Hi Cuties and Fellas!

We've seen a lot of people fall in love in different ways.

Some people promise to change if you could give them chance to come into your life.

Many people have been victims of this in the past.

A guy or lady will promise to change and become a better person but the reverse is the case once you allow them in your life.

I don't know if people do really change when they love someone.

Please let's discuss this question:

Do you believe people can change if they love someone?

Yes. I reduced my womanizing habit and I am close to stopping it.

Or maybe sometimes people did not actually change. Maybe you just never knew who they really were.

InfernoNig:
Yes. I reduced my womanizing habit and I am close to stopping it.

Did you reduce it because you love the person or because you're afraid of loosing the person?

LoveTalk:

Did you reduce it because you love the person or because you're afraid of loosing the person?

Both. Mostly because I love her and she had made me a better man.

No.

LoveTalk:
Hi Cuties and Fellas!

We've seen a lot of people fall in love in different ways.

Some people promise to change if you could give them chance to come into your life.

Many people have been victims of this in the past.

A guy or lady will promise to change and become a better person but the reverse is the case once you allow them in your life.

I don't know if people do really change when they love someone.

Please let's discuss this question:

Do you believe people can change if they love someone?


lalasticlala, mynd44, OAM4J, mukina2

Only an encounter with God can change a person permanently.

Anything outside that would be a temporary change. Meaning the person will return back to his/her default state once the love infatuation dies off

Nobody truly changes...I can boldly confirm this.

That's why it's always advisable to marry someone who possess the qualities you want in a spouse and not someone who you'll spend your whole life trying to bend to your taste.

People don't change

we wey no get lover nkor?

I think it's possible but hard

InfernoNig:

Both. Mostly because I love her and she had made me a better man.

Wow! You're such a lucky man to have encountered the damsel

LoveTalk:

Wow!
You're such a lucky man to have encountered the damsel

Definitely.

Nazgul:

Only an encounter with God can change a person permanently.

Anything outside that would be a temporary change. Meaning the person will return back to his/her default state once the love infatuation dies off

Nobody truly changes...I can boldly confirm this.

That's why it's always advisable to marry someone who possess the qualities you want in a spouse and not someone who you'll spend your whole life trying to bend to your taste.

There are situations in life in which people suddenly show us their true face. It may seem as if they have changed all of a sudden. But in reality, they simply dropped their mask and stopped pretending to be someone they are not. Of course, their true face can be quite beautiful just as much as it can be an evil grimace.

SmellySperm:
we wey no get lover nkor?

God will provide

LoveTalk:


There are situations in life in which people suddenly show us their true face. It may seem as if they have changed all of a sudden.

But in reality, they simply dropped their mask and stopped pretending to be someone they are not. Of course, their true face can be quite beautiful just as much as it can be an evil grimace.

We're saying the same thing...no one truly changes.

People don't change, dey only stop that habit just to impress that person after getting what they want, attitude returned.......

ojun50:
People don't change, dey only stop that habit just to impress that person after getting what they want, attitude returned.......

The thing is some people will fake the change so as so to satisfy the other person.

There was a story I heard about a lady and a guy, the lady is a good Christian and the guy started going to church because of her, he told her that we are serving the same God that he converted to Christian and they dated for 3 years before they got married. In fact, the guy became dipper even more than the lady.

But unfortunately, the second day of the marriage, the guy brought out his praying kettle and told the lady that, for good 3 years I have served your God, now it is time for you to serve my own God too. He said that he must not see her in church never again.

He deceived her that he's changed but after he got what he wanted, he showed his through colour.

This world is full of deceit, if you know someone deeply just hold on to the person, don't go and be looking for trouble.

Nazgul:
We're saying the same thing...no one truly changes.

I was trying to back up your points.

People change, for good yes, in fact pressure is going to change a lot of things about you when you are married, I mean pressure of responsibility shouldered by someone responsible, I'm not talking of wife wahala o

When talking about true love it's possible for someone to change.

LoveTalk:
Or maybe sometimes people did not actually change. Maybe you just never knew who they really were.

People change but just that not everything changes about them

Tajbol4splend:
People change, for good yes, in fact pressure is going to change a lot of things about you when you are married, I mean pressure of responsibility shouldered by someone responsible, I'm not talking of wife wahala o

Let me support your point by saying this:

Let’s face it, it’s not only other people that change. We ourselves change as well. This does not necessarily have to be a bad thing. In fact, when reflecting on the beliefs and opinions you held 5 or even 10 years ago, you might realize that many things changed for the better.

Tajbol4splend:


People change but just that not everything changes about them

Are saying people don’t change, they reveal who they really are?

LoveTalk:


Are saying people don’t change, they reveal who they really are?

No, certain things can change about you, before I got married, I was kinda slow in making my decisions, you know this lackadaisical attitude and it was really because I was the only one to be affected if there was to be any consequence

LoveTalk:

Let me support your point by saying this:

Let’s face it, it’s not only other people that change. We ourselves change as well. This does not necessarily have to be a bad thing. In fact, when reflecting on the beliefs and opinions you held 5 or even 10 years ago, you might realize that many things changed for the better.

Yeah you right, at some point in your life you outgrow some beliefs

Tajbol4splend:



Yeah you right, at some point in your life you outgrow some beliefs

Very true

Tajbol4splend:



No, certain things can change about you, before I got married, I was kinda slow in making my decisions, you know this lackadaisical attitude and it was really because I was the only one to be affected if there was to be any consequence

So, people do change right?

lalasticlala and mynd44 won't come out now ooooo. They should teach us something tonight nah

LoveTalk:

So, people do change right?

Of course I believe so but I just think not everything is going to change about them

the answer to this question is dicey. for me, it is like a talking drum that has two sides. it is possible and not. human beings hardly change except divine intervention.

LoveTalk:

If everyone changes, Lexusgs430 won't change.
lalasticlala won't even change talkless of mynd44

Change is for simps..........