Col 2:8 kjv - Beware lest any man spoil you through philosophy and vain deceit, after the tradition of men, after the rudiments of the world, and not after Christ.

Rudiments of the world
1. We have always done it that way.
2. Everyone else is doing it.
3. It depends on how you look at it.
4. A little doesn’t hurt.
5. We know when to stop.
6. You got to get married.
7. You have to make a living. (This is where the majority of yahoo boys, drug dealers and prostitutes fall into. Covetousness is idolatry).

Now let me show you something better.
Rudiments of a Christian
Before a Christian engage in anything, ask yourself these questions:
1. Is it right?
2. Will it edify?
3. Can I ask God to bless it?
4. Will it glorify God?
5. Would the Lord like to find me doing it when He returns?

excuse god gives not to answer prayers: God's time is the best