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Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Excel99: 6:05pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
My two Kobo advise is that, you can't change anyone. Only God has the prerogative to change people. If you go on to marry her, be prepared for consistent heart break. Even if she leaves that guy, there will be another. I like to ask though, have you made her to reach orgasm. Are you a selfish lover in the bed. This could be key 1 Like |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Hassanmaye(m): 6:06pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
lordswill03:Abeg tell me your experience |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Hassanmaye(m): 6:18pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
Komu1048: |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Hassanmaye(m): 6:19pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
silento:Will you bang |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Hassanmaye(m): 6:21pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
Bolaji26:Abeg what do you by archieve |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by DrayZee: 6:26pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
Siberry:Your case is very very different. The OP knows there’s an actual person who carries her attention. She always calls him but never texts. You think that isn’t worthy of suspicion? All of that aside, she’s a 22 year old Nigerian girl. It wouldn’t be a surprise if his suspicions are actually happening. |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Hassanmaye(m): 6:26pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
Focusmind:No na leave the Mumu abeg 2 Likes |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Bolaji26(m): 6:35pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
Hassanmaye: Achirve can be use to save important msgs /page. It is also a collection of data moved to a repository for backup, to keep separate for compliance reasons 1 Like |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Yadid(m): 6:54pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
Serene123: This is it. Gather yourself together. Relationship/marriage is not do or die. By saying you should be disinterested, I mean stop seeing the continuity of the relationship as if she's doing you the biggest favour in life. On the other hand, don't also see the ending of the relationship as the biggest loss in life. Have this attitude of whether it works hereafter or not, it is all in your favour. Show her this attitude and she will surely be rattled to be upfront with you. More so, being disinterested is essential for your well-being. Just be like a judge or an outsider trying to figure out what is going on really. |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Bahddo(m): 7:00pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
Serene123:you are both cheating on each other. You can still walk away. Marriage isn't special. |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by silento(m): 7:00pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
Hassanmaye: Nope 1 Like |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by dragunov: 7:04pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
Serene123: You know what? She may probably never get back with you. The reason why she is stalling and asking for time off is to see if she can solidify her business with the other dude. She wants to scrutinize the guy very well before she makes the decision of either coming back or dumping you. At this level, you cannot afford to let your emotions take the best turn on you. Be calm and level headed. Take her off your mind but don't give hopes to the other girl trying to fall in. When you're sure you can handle not missing her again you can start getting along with the other nice girl if she is still available. Women are so crafty and that is why you need to be emotionally brutal at times. 1 Like |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Hassanmaye(m): 7:10pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
TruthSpeaker:Hahahahahaha my guy, my pelvic one break 1 Like |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Dieuetla: 7:10pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
Serene123: |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Dieuetla: 7:23pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
The lady knows what you are capable of, so you can never see any evidence. So far they are seeing each other every time they don't need much online. You can ask her what you are not doing well sexually, this is the most cause of her attitude quote author=Serene123 post=98090276] Confuse Haven't seen tangible evidence against her and the guy despite hacking her phone and reading all her chats for months. Just the call that put me off. And the call have continued for months I am torn between believing her or just calling it off. [/quote] |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Focusmind: 7:28pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
Hassanmaye: He needs to be rescued now that it is still early. He is on a path of self-destruction. Young men these days should put on their thinking cap. 2 Likes |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by WackyJ1(m): 7:30pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
Serene123: The first four comments on your post told you what you needed to know. But you're hell bent of screwing yourself. All the evidence is there. But your attachment to her is making you discard all the evidence that she is cheating on you for the one thing you can hold on to to tell yourself she is not. You are not experienced. That is why you are like this. Those of us who have been cheated on and believed several times until evidence came to wake us up by force, We have already seen the signs. 1. She has someone she always calls 2. She didn't pick your calls and lied to you about the reason why 3. You found out, she didn't confess. b. You found out from a picture of the two of them. A picture she was supposed to delete. 4. She fought you for your phone and then turned around to gaslight you by calling you a woman beater. 5. She wasn't remorseful and instead told you she needed space for her mental health. She wasn't even trying to reconcile. She is somewhere collecting mental health prick. I have listed 5 things that show she is cheating on you. You have only one thing to hold on to as the reason for your hope. I would have ended things at reason number 2. If you believe she is not cheating and there were no chats with the guy, why are you here? You want someone to cuddle you with false truths. You should have met your female friends for that. But guess what. Even your females friends will tell you she is cheating on you. Let me tell you one more eventuality. She will be back. She will apologise. She will beg. She will soothe your ego and you will take her back. You will be happy. You will think you have won. Just save money for your DNA test along with the money you will be spending on the wedding. And if the gods are kind to you, you will see proof that she was cheating while claiming to be restoring her mental Health. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Hassanmaye(m): 7:31pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
Mcslize:You are a smart man, have you swallowed the Redpill? You understand the game so well, leave him he will learn |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Hassanmaye(m): 7:40pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
360command:Abeg tell me your experience let me learn 1 Like |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Mcslize: 7:54pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
Hassanmaye: Exactly. Humans like learning through the hard way. Quite a number of men notice some of these red flags often times in their partners during dating but overlook them and they later turn out to be unbearable to them after marrying such ladies. At the end, they end up with divorce cuz the man will have no peace of mind knowing your wife is cheating on you but still unable to accept that simple fact. No matter how one tries to defend such a woman, the man will just be deceiving himself. Of course, when they meet people outside as couple, they will smile but the man himself knows all is not well in their relationship/marriage. The right time to correct any infidelity in one's partner is during courtship. If he fails to sit the lady down and give her his terms and conditions regarding that aspect, forget it, such a man has missed it completely. A woman that cannot respect your terms and conditions regarding infidelity or keeping a male friend as bestie is not ready for marriage. I don't believe on the "he is just a friend. A lady's best friend should be his partner. Any lady keeping another male friend as bestie is a big joker, let alone consistently chatting and maintaining calls with one particular guy all the time. That's an obvious red flag a wise guy should not overlook especially when marriage is coming into the picture. Proceeding with such a lady for marriage will be a waste of time and resources. 5 Likes |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Mcslize: 7:58pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
Ninisun: He didn't beat her. They were dragging the phone and her over cherished long nails got broken. |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Hassanmaye(m): 8:09pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
Millenniumlady:What will you have done baby? The easiest way now ladies hook a man down is by using kayanmata, he will not go anywhere he will not even think about it |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Mummymahdi(f): 8:12pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
Nawao, such comments are really portraying womanhood in bad or worse light, have things really gone bad do much? Up to this level? May God have mercy, is as if every man in that slide if the v ountry is getting married to a prostitute that he slept with so many times and praying she will b loyal after marriage. Ladies in serious rship should avoid keeping male friends likewise Men should distance themselves fr on keeping fee male friends, always respects terms and c onditions of each oda and be sure to make some sacrifices for the love, and respects. 1 Like |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Hassanmaye(m): 8:13pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
Kaeboy:How your first statement |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Hassanmaye(m): 8:14pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
slumcat:Hauahhahaha I swear when I read this comment I run out |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Hassanmaye(m): 8:40pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
slumcat:Hahahhahha wickedness |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Aderr: 8:49pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
Serene123:That guy already fvcked her. 1 Like |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Kaiser94(m): 8:50pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
She’s cheating on you... Trust me |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by ngwababe(f): 9:37pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
Serene123: But just two weeks, you're already seeing another lady. Na only una wan dey undesirable life pass us 1 Like |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by hollarunji08(m): 9:51pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
I do say it, this life is beautiful OP, don't break, as in don't shake, ur so call girlfriend is cheating on u because if she doesn't has any suspicious things on her phone, I don't see any reason for her to be dragging the phone with you... If ur girlfriend is the type that doesn't pick some particular call when she's with u claiming the person calling is a mad man all or sorts, truth must be said, that's exactly she used to tell other guys when u are calling also.... Wise up 2 Likes |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Aderr: 9:52pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
WackyJ1:You are really experienced! She will come back because the new guy after using her well will dump her and this guy would take her back. Then when she knows she has him under her thumb like a button, she will start comparing him unfavorably to the other guy because she knows he is weak. She will torment him for as long as they lived together and never respect him. |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Nobody: 9:55pm On Jan 16, 2021 |
Hassanmaye:there is app that you can use to run duplicate of apps on your phone. 1 Like |
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