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Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Mindlog: 7:10am On Jan 18, 2021 |
shantti: Mental disorder is not "madness" are we grew up to perceive. Let me give you some examples, people like Ted Turner, founder of CNN, Mariah Carey, Van Damme etc are living with bipolar disorder, will you call them "mad people". Nymphomaniacs have this compulsive and insatiable sexual desire, do not have issues with sleeping with several people to meet that urge. Their minds are continually obsessed with sex, which tends to adversely affect their daily functioning.
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Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Nobody: 7:12am On Jan 18, 2021 |
CalliDora1: Super woman for wetin, to cook, clean house, wash clothes and others? That's not enough reason to deny sex, there are other biological or psychologically reasons at play. Shey na all dey she do chores, and moreover some ladies are lazy fa |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by shugabasbn: 7:15am On Jan 18, 2021 |
Women enjoy sex when they are less stressed out. After having children the stress of taking care of children , husband, family, and work is a serious burden on them n unfortunately they have to keep these in balance. Omo ko easy. So men we have a role to play as well. Assist her, cherish her n relieve her of burden n remodel her u will have what u want 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by firstratedcitiz(m): 7:17am On Jan 18, 2021 |
Who said? So all those wives committing adultery are not in a marriage? bizme: |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by 2packer(m): 7:18am On Jan 18, 2021 |
mariahAngel: Not just early grave for the man but also the competition between different wives and their kids can ruin a beautiful family. except the man is an exceptional leveler and this is very rare and probably 1 out of every 100 polygamous home 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by ospreywin(m): 7:19am On Jan 18, 2021 |
Honestly, this thread is interesting and very educative for we the about to marry. I learnt situations won't be the same after marriage and they're never going to be back like it was during the dating period. Know your partner well before committing yourself to a marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by DrDax: 7:21am On Jan 18, 2021 |
Kuns84: Not every man has the comfort of billions. Extraneous variables, as I said. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Ustec: 7:21am On Jan 18, 2021 |
zainabicy:So your own problem is orgasm, Cum down here,I give and give and give But...! |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Kuns84(m): 7:23am On Jan 18, 2021 |
DrDax: touché |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by fantastic1: 7:25am On Jan 18, 2021 |
A problem was stated, he provided the most brilliant answer for that particular problem. He never said this will make all other problems go away. He is not forcing this on anyone too. bizme: 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by stanliwise(m): 7:34am On Jan 18, 2021 |
sureboykris:Don’t play the society game, try it. No one would hold you, they would complain yet no legal action can prevent you. At the end of the day, you will realize that when your days of sex drive are over, fighting hard to secure the future of your children with different mothers will be the order of the day. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Komu1048(m): 7:39am On Jan 18, 2021 |
Splitmind: Says who, even here in Lagos, Nigeria. Many are paying to get their apartment cleaned while they go to their work place. Besides I'm not talking about only house cleaning, I'm talking about how women of those days works their ass out to support the family. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Cousin9999: 7:40am On Jan 18, 2021 |
Kuns84: lol And you'd be wrong. |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Trustedpro: 7:41am On Jan 18, 2021 |
It is normal when you start occupying your mind with the weaknesses of your spouse or you think more of your expectations that are not met. At times satisfactions or thinking about their ex |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by ijayebonyi(f): 7:42am On Jan 18, 2021 |
Will answer your question when I finally get married 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by luminouz(m): 7:44am On Jan 18, 2021 |
Hotbutt: Lol...All you stated are mostly applicable to women. They grow fat and flabby, quicker than their men. This is why many men have concubines outside. Zero urge for their wives. If you have those still interested in drilling their wives after 5 years, those wives should give testimonies |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by luminouz(m): 7:46am On Jan 18, 2021 |
zainabicy:What's this one saying? |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by eastOFwest(m): 7:52am On Jan 18, 2021 |
bizme: There are many things that will make a woman lose interest in sex after marriage - 1) More responsibilities and things to worry about like taking care of children, cooking, cleaning, taking of her husband, her job etc. By the time she gets to bed, she's so tired that all she needs is someone to rub her back and bum so that she can fall asleep. 2) Relationship issues like petty quarrels with her husband, pointless little arguments that wear people out, back biting etc. The trigger for these arguments or quarrels could be infidelity, money etc. 3) Husband growing bigger and slower in bed that makes sex boring, and not something to look forward to but an obligation. 4) She has body image issues and feels that she is no longer sexy again because she has grown larger and slower. Her husband probably has made some unpleasant comments regarding this either during quarrel or jokingly 5) No romantic effort from the husband to put her in the mood. Saying "oya now" to her in bed with erect d1ck is not romantic. 6) Over familiarity with her husband. Almost "brother and sister" type closeness in a marriage that relegates sex to last on the list. 7) She is probably getting it somewhere else? It's amazing how most people think this is the issue but it's only a small percentage of women who actually resort to this. Most women will just lose interest in sex and carry on as if it doesn't really matter. However this could be dangerous and could lead to situations where a man who has access to her, and who is able to decode that she's sex starved, can take advantage of her by making a "bold move". This is where you hear "one thing led to another" and next thing them dey knack person wife inside toilet, for office, inside car, backyard, inside boys quarters with house boy or gate man etc. She just wanted to get married so she was giving sex on demand, and even pretending that she was enjoying it but now that she has married and aim achieved, no need to pretend. All in all, remember that, as a young single girl, most women only had to worry about themselves and had all the time in the world to look and feel sexy. Most of them did not live with their fiancé so had space to actually long for them. Also while dating/wooing, the man went out his way to make her feel good (romantic gestures, gifts, clubbing, restaurants, weekend get away etc) but now that they are married those things are not happening again for various reasons. Also for the person who said he wants to marry a nympho, be careful what you wish for. Remember that as a young single man you have the ability to fvck all day long. But after marriage things will change, you'll grow older (and probably slower) and your wife (after kids and probably getting bigger, and not really having the time to look sexy) might not have the same effect on you as she had before even though you still love her. So who will be satisfying her extra large sexual appetite and strong sexual urges/cravings? 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by omoharry(f): 7:54am On Jan 18, 2021 |
dataslid:if the woman is a house wife, then no wahala but if she also goes to work to provide for the home too then you are very very unreasonable and you deserve to be alone and hire a house help who you can screw and order around .Ok? 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by muyico(m): 7:57am On Jan 18, 2021 |
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Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Nobody: 7:57am On Jan 18, 2021 |
bizme: Ned Nwoko debunks your theory as myth Polygamy is very good and ok for a strong independent free willed man which we should all aspire to be Do you know that feminization and gynocentrism of the Western world to advocate for female supremacy and matriachy first abolished polygamy Why? Female wanted power over men ,and in polygamy that desire is nullified by vying competition among women Next after abolishing polygamy they introduced alimony in divorce After alimony they introduced biased femcentric family court legal system laws that only favours women in divorce with regards to custody of children My brother Better wake up 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Nobody: 7:59am On Jan 18, 2021 |
omoharry: Why can't she do both I thought women are good at multitasking 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Nobody: 8:02am On Jan 18, 2021 |
eastOFwest: The only reason is if she is weaponizing the sex to profit at the expense of the husband Or She's fasting Or She's medical unfit |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Nobody: 8:04am On Jan 18, 2021 |
luminouz: Oil dey your head |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by luminouz(m): 8:04am On Jan 18, 2021 |
eastOFwest: Your no.7 point just destroyed all the others. If she is so uninterested in sex in the first 6 points, how in hell did she get so sex starved that a stranger would now take advantage? Or sex starvation means something else? What you don't know is this, the women who truly experience what you say are very few in numbers and have stayed longer in marriage,say for 15-30 years. How do you explain a marriage of 2 years having such issues if the wife is not cheating? So your number 7 is the anchor and disruptor of your whole write-up. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by luminouz(m): 8:05am On Jan 18, 2021 |
Dapcity247: You dey mind the hairy human? |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Nobody: 8:06am On Jan 18, 2021 |
luminouz: Chop knuckle 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by demmymoney(m): 8:06am On Jan 18, 2021 |
Women weaponize sex in marriage Marriage is the only institution where u get less regular and quality sex especially wen the kids start popping up The best solution is to either have concubines or polygamy, naturally men are polygamous so this won't b a problem No woman can weaponize sex for me!!!! If u understand ursef as a man and u understand women's sexual makeup, no woman will weaponize sex for u Women dont marry men that they are sexually attracted too but marry men who are financially stable and ready for marriage APLHA bleeps BETA BUCKS 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by Nobody: 8:08am On Jan 18, 2021 |
Hassanmaye:that's a very shallow way of thinking. That men don't menstruate is an evidence for loving sex more? 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by demmymoney(m): 8:10am On Jan 18, 2021 |
omoharry: So it's only housewives that are capable of giving their husbands regular and quality sex ahbi SMH! Thought women were good at multitasking Una wan do career sluts for ur boss at work but una no wan Bleep ur husband steady and regularly ontop say u dey work, una dey craze! |
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