilities to your child. Good luck. |
Re: . by Gentle0wavez: 7:51am On Dec 28, 2020 |
Oga marriage is for better for worse, for richer or poor, in sickness and in health until death. Get that first in to your mind then Pray to God to for strength and love, yes he supplies such spirits too, It's not only Money you should pray for. I BELIEVE IN THE WORD OF GOD |
Re: . by Saintmary(f): 9:37am On Dec 28, 2020 |
generationz: Obviously, he's not in his right senses. |
Re: . by FX(m): 10:07am On Dec 28, 2020 |
drexx:Jesus! |
Re: . by lereinter(m): 11:07am On Dec 28, 2020 |
Try discipline yourself It's hard but you should cultivate it Because you will always see hot ladies than your wife even if you divorce the one you married |
Re: . by DukeJoe17: 11:52am On Dec 28, 2020 |
[quote author=drexx post=974 The issues is that I never discovered my sexuality. We dated for about 9 months and she got pregnant. I just decided to marry her. As time went on, I discovered that my fetish is on slightly tall ladies with considerable thickness. . My wife is petite. We no longer have sex as I find it very hard to muster an erection with her. But I effortlessly get erection with other women. Short and simple she is not my spec. I know I should have fixed this before marriage. Trust me I just thought every woman is a woman. It's about now I just discovered the physical features that rock me. I want a separation.[quote] there is no type of woman that will satisfy a kind of man like you forever, marriage is not for you, stop deceiving yourself. Community przzk 1 Like |
Re: . by Womanizer(m): 12:02pm On Dec 28, 2020 |
MISSCONGENIALITY: I can now see why you're so peeved with OP You are a petit and portable lady therefore you see this as a personal attack |
Re: . by Womanizer(m): 12:05pm On Dec 28, 2020 |
Gentle0wavez: You lie, that till death do us part rubbish no longer applies! Marriage is simply a contract which can be terminated by either of the parties involved |
Re: . by bukatyne(f): 12:12pm On Dec 28, 2020 |
Vanzcharles: Hahahahahaha! |
Re: . by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 12:50pm On Dec 28, 2020 |
Womanizer:I'm all you have said. But I'm a very cute and irresistible babe. No man will resist my charm except I don't use it. We don't need to even have sex before you become obsessed with me. Meeting. Talking to me alone will make you leave your wife. Don't think every smallie is unattractive. Some of them will make you throw your wife out |
Re: . by Nobody: 1:01pm On Dec 28, 2020 |
So how did you achieve the erection that got her pregnant? Na long throat dey worry you. Go and be managing her like that. Greedy men everywhere. Never satisfied until they meet their Waterloo. |
Re: . by Gentle0wavez: 1:18pm On Dec 28, 2020 |
Womanizer: What do you mean by no longer applies, look marriage never changed, if it was so before it is still so now and Marriage is a Covenant by Godly standard not just an ordinary contract. I BELIEVE IN THE WORD OF GOD. |
Re: . by GodWrites: 1:28pm On Dec 28, 2020 |
SimpDetector: Who are you? If not for one thing, I would have sworn I wrote this. It sounds exactly like what I'll write. Merry Christmas! |
Re: . by millionboi2: 1:33pm On Dec 28, 2020 |
ojun50:Blessing time |
Re: . by JustCruise(m): 1:33pm On Dec 28, 2020 |
So you never knew your sexually preference at 29?? That's weird. I think it's a lame excuse. |
Re: . by Gokoyer0(m): 2:39pm On Dec 28, 2020 |
I married a woman with a big boobs and moderate yansh with not-too-slim-stature. That's what I always wanted. I don't think I can get arouse with a tiny boobs girls btw. My marriage is going to be 7yrs in April. I used to tell my wife what I want and I make her to be free to express herself. We are enjoying our marriage after 2 kids. The point is that you will always find women who seems to be more attractive than your wife. The key is to spark up things with your wife and ensure that she is free to express herself as well. I can't tell you to continue a sexless marriage. She deserves to be happy as well. But with what you wrote here, it seems you mistakingly married a wrong woman or you married out of pity. if you still go ahead to divorce her, pls take your time to know what you want and don't marry out pitiness. But if you your second trials(like dating or fwb) fails, just look for sexual partner(s) so as to avoid this kind of story in the future drexx: |
Re: . by Kaydans(m): 3:16pm On Dec 28, 2020 |
drexx: U dey mad. What will now happen to the baby you brought to this world? S |
Re: . by Skmoda360(m): 3:28pm On Dec 28, 2020 |
Zzor:It will be finished for you...omoale |
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