Chii59:
She's cheating on you. Divorce her. How dare she say that? You're a bloody simp.
Take the redpill.

hmmm. This reeks of sarcasm. I know you dont mean it

@OP, kindly try to do a Deoxyribonucleic acid test (dna) on your children....


Don't ask me why cos your wife has said it all!

really sad

[quote author=Canadianelenu post=98116962]Recently, the increase in armed robberies and banditry has become a disturbing trend in Nigeria. It is even more horrendous when the men of the underworld not only steal when they attack but will also rape any unfortunate female caught in the invasion.

My wife and I were watching a real life crime documentary one evening and in the documentary, a lady was shot and killed after resisting rape advances from 6 men who invaded her residence.

Fortunately, the criminals were later caught using forensic evidence and paraded by law enforcement. These men were tough looking strongly built men who no doubts would have torn the lady apart if they had succeeded in raping her.

However, the shocker was when my wife of 4 years said, and I quote “she just died for nothing and has caused her family a lot of grief...if it were me, I would just let them have their way and live to see another day”.

Although this sounded very right, it also sounded very wrong at the same time and has since been messing with my head as I cannot get the picture out of my mind. We could both see that they were 6 hefty men and yet she felt she should have................

Ladies, am I over reacting and men, what do you think? How can something feel so right and so wrong simultaneously?[/quote

The lady in the documentary made her choice is a two way thing ....death or surviving rape from 6 hefty men is a life of
trauma ..even if it was one man..wasn't a smart talk from your wife..forgive me if I'm wrong.

NiRfreak:

With this kind of dirty mentality, Someone will fvvck your wife and I believe your only coping mechanism will be to commit suicide cos of vagina...Ode iranu

As they have fvcked yours and will continue to fvck her cos she enjoys it..oponu, swine

Federalcase:
Mr OP your wife is smart It's survival instincts, when she comes out alive and she will still go to police and forensics will take evidence of their DNA from her and they will be caught.
Stop thinking about it, she is a smart woman and pray nothing like that happens.

Forensics and DNA in Niggeria? You must be from US or something. You either have forgotten or dont know how Niggeria works.
Dont be surprised the police will start asking her dumb questions like "what did you wear?" or statements like " you must have done something because no one rapes like that....."

adeadeyera:
Put yourself in her position.
Some female robbers storm your home and demand that you sleep with them or get killed.
Your answer to this poser will determine whether you're sensible or just plain dumb.
So, because she's married to you, she should die senselessly abi?

What is in this life sef that people hold so dearly?

NiRfreak:

Obo lo ma pa mi.... That's for sure...I can die cos of vagina...spit on myself

Fixed

Canadianelenu:
Recently, the increase in armed robberies and banditry has become a disturbing trend in Nigeria. It is even more horrendous when the men of the underworld not only steal when they attack but will also rape any unfortunate female caught in the invasion.

My wife and I were watching a real life crime documentary one evening and in the documentary, a lady was shot and killed after resisting rape advances from 6 men who invaded her residence.

Fortunately, the criminals were later caught using forensic evidence and paraded by law enforcement. These men were tough looking strongly built men who no doubts would have torn the lady apart if they had succeeded in raping her.

However, the shocker was when my wife of 4 years said, and I quote “she just died for nothing and has caused her family a lot of grief...if it were me, I would just let them have their way and live to see another day”.

Although this sounded very right, it also sounded very wrong at the same time and has since been messing with my head as I cannot get the picture out of my mind. We could both see that they were 6 hefty men and yet she felt she should have................

Ladies, am I over reacting and men, what do you think? How can something feel so right and so wrong simultaneously?

Your wife is very smart ...you gat one life to live and if u die , someone else takes care if her ...

Hardgun:
She was right at the wrong time.

Smart guy... U have answered it all

IMASTEX:

Scanning. . . finally finds a sensible comment. Such mentality will obviously & gladly use her body to negotiate anything in time of needs. Life is valuable & everyone including clergymen will do anything to negotiate for it. But painting a rape case as a giveaway especially when the example is so personalised shows a high sense of disrespect & less value for her body. Many ladies don't like watching scenes of rape let alone assuming to be the person involved. It is simply her value system!

Well said

This is not a new situational question and the responses are usually 50-50.

50% think like your wife and 50% think like the lady who died.

Nothing your wife said is shocking. She would be acting like 50% of women in such a situation.

Also, let us not act as if many women do not experience sexual assault and rape as young adults, including in relationships.

Canadianelenu:
Recently, the increase in armed robberies and banditry has become a disturbing trend in Nigeria. It is even more horrendous when the men of the underworld not only steal when they attack but will also rape any unfortunate female caught in the invasion.

My wife and I were watching a real life crime documentary one evening and in the documentary, a lady was shot and killed after resisting rape advances from 6 men who invaded her residence.

Fortunately, the criminals were later caught using forensic evidence and paraded by law enforcement. These men were tough looking strongly built men who no doubts would have torn the lady apart if they had succeeded in raping her.

However, the shocker was when my wife of 4 years said, and I quote “she just died for nothing and has caused her family a lot of grief...if it were me, I would just let them have their way and live to see another day”.

Although this sounded very right, it also sounded very wrong at the same time and has since been messing with my head as I cannot get the picture out of my mind. We could both see that they were 6 hefty men and yet she felt she should have................

Ladies, am I over reacting and men, what do you think? How can something feel so right and so wrong simultaneously?

The subconscious mind is always active that word will always sink inside you and if care is not taking the love you have for her is going to wax cold though she was right but there are words that married woman are not suppose to say out she just committed an abomination.
Careless talk!

CalliDora1:
It's not right for her to make such a statement. It just goes to show how shallow some peoples' brains can be.

Does She think rape is pleasurable? For all she knows, the lady would have still died from being raped by those hefty men or worst still gotten infected with a deadly disease or ended with an unwanted pregnancy that will torment her for life.

The lady died a hero. And her death didn't go unavenged. so why is your wife saying she died for nothing?? She's narrow minded and cheap. You're not overreacting. In fact, if you can, show her my comment, let her learn how to reason and talk in matters like this.

Actually,there is a probability that she would have survived the Group Intimacy.
There is also a probability that none of the hefty men had a disease.
In fact,she would have sustained no injury if she had allowed them to have her without any resistance.
Concerning the pregnancy, I think the baby could be given to an orphanage home.
Furthermore,her death would not have stopped them from hurting others in her home or stealing.
Considering the statements above as a philosopher, I think she made sense.

Canadianelenu:
Recently, the increase in armed robberies and banditry has become a disturbing trend in Nigeria. It is even more horrendous when the men of the underworld not only steal when they attack but will also rape any unfortunate female caught in the invasion.

My wife and I were watching a real life crime documentary one evening and in the documentary, a lady was shot and killed after resisting rape advances from 6 men who invaded her residence.

Fortunately, the criminals were later caught using forensic evidence and paraded by law enforcement. These men were tough looking strongly built men who no doubts would have torn the lady apart if they had succeeded in raping her.

However, the shocker was when my wife of 4 years said, and I quote “she just died for nothing and has caused her family a lot of grief...if it were me, I would just let them have their way and live to see another day”.

Although this sounded very right, it also sounded very wrong at the same time and has since been messing with my head as I cannot get the picture out of my mind. We could both see that they were 6 hefty men and yet she felt she should have................

Ladies, am I over reacting and men, what do you think? How can something feel so right and so wrong simultaneously?

God bless your wife. She is sensible

Dis one off me guy...na wetin d guy wan hear be dis

MOLOTOVcockTAIL:

Chill Bros. Assuming it's reversed and you were in such life and death situation and you have seen this criminals kill someone who resisted, will you resist too? I bet your answer is NO.
Stop being petty abeg. Go find better thing use your time do before your wife see you finish.

chatinent:
I'm interested in the documentary first.

Quote it for me.

Ee be like you know it could be cooked up story. Let him refer the documentary.

Canadianelenu:
Recently, the increase in armed robberies and banditry has become a disturbing trend in Nigeria. It is even more horrendous when the men of the underworld not only steal when they attack but will also rape any unfortunate female caught in the invasion.

My wife and I were watching a real life crime documentary one evening and in the documentary, a lady was shot and killed after resisting rape advances from 6 men who invaded her residence.

Fortunately, the criminals were later caught using forensic evidence and paraded by law enforcement. These men were tough looking strongly built men who no doubts would have torn the lady apart if they had succeeded in raping her.

However, the shocker was when my wife of 4 years said, and I quote “she just died for nothing and has caused her family a lot of grief...if it were me, I would just let them have their way and live to see another day”.

Although this sounded very right, it also sounded very wrong at the same time and has since been messing with my head as I cannot get the picture out of my mind. We could both see that they were 6 hefty men and yet she felt she should have................

Ladies, am I over reacting and men, what do you think? How can something feel so right and so wrong simultaneously?

oga your wife is right , that is fifty fifty but waiting and been killed is foolishness , wouldn't the husband remarry? I a man I support her .

NiRfreak:

If it was your wife, you would have been happy if she said she would rather die than accept to be raped?Answer this question if you get any iota of sense left in ya skull

I'm talkn to the op, so pack well!

cayorday89:
She is very wrong for saying that, and if you both eventually find yourselves in such situation and she agrees to the demand of the robbers just to stay alive and you can't bear it, just take your own life.. Case settled..

both you and the 38 people wey like your trash de mad effortlessly

Canadianelenu:
Recently, the increase in armed robberies and banditry has become a disturbing trend in Nigeria. It is even more horrendous when the men of the underworld not only steal when they attack but will also rape any unfortunate female caught in the invasion.

My wife and I were watching a real life crime documentary one evening and in the documentary, a lady was shot and killed after resisting rape advances from 6 men who invaded her residence.

Fortunately, the criminals were later caught using forensic evidence and paraded by law enforcement. These men were tough looking strongly built men who no doubts would have torn the lady apart if they had succeeded in raping her.

However, the shocker was when my wife of 4 years said, and I quote “she just died for nothing and has caused her family a lot of grief...if it were me, I would just let them have their way and live to see another day”.

Although this sounded very right, it also sounded very wrong at the same time and has since been messing with my head as I cannot get the picture out of my mind. We could both see that they were 6 hefty men and yet she felt she should have................

Ladies, am I over reacting and men, what do you think? How can something feel so right and so wrong simultaneously?

that’s why women know how to survive better than men

CalliDora1:
It's not right for her to make such a statement. It just goes to show how shallow some peoples' brains can be.

Does She think rape is pleasurable? For all she knows, the lady would have still died from being raped by those hefty men or worst still gotten infected with a deadly disease or ended with an unwanted pregnancy that will torment her for life.

The lady died a hero. And her death didn't go unavenged. so why is your wife saying she died for nothing?? She's narrow minded and cheap. You're not overreacting. In fact, if you can, show her my comment, let her learn how to reason and talk in matters like this.

For a lady to make this statement i truly have been reading your comment before quoting, see everybody is entitled to thier opinion you respect people's opinions and don't judge them......see I don't think a wise person should even put him or herself in such situations to site an example



And as for op, oga you have a very wild imagination please don't take something that is nothing serious. I don't even know why you would take it serious it's just an opinion she has.


Don't put things that are not important in your mind,the mind is a magnet and can attract that which you put in it so let's becareful what we really take into the mind.



And finally it didn't happen to the lady she only just said if it's her(her opinion)

Canadianelenu:
Recently, the increase in armed robberies and banditry has become a disturbing trend in Nigeria. It is even more horrendous when the men of the underworld not only steal when they attack but will also rape any unfortunate female caught in the invasion.

My wife and I were watching a real life crime documentary one evening and in the documentary, a lady was shot and killed after resisting rape advances from 6 men who invaded her residence.

Fortunately, the criminals were later caught using forensic evidence and paraded by law enforcement. These men were tough looking strongly built men who no doubts would have torn the lady apart if they had succeeded in raping her.

However, the shocker was when my wife of 4 years said, and I quote “she just died for nothing and has caused her family a lot of grief...if it were me, I would just let them have their way and live to see another day”.

Although this sounded very right, it also sounded very wrong at the same time and has since been messing with my head as I cannot get the picture out of my mind. We could both see that they were 6 hefty men and yet she felt she should have................

Ladies, am I over reacting and men, what do you think? How can something feel so right and so wrong simultaneously?

Remember sometimes we say things that are different from what we do when we are faced with reality. Don't judge her yet untill you see her in action.
Her action will eventually determine your reaction not just verbal words.
Don't allow your mind to play game with you.

May God bless your home and may you always find wisdom in the affairs of your home.

Now let it slide

My2cent

For the first time people in this app are acting intelligent , am so glad for using this app today .

Hmmm....to me, I think you should put your self in her shoes Assuming you were your wife and was watching such a movie with your husband.
What would you do in such situation were six hefty men like you said, heavily built, rough looking came to rape you and its either that or you are dead? Having in mind that you now have your wife's physical strength becos you are now her.
What would you do in such situations of the movie

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CalliDora1:
It's not right for her to make such a statement. It just goes to show how shallow some peoples' brains can be.

Does She think rape is pleasurable? For all she knows, the lady would have still died from being raped by those hefty men or worst still gotten infected with a deadly disease or ended with an unwanted pregnancy that will torment her for life.

The lady died a hero. And her death didn't go unavenged. so why is your wife saying she died for nothing?? She's narrow minded and cheap. You're not overreacting. In fact, if you can, show her my comment, let her learn how to reason and talk in matters like this.

If it's in Nigeria, she died for nothing
We don't have such forensic expert here,
Nobody want to fight for your justice,
The woman is right and truthful 100 percent.
If female robbers storms Ur apartment and demand u sleep with them or get killed, Wil u choose death?
In life and death situations you choose life first then solution later

obawinner:
Remind me of a medical student who lost his life because he refused to drop his Samsung 6.

If he had drop his phone, he would have lived to buy another phone.

How do people love material stuff over their lives?

Oga, you talk like a child. E be like say u no get problem for your life.