Pls my greatest problem am having is my spouse we are of difrent religion and language. My family rejected the lady for these reason. What do i do?
for me i love her.

Are you willing to lose her family for her is the question? Because it's possible that you have to give up one to keep the other.

you have to decide who matters most and which choice you can live with (the woman or your family?)
weight it carefully, in my experience family don't count for shit when it comes to your personal happiness so ''fuk um'' is what i say ''live your life'' both make sure the life you choose is one that won't eat away at you.

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You are already married so let your folks butt out! You need to have more control over your families by maintaining a healthy balance between both! The ball is in your court. No one will mess with your wife and kids if you do not open that window or door for them to do so. On the other hand your wife will respect your family if you respect your family in front of her! Hope this is not one of the cooked up excuses to make you get another wife like in Nigerian HOMVIES?

Family problems we cant be without them, go for the woman that makes you happy.

well, you better take ur stand now. and let ur familly now that u re both love each other. language or religion is not a perecusite for marriage. so my friend your love 4 her is very important to live ur life.

i dont  think language, culture or anything should be a problem in marriage.
If u love why, not . Except God is not on ur side, but i know God is on everybodies side, so far u are not evil.

I wonder if the family would reject her if she was a pretty daughter of one of these thieving governors and she alone controls billions of stolen dollars in her personal accounts. Human beings are so predictable and it's tiring.

Harakiri, ever so blunt. If that were the case, I'm sure they will manage.