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Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by marsup: 10:19pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
TransAtlanticEx:finish her.......fatality. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by BRATISLAVA: 10:20pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
izzou: He's her fiance. Why don't you read the topic and her post objectively? I think you're typing too much and saying less. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by NeoWanZaeed(m): 10:21pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
oluwaseyi0:She talk say na 1st visit. .if its n0t 1st visit. The guy should run for his life |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by nonut: 10:22pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
TransAtlanticEx:Bottom feeder? Bad mouth kee you there
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Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by izzou(m): 10:22pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
BRATISLAVA: A fiance with no introduction or traditional marriage is still a boyfriend, according to my Igbo tradition Fiance that is coming to see the mum for the second time? You should be the one reading objectively, sir 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by oluwaseyi0: 10:22pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
NeoWanZaeed:She later clarified it's not the first visit, he visited with gifts previously |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Xmen149(m): 10:23pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Remson23: this is the same thing I was trying to say since. A true igbo parent eh sofar they have not given you list and you finish traditional marriage requirements. they will never collect pin from you bcs they will be feeling they are pimping their child. they will even be advising their daughter not to collect anything from you so that even if she change her mind tomorrow she can go freely. someone and her mother is out there collecting gift from her boyfriend and complaining he is no longer bringing it again they are telling me it's igbo culture. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by NeoWanZaeed(m): 10:23pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
oluwaseyi0:Help me invoke the gods for the gal and her m0ther abeg |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by osazsky(m): 10:24pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
NeoWanZaeed:una nor go read post...d guy has been visiting before only one day he couldnt get s gift anf d leach couldnt cover up for his shortcoming this is a disgrace to womanhood.. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by MrNipplesLover(m): 10:25pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
First and second pages are very interesting. What a shame.... Let's move, anyway. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by nonut: 10:25pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey:Sense is very far from you. Save money and buy sense, that's the only you need. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by oluwaseyi0: 10:25pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
BRATISLAVA:What about the gift that the young man gave the woman on his previous visit? It has expired and no longer count? 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Ekugbeh(m): 10:25pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey:really, babe u no try. Jus talk with ur man, ok. Sort things out with him |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by shantti(m): 10:25pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Mariangeles: Abeg when you become so acclimatized with your fiances family to the extent you visit them weekly, will u be buying them gifts per visit, pls answer me |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by BRATISLAVA: 10:26pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
izzou: Read objectively. Contextually. You were claiming he is not the fiance, hence your much typing. She said he is. You aren't either of them to claim otherwise. Now, tell us more about your ideas of what fiance's can and must never do. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by MINORU: 10:26pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey: Some times I wonder how people like you reason Do you reason with you head or you anus? 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by DrMeroThaEmperor(m): 10:26pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Trayceey:The more you type, the more you get us angry. If I were you, I will beg the mods to help delete this entire thread. You didn't handle the situation well. I'm sure your mum was only joking and you missed the humour. I'm sure she'll be disappointed that you even confronted him the way you did. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by OLABOY8495(m): 10:27pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
The Girl Is Right, When You Pay Someone A Visit You Dont Go Empty Handed The Person No Be Ordinary Person Na Mother In Law For That Matter He Day Mad Gan, How Will he Feels If Him Daughter Fiance Com Greet Him Empty Handed That Is Lack Of Respect, He Is Irresponsible Also Not A Serious Person. Guys Go Meet Your Parent Ask Them If It Is Good To Go Empty Handed To Person In Laws House, That Is Supidity For The Guy. |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by BRATISLAVA: 10:28pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
oluwaseyi0: People should never repeat giving you a gift, or what are you trying to say? |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by shantti(m): 10:28pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Biglittlelois: Aunty, d tin shock me pass sef, visitation is now a ponzi scheme, invest 1 loaf of bread and get a plate of rice under 45 minuites, no referal is needed 6 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by oluwaseyi0: 10:28pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
MummyD2020: He already brought gift on his previous visit |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by izzou(m): 10:29pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
BRATISLAVA: I asked you a question the first time...You intelligently dodged it Does the in-law in your family (nuclear or extended) bring a gift every single time he/she visits? When you have an answer, I'll tell you what it takes to be recognised as a fiance in Igbo tradition 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by MINORU: 10:29pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Mariangeles: When they will give him list ,will the mother help him pay for some items in the list Guy reason with your head not your dick 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Liposure: 10:30pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Mariangeles:i understand courtesy demands he brought gifts along however some manners are excusable. Perhaps he's not that acquainted with tradition |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by orgylover: 10:30pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
DEBJOCH1:i go first visit you like i visit my fiancee na |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by osazsky(m): 10:30pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Xmen149:it has to be igbo..cuz of the way they are so concerned abt material things..my friend who got married to an igbo girl on his wedding list his wife dad added roofing sheets i was shocked.since that day anytime i see amaka i quickly take another route though i was the one who registered her in a tailoring shop.had to run for my life..i was young then sha |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by MINORU: 10:30pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
Chujor1634: Guy you be man |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Sweet2date: 10:31pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
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Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by oluwaseyi0: 10:33pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
BRATISLAVA: And gift renewal must be done on every single damn visit, he visited previously with gift without been cajoled to do so who told you he won't visit next time with gift again? He has done it before and can do it again but singling out occasion he didn't come with gifts is the highest level of low for a so called intending mother in-law, this mother is what Yoruba call alatenuje ole ofon This type will probably be asking the daughter on the steady how much the husband is giving her to cook and if she feel it's not enough there will be trouble 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by ThiagoKid(m): 10:33pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
colestephan86:ode, no be first time jor |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Xmen149(m): 10:34pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
izzou: A real igbo mother will feel like she is pimping her daughter out by collecting anything from him. My mum then collected all the gift my sister received from the guy that wanted to marry her and kept in her room. instructed the guy not to bring her self anything. told my sister to take time study the guy and if she change her mind so they can easily return his gifts that the man may not hold anything against her. boyfriend is boyfriend,if you like baptize it fiance. If he hasn't paid bride price he is not in-law he is boyfriend. 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Visited My Mother Empty-Handed & Now Our Relationship Is Threatened by Cutehector(m): 10:34pm On Jan 08, 2021 |
28 pages of hilarious comments.. Wahala for who date broke family |
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