chinedumc91:
My dear people in this great forum. I seriously need your advice.

I'm dating a deeper life lady, we have seen each other up to six times but four of our meetings were at eateries while the remaining two we met was her own house and I always go with gifts like shoes, sandals, slipper, clothes etc.

The issue now is that, I wanted her to at least know my place since we are both living in the same city. But she said no, that her parents wouldn't approve it even though, I told her to come along with her two sisters if possible. She insisted no is against her church.

In this last Xmas, she asked me to buy her Ankara materials, which I did but she was expecting me to either take her out and use the opportunity to bring the gifts I bought for her. But I used covid19 as an excuse. As I'm writing this now those gifts are still in my house.

Now, she urgently needs 50k to register her carry over courses and her parents said no money and she is crying everyday because Tuesday next week is the deadline.

She is begging me to either give her or borrow her the money. But I told her that there's limit of what I can do for her now since we have not yet married. In fact I told her it is against my church to be spending on her when we are yet to marry.

Note, we are getting married this year even though we have not started our church courtship.

What do you advice me to do.

Cholls:
My brothers should we tell him?

boom99:
I married as a virgin too. One thing that helped me is d rules set my lifer. 'when you wanna visit a sister don't go alone'. Though the Hallmark is knowing God 'experiencially', you cannot fall

Yippeedaniel:
Young king.. Be street wise, ths religious girls can be so ghetto.. I pray what happened to me don't happen to you. E go shock u

Cholls:
My brothers should we tell him?

Tohsynetita1:

As a believer, I don't support this,
How will one know her deeds, hates, likes, manner, though not everything can be revealed but at least, much will be known.
What am only against is sex before marriage.

Righteousness2:
That's a special woman you have there.
You may not know or value her now.
She is doing all she can to help you, herself and the Family you two will become.

Coming to Know your House might look harmless and innocent, but that harmless action could cause you two to Defile your marriage and open the door for the devil to strike.
The devil is smarter than what you know. That guy could Collaspe your glorious destiny in less than 2mins.

As for your gifts to her, you are not bound to give her. It's your choice to make. But if you know she is really the woman you wanna marry and you have the cash, I Advice you to give it to her.

Yippeedaniel:
Young king.. Be street wise, ths religious girls can be so ghetto.. I pray what happened to me don't happen to you. E go shock u

Kingosytex:
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Gibberish.

Righteousness2:

Criminal of the Federal Republic!
We have taken note of you.

You will Caught in your Nefarious Dubious very very soon..
We will parade you here on this Platform

Harddiskng:


So if his refusal to drop 50k for a girl that doesn’t have the common sense to learn about the living condition of her man marks the end of the relationship.... what does tell you?

HenryThegreat1:

You are very wrong on this. Deeper marry from other churches. About 3 of my friends married from there.

HenryThegreat1:
But some churches rules about dating and courtship shall.
What of if the lady in question does not know how to cook or do other important house chores.

Kingosytex:


The bolded signifies you.

Your stupidity will soon catch up with you.

You derail threads with your incoherent rants...You better go find a job because Seun only pays his Mods and no one else.

Righteousness2:


We have taken note of your Criminal activities here.
You are Proud to dupe people of their sweat and put it out.
You don't know u are Cursed!
Veryvery Soon! You will boldly advertised here and thrown into where you belong.
We are marking you closely

Righteousness2:


We have taken note of your Criminal activities here.
You are Proud to dupe people of their sweat and put it out.
You don't know u are Cursed!
Veryvery Soon! You will boldly advertised here and thrown into where you belong.
We are marking you closely

TrueChristians:
In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven.

NipseyHustle:

No. I was tired of the US so I faked my death.
I'm currently living in ikotun, Lagos. It's fun and I'm enjoying life.

Righteousness2:
That's a special woman you have there.
You may not know or value her now.
She is doing all she can to help you, herself and the Family you two will become.

Coming to Know your House might look harmless and innocent, but that harmless action could cause you two to Defile your marriage and open the door for the devil to strike.
The devil is smarter than what you know. That guy could Collaspe your glorious destiny in less than 2mins.

As for your gifts to her, you are not bound to give her. It's your choice to make. But if you know she is really the woman you wanna marry and you have the cash, I Advice you to give it to her.